Rupi's emancipation and Aparna's acceptance - Page 5

kalam chalaane wala makes us roll our eyes sometimes with his nautanki but this is too sweet haha him fixing Imlie's duppatta...also a glimpse of Imlie's garba look❤️...and not to miss his taana about how if he can bear Imlie's taane ka talwaar then sui kya cheez hai😆...this cartoon lol😆

PS - if any of you don't want me to tag you with the spoilers please let me know..and humka maaf kijiye pleej cuz it occurred to me after I added the tags😆

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iyNXYy6pzq0

Originally posted by: GaramTawa

And like you said real life mein toh woh ego plays such a driving force to maintain the ghussa or whatever...I guess even if it's been a 100 freaking episodes lol it was relatively quicker for Aparna cuz it was more zidd than ego in a way..zidd mein toh amma-bitwa same same like you guys were discussing so haan this would only happen when Aparna herself decided to open her eyes lol.....whenever I think of her zidd lol I cant stop the visual of her chomping on the mirchis at the best bahu quiz🤣.....like that active resistance ki ek baar jhoot bola toh all Imlie's acchai is forgotten aur dhokha kiya...that zidd to remain blind to everything you know is this girl's core and love about her....but you also can't just turn away from someone who itni shiddat se and itne fiercely fights for her parivaar on the daily...Imlie's like a lifeforce..jaise duniya ki saari goodness and purity is spilling over...you can't help but be drawn to her...❤️

Just like her son and pretty much everyone else haha it's Aparna who's drawn to Imlie..even if she's like Imlie paas aati thi hehe...I remember that bit after the press conference when she just was hovering around cuz she wanted to come and comfort her bacchi....and haan yeh dono apna pyaar bahut openly jataate hai so Id like that hug too hehe..dono logon ko kaise kaskar hug karte hai😆....and also cuz the last time was with Aparna only no...jab woh ink fiasco ke baad she came back home and Aparna ran to comfort her💔

@bold: That's exactly what it is....and here I'd push back against the arguments that Aparna is only melting after seeing what Imlie does for the family. I have always felt that any good-hearted person will be drawn to the core of Imlie which is just shining with a pure light - she personifies goodness and warmth to that level that if you are a genuine person, you will be drawn to it.....that is why she wins over so many people. It's not something she actively tries for - she is literally a personification of light and ultimately everyone is drawn to light, not darkness. This is what those who resent her don't get.....apni khud ki shortcomings ki wajah se Imlie ko resent karte hain. You don't need to be like someone to still feel a sense of self-worth. Imlie is hardly asking others to be like her - she is loved for who she is naturally. You don't need to be superhuman to be loved......but if you do something with that level of genuine sincerity - it will break through to people sooner or later. That is what has happened in the case of every good person in this story - they ultimately come to see Imlie for who she is and that is why they fall in love with her.....not over what all she does FOR them.

As for Loservedis - they are all born darkness so they will never be genuine on any level. Baad mein psycho ki whitewashing ka try kar bhi lein but she is incapable of really understanding why Imlie is loved and valued by so many people. Psycho is pure darkness and she will never value or understand the light - only envy it from a distance.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

yeh lo special edition of Thappad and jhadoo kha😆😉 esp for Meri AY ji

Hahahaha I LOVE ALL OF THEM⭐️😆.....Thank you so much! This wala Thappad Khaa is so much more satisfying than pichhla wala.....the thappad is more karaara in this.....upar se Imlie ka PUNCH bhi hai🤣....oh man, so much material to use for future scenes😆......Jhaadu bhi🤣

Jeeju ne achhe se maar khaayi.....a round of applause to him for that👏😆

That reminds me, I keep forgetting to mention how cute it was to see Rupi giggling each time Imlie called this Pranav - "khajoor ka beej"😆

Originally posted by: GaramTawa

kalam chalaane wala makes us roll our eyes sometimes with his nautanki but this is too sweet haha him fixing Imlie's duppatta...also a glimpse of Imlie's garba look❤️...and not to miss his taana about how if he can bear Imlie's taane ka talwaar then sui kya cheez hai😆...this cartoon lol😆

PS - if any of you don't want me to tag you with the spoilers please let me know..and humka maaf kijiye pleej cuz it occurred to me after I added the tags😆

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iyNXYy6pzq0

Aww Babusahib sui-dhaaga bhi chalaa ke dikhaayenge ab?😆

Taano ka reference abhi bhi jaari hai? hahaha but what symbolism in Adi actually trying to REPAIR something.....Imlie ka dupatta repair karte karte aage ke issues bhi repair kar lo, Babusahib *jodoes haath*.....lol dare I hope that this is foreshadowing ki Babusahib aage bhi sab kuch repair karenge? Usually toh yeh koi kaam nahin karta.....lol but they are showing him doing some kaam now toh thodi ummeed jaag rahi hai😆.

Also cute how he just plopped down on Imlie ka kona to do this repairing ka kaam😆.....hope it's more than just the usual token 1-2 minute scene.....haha dekhte hain kya milta hai.

Oh and Imlie's garba look does seem cute :) I guess the ladies will all wear shades of orange....couldn't clearly make out the color of Adi's kurta though....maybe some shade of green again? lol

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

edit: seems like they are tryign to hide from her ke surprise iska hai shayad.. lol at sadi shaklein od losers,, but anyway this will be on today's telecast i guess caz according to spoielrs to next day hai and filhaal sab kkhusal mangal hi hai shayad they wore these outfits yeterday ka BTS

Yes, looks like they are trying to hide the surprise from her and direct garba function mein dikhaane ka plan hoga kuch.......lol but inka popat na ho jaaye ki surprise ke build up mein bechaari Imlie tak surprise hi na pahunche and alag disha pakad lein phir se😆.

She's wearing the same outfit she wore also for shooting that promotion bit with HC for YRKKH....lol toh lagta hai haan ki yeh sab aaj hi air hoga.....5 minute toh is promotion scene mein nikaal denge aur baaki Loservedis drama mein I guess.....lol.....AC aayegi to do drama on her psycho beti's behalf I guess ki haaye meri AKELI beti ke baare mein socho blah blah.....I guess thoda effort toh daalengi maa-beti again in asking for M being accepted as bahu.....lol dekhte hain phir Aparna ji kya bolti hain😛

Thanks for the thread and everyone for awesome review....

Watched the epi... will have to say almost same thing as most have been already been said.

I liked the epi as I found it wholesome and meaty with content. Two major loop coming to end.

Pranav drama as expected finished. But the actor was nice and not boring on screen just like someone other. Bad characters can be interesting if presented in interesting way.

Rupi is now a free person in real sense. IT was all due to Imlie, she took lots of patience to make Rupi realize the truth. Rupi's long running burden is gone, she can see the things in clear now. This was much needed for her to move forward. Good content of naari shakti was shown and it was beautifully presented. What a progressive women Imlie is and not by words but by act too, she has proved it so many times. Rupi words were beautiful too... why was she holding on 2 Pranav and she is right, its not between two of them but there are so many relations interwind. But there has to be a limit and person even an inch deserving. But she broke the thread today for Good. Happy for Rupi. See Rupi's dialogue was answer to the people on morcha about self respect.

The Adi Babu came and gave dialogue on Naari Shakti - yeah we know how much you believe in it kyunki uske bharose toh you sat in jail for case to be solved by your Naari Shakti😆. In Navratri track they concluded Naari Shakti in nice way and I liked it unlike the Janmashtami track... jahan sab Gur ka gobar ker diya tha inlogon ne.

Now coming to Aparna - Ohh i was so angry on her but when she is good she is so sweet. I loved talke between PT and AT, what an understanding they have. she confessed today and much needed ... so long running thing came in open... thoyh humen to pehle hee pata chal gaya tha but open confession was much needed and it was done beautifully... I like the small things that they do in this show which is so much different than most. She has realized long back and was trying to reach to Imlie but was hesitant with the way she has behaved with her...She wants the same Imlie as old with her. She is jealous of Imlie not running and coming to her... awww that was soo soo sweet. In all this talk, Aparna was missing her daughter Imlie more that Bahu wala part. She being Adi wife she has accepted from within but what i loved it how she is more focused on her bacchi Imlie than her being a bahu..... Imlie is Bahu and no doubt she will do anything for family... PT realized it way before and Aparna too long back but she is hesitant to speak... kis muh se bole... Loved how PT explained - it is very simple when Imlie is concerned.

Aww again as how she smiled on her plan too surprise Imlie. Imlie style... Ohh they love her. Aparna is Adi ke competitor 😆.

Precap me that crazy lady is going all crazy. Let her do her pagalpanti and i liked the exposure idea as suggested by NM.

Originally posted by: tellyme

Aww again as how she smiled on her plan too surprise Imlie. Imlie style... Ohh they love her. Aparna is Adi ke competitor 😆.

Of course they love her.....they ADORE her....always have😆. Wohi difference hai ki jahaan kisi ne sach mein dil se Imlie ko apna maana tha, woh rishta found its way back despite so much gussa/hurt/mistrust clouding judgements for so long. There were many points along the way where it was obvious that holding on to the anger was hard for Aparna.....her reaction the first time Imlie called her "Maa".....I still remember - ekdum HIL gayi thi Aparna.....lol you don't have such a visceral reaction to something unless there isn't a genuine deep emotional attachment. Yes, she rushed to cover up any softening with anger and harshness each time - but the mask slipped many times and we saw your core love for Imlie, Aparna ji😆.

I have to draw the contrast between Aparna and Malini again precisely for this reason - they both felt betrayed when the truth was revealed to them.....but how they handled it was a world apart. Aparna didn't hide her anger behind fake mahaanta or goodiness - she expressed her anger unvarnished even when it got very ugly and hateful.....but fakeness ke saath dabaya nahin andar....she processed the full spectrum of her emotions.

While Malini who is a born fakeness ki dukaan just showed more fakeness in the aftermath of the truth reveal also in the need to milk sympathy and play fake martyr.....ultimately everything is just an act with her - a means to an end. That is why she is now thrashing around in frustration cuz her put on acts haven't gotten her what she wanted.

Notice how Aparna never GLOATED in Imlie's misery....she showed happiness over wanting to see AM together etc but she wasn't going around trying to make Imlie grovel before her....that is the difference between her anger and Malini's anger.....Malini needs that feeling of superiority to live....that is why at every point, she has only been about gloating over her so called perceived "wins" over Imlie.....that is why her so called "sisterly love" for Imlie was never genuine - it's always about me, myself and I for Malini - usmein ek behen ke liye kahaan jagah hai. Meanwhile Aparna genuinely considered Imlie her daughter and that is why even though she put down Imlie so much in her anger phase - it was never about gloating or glorying in Imlie's misery.....despite all the crap Aparna talked in calling Imlie a naukrani, unworthy etc. - she clearly never actually treated Imlie like a naukrani in the house....her stance was more like she just wants Imlie GONE.....lol....usko haath nahin lagaane deti thi kisi cheez ko etc. but she never actually considered Imlie inferior like Malini did......the rest was hype for drama. Again, it's important to express your actual emotions rather than being fakeness ki dukaan.....Aparna did express her emotions - no matter how ugly and she got to the other side of her anger. But that is also because she was a genuine person to begin with unlike fakester Malini.

Oh and I also have to mention -

We've discussed the weak-minded nature of the Ts many times, but it's important to celebrate their overcoming of those shortcomings today👏.....Rupi definitely had this moment a long time coming. She's been a strong voice for many other issues but this was always her Achilles heel that people like AC tried to use against her by taunting her about her husband leaving her. Rupi needed to process these emotions to rediscover her sense of self-worth beyond people trying to define her as an "abandoned wife". So it was definitely wonderful to see her expressing that she doesn't need Pranav or anyone like him in her life and she is looking to start her life anew at long last👏

I would really like to hope they give Rupi a nice second chance track but that would require them to think beyond showing Psycho Bojhini ki endless chaals😆......anyways abhi ke liye itna diya, uske liye bhi badi meherbaani.....lol

Divorce kisi ne mention nahin kiya toh I'm guessing yeh bhi sab offline kar denge and baad mein bataa denge ki Rupi finalized her divorce with Pranav while he was in jail only😆.

Much as it frustrates us to see Ts usually succumbing so easily to anyone trying to influence their weak minds, it's nice when they do manage to overcome those shackles and find some strength in themselves again. Today was a day to celebrate that👍🏼.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: That's exactly what it is....and here I'd push back against the arguments that Aparna is only melting after seeing what Imlie does for the family. I have always felt that any good-hearted person will be drawn to the core of Imlie which is just shining with a pure light - she personifies goodness and warmth to that level that if you are a genuine person, you will be drawn to it.....that is why she wins over so many people. It's not something she actively tries for - she is literally a personification of light and ultimately everyone is drawn to light, not darkness. This is what those who resent her don't get.....apni khud ki shortcomings ki wajah se Imlie ko resent karte hain. You don't need to be like someone to still feel a sense of self-worth. Imlie is hardly asking others to be like her - she is loved for who she is naturally. You don't need to be superhuman to be loved......but if you do something with that level of genuine sincerity - it will break through to people sooner or later. That is what has happened in the case of every good person in this story - they ultimately come to see Imlie for who she is and that is why they fall in love with her.....not over what all she does FOR them.

As for Loservedis - they are all born darkness so they will never be genuine on any level. Baad mein psycho ki whitewashing ka try kar bhi lein but she is incapable of really understanding why Imlie is loved and valued by so many people. Psycho is pure darkness and she will never value or understand the light - only envy it from a distance.

But as you said Genuine people... not loservadies can see this as they are complete fake from top to bottom, outside to inside

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Of course they love her.....they ADORE her....always have😆. Wohi difference hai ki jahaan kisi ne sach mein dil se Imlie ko apna maana tha, woh rishta found its way back despite so much gussa/hurt/mistrust clouding judgements for so long. There were many points along the way where it was obvious that holding on to the anger was hard for Aparna.....her reaction the first time Imlie called her "Maa".....I still remember - ekdum HIL gayi thi Aparna.....lol you don't have such a visceral reaction to something unless there isn't a genuine deep emotional attachment. Yes, she rushed to cover up any softening with anger and harshness each time - but the mask slipped many times and we saw your core love for Imlie, Aparna ji😆.

I have to draw the contrast between Aparna and Malini again precisely for this reason - they both felt betrayed when the truth was revealed to them.....but how they handled it was a world apart. Aparna didn't hide her anger behind fake mahaanta or goodiness - she expressed her anger unvarnished even when it got very ugly and hateful.....but fakeness ke saath dabaya nahin andar....she processed the full spectrum of her emotions.

While Malini who is a born fakeness ki dukaan just showed more fakeness in the aftermath of the truth reveal also in the need to milk sympathy and play fake martyr.....ultimately everything is just an act with her - a means to an end. That is why she is now thrashing around in frustration cuz her put on acts haven't gotten her what she wanted.

Notice how Aparna never GLOATED in Imlie's misery....she showed happiness over wanting to see AM together etc but she wasn't going around trying to make Imlie grovel before her....that is the difference between her anger and Malini's anger.....Malini needs that feeling of superiority to live....that is why at every point, she has only been about gloating over her so called perceived "wins" over Imlie.....that is why her so called "sisterly love" for Imlie was never genuine - it's always about me, myself and I for Malini - usmein ek behen ke liye kahaan jagah hai. Meanwhile Aparna genuinely considered Imlie her daughter and that is why even though she put down Imlie so much in her anger phase - it was never about gloating or glorying in Imlie's misery.....despite all the crap Aparna talked in calling Imlie a naukrani, unworthy etc. - she clearly never actually treated Imlie like a naukrani in the house....her stance was more like she just wants Imlie GONE.....lol....usko haath nahin lagaane deti thi kisi cheez ko etc. but she never actually considered Imlie inferior like Malini did......the rest was hype for drama. Again, it's important to express your actual emotions rather than being fakeness ki dukaan.....Aparna did express her emotions - no matter how ugly and she got to the other side of her anger. But that is also because she was a genuine person to begin with unlike fakester Malini.

Aparna and Ts always loved Imlie... her sweetness... and thus they are slowlly being drawn again to her simple yet magnatic personality...

Also to say... i loved the way they have shown various shades of Imlie Apu relation and now when it will bond it will be felt so genuine and adored.... It's not just leads here.. Saas Bahu as well has lived their phases of relation and that is what is going to make it enjoyable... Gussa .. maanana.. care.... all have been blended to make the relation of Saas Bahu or say Maa beti the one to watch for.

I am happy that more than reediming the fake sister sister relation they focused on building Maa Beti ka real rishta.... going thru several phases.