Rupi's emancipation and Aparna's acceptance - Page 3

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Yeah, the way they are now showing Aparna fully focused on making amends with Imlie, baby ka miscarriage will also not serve any real purpose at this time other than just prolonging a few more days ka drama. The way Aparna spoke of her acceptance of Imlie showed that she has fully realized Imlie is the rightful wife of Adi.....toh is sab mein baby is not a factor for her at all.....lol Didi apni fantasies mein hi reh gayi ki baby will make Ts consider her ghar ki bahu cuz woh "waaris" carry kar rahi hai....but Aparna apne aap hi bol rahi hai ki the very courtroom jismein Didi ne pregnancy announce ki, usi din se Aparna ne Imlie ko mann mein bahu maanna shuru kar diya🤣......toh aise ke chalte toh I don't see any scope where Aparna feels a compulsion to consider Malini a bahu over the baby.

So yeah, higher chances ki ab sab pardafaash karke niptaayein Malini ka bhi bakwaas.....NDE is the better route to go for drama and usmein hi kar lein sab reveals manage including a possible fake pregnancy which would be a good way to clear the pending baggage in one go....bahut drag ho gaya hai....they do need to show good prevailing for a bit atleast.

As we were discussing earlier, M is always triggered when Imlie gets acceptance or appreciation - and wohi ho raha hai....Aparna's acceptance of Imlie is going to drive M into doing something big....but again, just like the pregnancy revelation was a "big" thing that still didn't change Adi ka basic stance of "Sirf Imlie humari patni hai", whatever M tries now also vis a vis the baby/miscarriage is unlikely to change Aparna's stance of "Imlie hi meri bahu hai"😆.

Imlie ka NDE will give the most paisa vasool drama in all this, especially if we get Psycho ka meltdown in front of the whole family as she tries to attack Imlie......lol but let's see makers kaun disaa jaate hain.

Ashthar didi is loosing it .. ideal would be her trying to attack imlie but usse pehle her admitting her kaands in public maybe they can show she is only saying to.imlie ke maine yeh yeh kar lia and koi mic ya kuch on reh jaaye outside somewhere and everyone will hear it..which is why the tyohaar is needed and they all run to save imlie...baaki har jagah toh aisa hi reveal hota hai that would make for a worthy drama.. her saying her truths in between this garba since then might have a DJ type setup Na and usme yeh sab kaand apne maan le even better accept ke isne rape ke baad bacha tak manufacturer lia but the truth remains adi still wants imlie to be the wife toh woh nahi chodegi as she is out to harm imlie anyway by precao with lagaooing aag and all and phir jo bhi attack kare all of them iska ilaaj karooing and panicking over Imlie ek saath..that will be soooooo bindaas and worth every sec of the wait..

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Ashthar didi is loosing it .. ideal would be her trying to attack imlie but usse pehle her admitting her kaands in public maybe they can show she is only saying to.imlie ke maine yeh yeh ka rlia and jou mic ya kuch on reh jaaye outside somewhere and and hear it..which is why the tyohaar is needed and they all run to save imlie...baaki har jagah toh aisa hi revel hota hai that would make for a worthy drama.. her saying her truths in between this garba since then might have a DJ type setup Na and usme yeh sab kaand apne maan le even better accept ke isne rape ke baad bacha tak manufacturer lia but refine still wants imlie to be the wife toh woh nahi chidegi as she is out to harm imlie anyway by orecao witb lagaooing aag and all and ohir jo bhi attack kre all fo them iska ilaaj karooing and panicking over imlje ek saath..that will be soooooo bindaas and worth every sec of the wait..

Love this!

This reminded me of the janmashtami track when didi did blurt out and confess but everyone were drugged and so nobody heard it but this time around the opposite might happen!

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Ashthar didi is loosing it .. ideal would be her trying to attack imlie but usse pehle her admitting her kaands in public maybe they can show she is only saying to.imlie ke maine yeh yeh ka rlia and jou mic ya kuch on reh jaaye outside somewhere and and hear it..which is why the tyohaar is needed and they all run to save imlie...baaki har jagah toh aisa hi revel hota hai that would make for a worthy drama.. her saying her truths in between this garba since then might have a DJ type setup Na and usme yeh sab kaand apne maan le even better accept ke isne rape ke baad bacha tak manufacturer lia but refine still wants imlie to be the wife toh woh nahi chidegi as she is out to harm imlie anyway by orecao witb lagaooing aag and all and ohir jo bhi attack kre all fo them iska ilaaj karooing and panicking over imlje ek saath..that will be soooooo bindaas and worth every sec of the wait..

Yeah wohi....all the signs are pointing towards Malini losing it and baby card toh already play kar liya hai......I don't see how she can plan for a miscarriage right now either cuz isko khud bhi apna baby yaad nahin hai aajkal - na hi AC ko.....lol warna yeh dono har dusre scene mein mention karte the. Unless it's all randomly brought back for drama, I see higher chances of maa-beti planning ki sab kuch try karke dekh liya, ab ek hi cheez bachi hai - Imlie ko hi raaste se hataa do. The burning of Imlie's picture by psycho Didi did feel symbolic but dekhte hain what level they take it to in the actual epis......

I like your DJ wala idea.....lol Didi hot mike pe apne saare kaand blurt out karde🤣.....and yes would be bumper bonanza if wahin maan le ki kabhi baby tha hi nahin.....lol

Jo bhi ho, point toh prove ho gaya ki Adi and the Ts are in their own zone with Imlie - unko koi farak nahin padta aur kaun ghar mein reh raha hai aur kis reason se.....lol unke liye biwi/bahu sirf Imlie hi hai - baaki koi bhi padaa rahe irrelevent hokar.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeah wohi....all the signs are pointing towards Malini losing it and baby card toh already play kar liya hai......I don't see how she can plan for a miscarriage right now either cuz isko khud bhi apna baby yaad nahin hai aajkal - na hi AC ko.....lol warna yeh dono har dusre scene mein mention karte the. Unless it's all randomly brought back for drama, I see higher chances of maa-beti planning ki sab kuch try karke dekh liya, ab ek hi cheez bachi hai - Imlie ko hi raaste se hataa do. The burning of Imlie's picture by psycho Didi did feel symbolic but dekhte hain what level they take it to in the actual epis......

I like your DJ wala idea.....lol Didi hot mike pe apne saare kaand blurt out karde🤣.....and yes would be bumper bonanza if wahin maan le ki kabhi baby tha hi nahin.....lol

Jo bhi ho, point toh prove ho gaya ki Adi and the Ts are in their own zone with Imlie - unko koi farak nahin padta aur kaun ghar mein reh raha hai aur kis reason se.....lol unke liye biwi/bahu sirf Imlie hi hai - baaki koi bhi padaa rahe irrelevent hokar.

Lmao yes.. and I just choked at iska haq haq jaq haq karna and aparna being chill as cucumber ke woh toh long overdue hai imlie ka 🤣vessel she is. Honestly they all would would be way too happy with the baby apni maa ke saath dafah hooing bas majboori main padi hai🤣 aaj kal toh NN HAVE Also stopped bothering about the kid

Thanks for the thread AY :)

Finally a pardafaash in the show lol...Ill take it as a dry run for the big event😆

Team work from all girls in helping out Imlie didi with both their bal and bhuddhi haha.....glad Rupi ne bhi dimaag use kiya and uske soul sister par bharosa...she can finally move on with closure and no uncertainty about kami kisme thi👍🏼...a question she's asked in so many ways over the years.....baaki Powerful Imliya's serial thappad session was entertaining as ever haha and I liked how they shot the sequence...hahaah loved the jhaadu bit in the end where she smacked his face right into the police's hands🤣

Nice bit with the whole family when Adi got back...Radha and BK apologising that unse bhool huyi to not let her have a choice...hope they remember that when she brings up the divorce if ever lol....and i liked the bit where Adi looks at Aparna for janam and the straight at Imlie for aakri saans tak acknowledging their importance to him❤️

Awww at proud Papa ginwaaoning all of Imlie's demonstrations of asli himmat...he's really so proud of his bacchi and her ability to sambhaalo everything...and Aparna still unsure ki kaise baat kare...well I hope you would be after the months of ghussa induced bakwaas Aparna ji😆...but aww at mama ghonchu ki ab Imlie sabse pehle uske paas nahi aati🥺...yeh baat sabse zyaada chubti hai haha..both amma-bitwa ko sirf Imlie paas mein chahiye bas😆...aur kyun nahi woh eternal sunshine jo hai....excited to see maa-papa ke Imlie style garba plans❤️

Also aww at everyone's prayers always coming back to the wellbeing of the parivaar❤️...and Sundar's to padh likh kar like Imlie and open a bartan agency lol and NN's to remove those who do gudgobar and always having tasty pakwaan at home😆..they've got their priorities sorted😆

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Rapist Didi's in peak psycho mode in the precap as expected whenever Imlie's given her rightful darja....so dhamaka depends on what 'yahaan' means I guess..ghar or duniya...jo bhi ho ultimate end toh iska EPIC FAIL as always....also since we're still at Navratri may be there might be a manifestation of all the foreshadowing and dialogues of good over evil for dusshera after all....jo bhi hai dekh lenge aur seh lenge as long as isko side mein rakho as they've been doing

Originally posted by: GaramTawa

Thanks for the thread AY :)

Finally a pardafaash in the show lol...Ill take it as a dry run for the big event😆

Team work from all girls in helping out Imlie didi with both their bal and bhuddhi haha.....glad Rupi ne bhi dimaag use kiya and uske soul sister par bharosa...she can finally move on with closure and no uncertainty about kami kisme thi👍🏼...a question she's asked in so many ways over the years.....baaki Powerful Imliya's serial thappad session was entertaining as ever haha and I liked how they shot the sequence...hahaah loved the jhaadu bit in the end where she smacked his face right into the police's hands🤣

Nice bit with the whole family when Adi got back...Radha and BK apologising that unse bhool huyi to not let her have a choice...hope they remember that when she brings up the divorce if ever lol....and i liked the bit where Adi looks at Aparna for janam and the straight at Imlie for aakri saans tak acknowledging their importance to him❤️

Awww at proud Papa ginwaaoning all of Imlie's demonstrations of asli himmat...he's really so proud of his bacchi and her ability to sambhaalo everything...and Aparna still unsure ki kaise baat kare...well I hope you would be after the months of ghussa induced bakwaas Aparna ji😆...but aww at mama ghonchu ki ab Imlie sabse pehle uske paas nahi aati🥺...yeh baat sabse zyaada chubti hai haha..both amma-bitwa ko sirf Imlie paas mein chahiye bas😆...aur kyun nahi woh eternal sunshine jo hai....excited to see maa-papa ke Imlie style garba plans❤️

Also aww at everyone's prayers always coming back to the wellbeing of the parivaar❤️...and Sundar's to padh likh kar like Imlie and open a bartan agency lol and NN's to remove those who do gudgobar and always having tasty pakwaan at home😆..they've got their priorities sorted😆

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Rapist Didi's in peak psycho mode in the precap as expected whenever Imlie's given her rightful darja....so dhamaka depends on what 'yahaan' means I guess..ghar or duniya...jo bhi ho ultimate end toh iska EPIC FAIL as always....also since we're still at Navratri may be there might be a manifestation of all the foreshadowing and dialogues of good over evil for dusshera after all....jo bhi hai dekh lenge aur seh lenge as long as isko side mein rakho as they've been doing

😆 yes sundar wanting to ope butler's ke agency too freaking cute.. I do wish someday they show him progress little by little too. Imlie should finally start taking his classes though it was bit of a flip caz imlie has offered him multiple times before and he has been always am content with where I am aaj isko padhna hai but good.. they should show small progress made for a happy positive messaging and track.. I would love to watch it in parallel anyday😆

NN ka toh koi plan hai hi nahi kabhi PD jaane ka and they all just never remember ke beti ke saath beti ki Amma bhi hai phansi hui. 🤣 i wish they show imlie hi remembering her Amma kabse yeh wali Amma bitwa scene nahi mila. 😒😔😔

Rofl aaj radha ji ko yaad aaya ke nishu need good health and Mata should shower them with that warna toh nishu again is fit and fine🤣

A good end to the short track of another useless villain ie. Pranav.

Rupi- The track was introduced with Rupi lamenting to Imlie about still living in the memories of happy times spent with Pranav & her not being able to move on. She asked for a reality check from SM so that she can finally move on in her life & SM provided it promptly with the drug case track. She was wary to accept the repentant husband but still did so just to believe that finally she is having a HEA. As she mentioned today, she always blamed herself for not being enough & hence her eagerness to accept what seemed like a good turn of fate. But she never could trust Pranav's assurances full fledged. Though she asked Imlie to not interfere between them but she herself didn't actually trust him. But today after realising that Pranav was only doing drama of being sorry & actually didn't want her back, she finally was able to break free of her mindset that she was the one at fault for her failed relationship.

It has been a long arduous journey for Rupi as well. We learnt today that she had realised her husband was not a good person & cheater early on in their married life but struggled with her decision to leave him because of her child & family. She didn't want to be selfish enough for herself & nibhaoed her relationship as long as she could before her husband became more shameless & free in his cheapness that she couldn't ignore it anymore & left him. But she still felt it was her fault somewhere. Today she was able to free herself from this mindset that it is a woman's fault if the relationship fails & she should have tried harder to save her marriage to her loser husband. Her parents have also now accepted their fault in choosing the wrong partner for her & apologised to her. This was also one of the reasons for her feeling that she was a failure for not being able to save her marriage. I am glad that she has finally realised her own worth as a woman & a person & she will now have her family's full support in moving on in her life for real.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

A good end to the short track of another useless villain ie. Pranav.

Rupi- The track was introduced with Rupi lamenting to Imlie about still living in the memories of happy times spent with Pranav & her not being able to move on. She asked for a reality check from SM so that she can finally move on in her life & SM provided it promptly with the drug case track. She was wary to accept the repentant husband but still did so just to believe that finally she is having a HEA. As she mentioned today, she always blamed herself for not being enough & hence her eagerness to accept what seemed like a good turn of fate. But she never could trust Pranav's assurances full fledged. Though she asked Imlie to not interfere between them but she herself didn't actually trust him. But today after realising that Pranav was only doing drama of being sorry & actually didn't want her back, she finally was able to break free of her mindset that she was the one at fault for her failed relationship.

It has been a long arduous journey for Rupi as well. We learnt today that she had realised her husband was not a good person & cheater early on in their married life but struggled with her decision to leave him because of her child & family. She didn't want to be selfish enough for herself & nibhaoed her relationship as long as she could before her husband became more shameless & free in his cheapness that she couldn't ignore it anymore & left him. But she still felt it was her fault somewhere. Today she was able to free herself from this mindset that it is a woman's fault if the relationship fails & she should have tried harder to save her marriage to her loser husband. Her parents have also now accepted their fault in choosing the wrong partner for her & apologised to her. This was also one of the reasons for her feeling that she was a failure for not being able to save her marriage. I am glad that she has finally realised her own worth as a woman & a person & she will now have her family's full support in moving on in her life for real.

arre welcome Back Lodestar JI 😆 good to have you back 😃

Pranav might have nbeen a lsoer but he really opened eyes and kinda his harkatein opsuhed aparna to openly start accepting imlie ka fault nahi haia nd actually say it pehle she was still hesitating so i don't mind himas such now .. but Yes it was necessary for rupi to have Faith in the sisterhood and Get that one final push and accept things & stop blamign herself.. so good for her as you have righfully pionted it out it has been a learning curve for her but now she can breakfree fromt hat constant feeling of shayad she was the lesser one and not enough

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Aparna has been through SOME journey, man......kabhi Didi waale sadme se ubhrenge toh fursat mein baith ke Aparna ki journey bhi recap karenge. But short mein bolein toh, her anger/hate towards Imlie always had nuances and a sense of internal conflict - again it helped that we had an actress who could EMOTE nuances, unlike the resident bojhdhaar Didi giving ajeeb constipated expressions through everything. Ritu did a fabulous job of adding range to Aparna even when they really made her horribly vile in some bits and we've all had our time of just being SO DONE with her......lol.....but she always had that capacity to make a comeback cuz her character had a genuine vibe underneath all the OTT gussa/anger they were showing.

The shift since the court scene has deffo been interesting to watch as they gradually started showing that softening in Aparna.....so it has been an organic realization indeed without needing any dhoom dhadaaka.....haha

Ab bas yeh dekhna baaki hai ki yeh baat Imlie ko kaise express karti hai Aparna.....they need to nail that scene dhang se.....but I'm sure ST-Ritu will ace it. Oh I really really hope we get that. It is long overdue.. I just hope hope start woth the hug hi even if Aparna wants to surprise imlie but kamse kam usse ek hug de de surprise se pehle toh jo bhi tamashe hain can give her some strength they will for sure nail it caz inka itna natural bond hai woh pyar and warmth just can be felt outside screen itna charmingly they do everything and bas woh ek natural screenpresence and talent hain. aparna had been so blind since then man am only justbjow realizing that Aparna actually schemed the whole janmashmti thing too to make sure idiot goes on stage i had forgotten that totally but wahan se actually start hua yeh change with adi saying imlie was right then the court scene and then itna subtle switch over i love it and now back to purani aparna mode who wants imlie her aas paas as her bahu so they can both chill and live happily. Even better is that nobody is forcing her nobody is even telling her to do it anymore they all had made peace with her anger ya naarazgi and sab apne apne main theek hain but ab she feels the need to mend that relationship. Totally agree with everything about nuances and how well displayed it was initially we were then too saying that it is not just as black and white

You know, much as we all crib....real life mein bhi log tabhi maante/samajhte hain jab unhein samajhna hota hai.....real life is even more frustrating than fiction oh for sure real life main tih one doesn't have deadlines to watch out for too and it is much slower process and frustrating. Zindagiyan nikal jaati hai aisi ranjishonn narazgiyon main ego Mein

+1 on the nuances in Aparna's shift....middle mein jab Bohjini aayi toh thoda zyada plain bakwaas mode mein daala but otherwise her daily inner conflict was interesting to watch...I guess I like to watch people try and resist the force of nature that humari Powerful Imliya is and think they can win..LOL...apne bete se puchhiye zara Aparna ji😆

And like you said real life mein toh woh ego plays such a driving force to maintain the ghussa or whatever...I guess even if it's been a 100 freaking episodes lol it was relatively quicker for Aparna cuz it was more zidd than ego in a way..zidd mein toh amma-bitwa same same like you guys were discussing so haan this would only happen when Aparna herself decided to open her eyes lol.....whenever I think of her zidd lol I cant stop the visual of her chomping on the mirchis at the best bahu quiz🤣.....like that active resistance ki ek baar jhoot bola toh all Imlie's acchai is forgotten aur dhokha kiya...that zidd to remain blind to everything you know is this girl's core and love about her....but you also can't just turn away from someone who itni shiddat se and itne fiercely fights for her parivaar on the daily...Imlie's like a lifeforce..jaise duniya ki saari goodness and purity is spilling over...you can't help but be drawn to her...❤️

Just like her son and pretty much everyone else haha it's Aparna who's drawn to Imlie..even if she's like Imlie paas aati thi hehe...I remember that bit after the press conference when she just was hovering around cuz she wanted to come and comfort her bacchi....and haan yeh dono apna pyaar bahut openly jataate hai so Id like that hug too hehe..dono logon ko kaise kaskar hug karte hai😆....and also cuz the last time was with Aparna only no...jab woh ink fiasco ke baad she came back home and Aparna ran to comfort her💔

Oh and Adi-Aparna possessive fights for Imlie will be hilaaarous🤣 log keep showing the rinse/repeat cliche of saas-bahu fighting for pati's attention...yahaan toh ulta hi ek ek kamre mein turns leke faint hone ki nautanki cuz Imlie paas nahi aayi🥺🤣

Forgot to tag AY ji

Aparna - She is another character who has undergone a significant change in this track. Yes, BK also has flipped in his stance for Imlie but his arc of accepting Imlie ended with him actually handing over the responsibility of the navratri event with full bharosa to Imlie. Radha is as irrelevant as Rapist Didi. It was only Aparna whose acceptance of Imlie as the rightful bahu & more than that as the daughter of her heart has been very nuanced. Credit for this should be given to Ritu ji for showcasing these nuances very well at each stage. She was able to give Aparna's character true versatility & shades indeed throughout the long drag where her character also nosedived quite a bit with all of us going to hell with you & your approval😆.

As it was revealed during Aparna- Pankaj convo today, she had realised her own fault & Imlie's value in their lives during the end of court case itself but she is wary of how to make amends to Imlie. After being so harsh to Imlie for so long, she is understandably confused as to how to start to make amends- whether to say sorry or thank you to Imlie. And as usual Amma- bitwa are same same with getting jealous of their place in Imlie's priority list😆. I went awwie when she admitted that she felt jealous of Imlie-Pankaj bond because she used to come to Aparna first for anything before😆. Pankaj gave her good advice that Imlie is not waiting for her sorry or thank you & she will come running to Aparna if Aparna even starts with opening her baahe for Imlie.

But just like her bitwa, Aparna wants to do things to make Imlie feel special. Chalo let her also make elaborate plans for her beti which may or may not get busted due to YKW ke chavanni chap plans but ultimately having a simple heart to heart with Imlie which would be 1000 times better than any specific planned extravaganza😆.

Another significant shift in Aparna that needs to be noted is her trust & belief in her own son increasing & reinforced. As soon as her faith in Imlie had started restoring, it actually shifted her perspective about Adi & his decisions as well. We have been shown for a long time how his parents especially Aparna blame Adi for anything that goes wrong. YKW used to nurse this lack of faith in her own son & she constantly felt the need to apologise & make amends for her son. But even the half truth that AC orchestrated the janmashtami kaand & tricked the entire family & Adi was enough to remove this distrust for Adi. Realising Imlie's selflessness & sacrifice for the family also made her realise that Adi's choice of Imlie as his life partner is the correct choice indeed. Since then Aparna's faith in her son's character & his belifes has only increased. Imlie has played an important role in this by reinforcing her own faith in Adi as a wife since the janmashtami kaand. So whatever YKW might plan it will fail quite quickly because now the family's trust for both Adi-Imlie is at an all time high.