Originally posted by: Summer_bunny
I do understand your POV and I am totally with it.....lets see what happens tomorrow and I too hope that its a dream, bcoz hug to thappar is a lot of change to adapt within 2 freakin episodes😳
I was just trying to bring out another perspective..bcoz tbh for me getting slapped by my own mom is quite normal (ONLY MY MOM) and thats bcoz i give her the right and its my personal thing and no one will decide my relationship with my mom...and I think its not about living in 20th century its about how we take it individually, for me Narmada slapping Imlie as a mom in law is unacceptable in every single way, and I wont tolerate it at any cost, but as I said..its a individual thing so everyone will have a different take on this.....
My reply was entirely based on my own thinking + the type of relationship Narmada and Imlie shares..
Anyway...I still hope that its Jo's dream bcoz if Narmada slaps her bcoz of BM I will be really mad😠bcoz that slap will be by a MIL who holds her DIL responsible for her sons condition...and that will be Domestic Violence.
Enlightened, I am tagging you here coz I think my reply would be the same for you as well😳
Bold - That's how I too look at it. The relation between me and my parents is way too personal that we both do not mind encroaching our personal spaces to some extent. But with our son, though the encroaching & all is somewhat similar, the limit he has set is more on the middle ground. In both cases, respect is there; but the difference between the former and latter is that I understand & accept our parents thoughtprocess even though it might appear intrusive at times, while our son though he might understand our concerns, is not ready to accept such behaviours. 😊