Originally posted by: mango.falooda
thats why I don't have any reaction either way; I have seen way too much real life drama in hospital hallways as well as heard of lots of drama. (lots of sick relatives 😟) people are not quite sane in many such crisis. and especially when it comes to co-ordination, it really needs to be done responsibily. it causes incredible stress when people don't tell each other that they are also looking for blood donors or oxygen cylinders or room etc etc . instead, best is when people all get in the same group chat and say who they are talking to.
also, it causes confusion and stress from the hospital side as well. as his wife, she would be the one signing off on any proceedure. however, if she is not there, then they have to get consent signature from another family member. however, if the chain of command is not clear, then you have random family members pulling rank with hospital staff and creating chaos as well.
so in such situations, it is really important that one or two family members take charge and co-ordinate and keep everyone informed. this way, chaos is controlled and people are less stressed because they all know what is going on. now, imlie is inexperienced but she is also a lone shooter. she does not know how to do teamwork which is a real problem. so yea, this is a hard lesson for her to mature and learn in a way. 🤷