Finally a push back on the guilt trips - Page 9

-that daadi diverted the blame from adi to imlie🤢....lol, her kiddo did what she's verbalizing & she still holding imlie accountable for malni's condition...lol what an outlandish person...

-definitely, core highlight was imlie opening up to rupi didi w/o thinking, just flowing her emotions out ...very good scene

-lol so the way adi was skedaddling to find imlie 😂 🤣 usain bolt ki takat aagai lol & same for imlie...lol body is nazuk but mind is strong🤣🤣ROFL..didi hospitalized with nazuk body and strong mind...🤣

but on a side note, i liked imlie's selfless & pious demeanor in the sense that she has humanity naturally instilled in her & remains positive in staggering times despite how much things get hurled at her...*i feel rupi & adi need to have a talk tbh before this situation worsens by didi doing her antics of guilt-riding others...

-lol malini didii ko ikis topon ki salami at manipulating the device thats monitoring the condition 🤪manipulation ki professor h yeh nazuk mohtarma 🤣the moment she saw imlie near her & getting pushed away, the way she grabs onto her hand...lol the doc seems so frantically acting or something 😆

-the glances between adi & imlie just epitomizes how silent glances can spark 1000 words w/o even the need to hear them...no need for over-exaggerating the eyelocks for 10 mins

-aditya reflecting over his mistake is definitely triggering like we know she did it to further complicate the scenario but aditya definitely feeling guilty for even marrying her despite knowing the situation just showcases that he's not perfect & nor does he desire to be but he'd rather correct the mistakes & learn from them unlike malini who wants things picture-perfect in life & imposes them on others...i know malini is guilt-tripping them but its just making adi & imlie face the consequences followed by whenever the big revelation occurs...

- i liked adi & rupi's conversation...so simple yet so effective to see the actual sibling bond because both have been through hard scenarios...

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

I don't think so which is why they have been blaming Aditya all along as you are the one and tumhari hi galati hoti hai and isi liye they never stood for him too.. and are making him zimmedar too..both if then are zimmedar.. I thought it was pretty obvious where adk stands on guilt stand for then and aaj they just gave imlie the equal hissa too lol ke tum dono ne kia yeh sab ek ne sindoor lagaya dusre ne break de dia and lady lia and poor malini who was just have a rough day and mann bhari tha toh bol dia sab (as they told imlie that day in her room) got pushed to do this caz woh kabhi galat nahi ho sakti 🤣🤷‍♀️

Haan absolutely. Not saying they were completely in the wrong, just found the entire situation funny. Annoying tha when it transpired but then you realize to what extent Ts have been rolled over by the Chaturvedis and especially Malini, you can only feel sad for the position they are in.

Rupali ne jaise handle kiya woh situation was extremely sensibly done. Such strong conviction to make sure they also realize ki Imlie is not responsible while she tries to get Imlie herself to understand it.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

I do not think her being unstable will have anything to do with Aditya’s need to tell the truth. His dialogue today as well was - I should have told you in the beginning which in not so many words meant all this drama could have been avoided had he found the courage to say it out in the initial days itself.

His disappointment was not with Malini’s condition but with his inability to overlook it the first time around

But with Malini attempting suicide - how can he presume now that she will be able to handle the truth at this time? Would'nt a normal reaction be to supress everything unpleasant till she recovers her strength for her sake? Would he want to risk a repeat attempt or get guilted out more for bringing this up at a sensitive time? Attempting to tell the truth - would ina way say - my need to get the truth out is more than my worry that you cannot handle it right now. Somewhat inconsiderate No?

Don't get me wrong. Nothing I want for more than for Adi to spill the beans...just was not where I thought he would go based on all the guilt tripping and finger pointing already he has been subject to.

Originally posted by: pamk06

Malini does not have guts to hear the truth so how much ever she says that she wants to hear it, it’s never going to happen. If she had the guts why didn’t she wait for Aditya to come and talk to her...the reason is because once she hears the truth from Aditya, all bets are off.... Aditya will not stay with her and the marriage is over.... as long as the truth is hidden she can pretend and thus force Aditya to pretend.

If she is all that sane and good, then as she has an idea of the truth , she should refuse to go back to the T’s but she does so that should tell you her state of mind and intention.

She kinda knows ke Aditya won't say the truth either seeing her shaken hence her ok you tell me too along with her flipping thr blame game what she doesn't know is Aditya is so firm and yes he might be worried on humanity basis which he was and he doesn't want khoon on his head it still hasn't shaken him to hato from his decision caz only that can get them all mukti from the suffocation and what worse can happen anyway now. She has tried the extreme he is anyways getting blamed and is thrown under the bus toh why back off then I am just super impressed me yeh bhi hila nahi paaya isse and most likely imlie ki kasam hi will come to play.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Haan absolutely. Not saying they were completely in the wrong, just found the entire situation funny. Annoying tha when it transpired but then you realize to what extent Ts have been rolled over by the Chaturvedis and especially Malini, you can only feel sad for the position they are in.

Rupali ne jaise handle kiya woh situation was extremely sensibly done. Such strong conviction to make sure they also realize ki Imlie is not responsible while she tries to get Imlie herself to understand it.

Exactly it is just good to see atleast some people are judging them based on the episode and not just passing judgements from the written updates without seeing the episodes and calling them things they don't deserve to be called at all.

I get the frustrations but where credit is due it should be given and they have picked up beautifully today with rupi and adi being so determined in their stands and even imlie showing us her real.self..

Let's not just go and now start having problems with everything without logic or reason just caz we are not getting a one to one scene and start calling the team things they are not offscreen too which I saw is the gist of the forum all based on frustration . So when you say you are tired examining things to all I understand the exhaustion

The best thing was beautiful Adilie eyelock ❤️n the second best was Rupi di sending Imlie away,how I wish she goes back to her hostel after malini ji returns back home...kitna aur karegi ye in logon k liye jinhen iski value hai nahi...

For the Symbolism part I feel also circumstances will win n overpower Rupi di ka effort as off now.

Aparna has turned into malini maniac,kuch aur dikh raha hi nahi...no member actually tried to be with imlie after blood donation except Rupi di..not even bk??No wonder jo log apne bete k nahi hue woh imlie k kya honge...Malini k bhi shayad Anu k darr ki vjhse ho,ya societal norms maintenance ki vjhse!They never supported Rupi di at first place.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol of course hilarious bhi tha 😆....they were trying to look for a simple scapegoat coz they couldn’t figure out what would drive Malini to this. Toh last they remembered was the sindoor fight which they think made Malini leave the house. Isliye aur bhi “root cause” pe chale gaye ki Imlie lagaati nahin toh Malini wouldn’t have yelled at her, Adi wouldn’t have fought with her and whole chain of events wouldn’t escalate to this 🤷‍♀️😂

You can only shake your head at their naïveté regarding Malini after a while. 😆

Originally posted by: pamk06

Malini does not have guts to hear the truth so how much ever she says that she wants to hear it, it’s never going to happen. If she had the guts why didn’t she wait for Aditya to come and talk to her...the reason is because once she hears the truth from Aditya, all bets are off.... Aditya will not stay with her and the marriage is over.... as long as the truth is hidden she can pretend and thus force Aditya to pretend.

If she is all that sane and good, then as she has an idea of the truth , she should refuse to go back to the T’s but she does so that should tell you her state of mind and intention.

That is then confirmation that Malini is indeed gray. Why don't the makers then make that apparent? Why do I feel that her character is written to be mahaan but weak - however the way its coming to the audience is manipulative, attention seeking, elitist, conniving - Is that intentional? Its very confusing. Why is there a constant need to whitewash?

She is either very delusional or very manipulative. Makers need to pick one.

Originally posted by: Anuannie

The best thing was beautiful Adilie eyelock ❤️n the second best was Rupi di sending Imlie away,how I wish she goes back to her hostel after malini ji returns back home...kitna aur karegi ye in logon k liye jinhen iski value hai nahi...

For the Symbolism part I feel also circumstances will win n overpower Rupi di ka effort as off now.

Aparna has turned into malini maniac,kuch aur dikh raha hi nahi...no member actually tried to be with imlie after blood donation except Rupi di..not even bk??No wonder jo log apne bete k nahi hue woh imlie k kya honge...Malini k bhi shayad Anu k darr ki vjhse ho,ya societal norms maintenance ki vjhse!They never supported Rupi di at first place.

I am not sure how BK fits into situation...they never give them aise one to one caz it still gets a bit awkward given the status.. he didn't blame imlie or adi so am not sure why he is being pulled or Prakash.

aparna is being obsessed but let's not forget jawab usko dena padega anu ko zamane ko has anything happen to her bahu then too she will be blamed as a bad saas who didn't sided with her bahu. There is no winning for aparna here.. sure she overreacted and she is overobsessed but uski position isn't that much easy either right now being stuck in this mess.. jawab toh tripathis se hi maanga jaayega even if they have gone above and beyond to pamper malini and make her their whole universe caz Bure toh hamesha sasural wale hi hote hain na.. and she has left no kasar in telling the world how she is ill treated by one and all so 🤷‍♀️

Prakash to was not even in the situation.Bk isliye bcz he has been always very kind to Imlie n atleast when you love someone you go to check on them ek dafa nahi??Expectations ussise hoti hai?Yeh kese yaad agaya k imlie ka bg same hai but not to go to check her ek dafa??Family me agar ek banda bimar ho koi aur blood donate kare to you check for that person also na.Mai blame nahi karhi unhen It is just I have much expectations from Bk.

Jawab dena hai uska matlab thoda hi hai k ap kisiko bhi scapegoat banao bade hokar??Sure dena hai jawab but as rupi di said ap kisiko apni weakness ki vajhse guilt me nahi dakeyl sakte na ??Inhen sirf malini dikh rahi hai.