Finally a push back on the guilt trips - Page 8

Originally posted by: MuteButton

But it was hilarious na ki they zeroed in on - sindoor kyun lagaaya? Sindoor nahin lagaati toh Malini aisa nahin karti. 😆 I mean suicide nahin spa mein gayi ho Malini. Their lack of awareness is sadly funny and not so at the same time.

Lol of course hilarious bhi tha 😆....they were trying to look for a simple scapegoat coz they couldn’t figure out what would drive Malini to this. Toh last they remembered was the sindoor fight which they think made Malini leave the house. Isliye aur bhi “root cause” pe chale gaye ki Imlie lagaati nahin toh Malini wouldn’t have yelled at her, Adi wouldn’t have fought with her and whole chain of events wouldn’t escalate to this 🤷‍♀️😂

You can only shake your head at their naïveté regarding Malini after a while. 😆

Originally posted by: MuteButton

But it was hilarious na ki they zeroed in on - sindoor kyun lagaaya? Sindoor nahin lagaati toh Malini aisa nahin karti. 😆 I mean suicide nahin spa mein gayi ho Malini. Their lack of awareness is sadly funny and not so at the same time.

But that is what they are extremely naive har cheez ko face value pe lene wale.. they couldn't think of any other thing what could push her so far toh jis baat pe saara fasaad started usko hi reason bana dia ke na woh jhagda hota na woh jaati.. they have tunnel vision and hence the reason was so lulzy but as I said it came more from frustration and their desire to keep the bahu on pedestal to not be burdened by the guilt too

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol of course hilarious bhi tha 😆....they were trying to look for a simple scapegoat coz they couldn’t figure out what would drive Malini to this. Toh last they remembered was the sindoor fight which they think made Malini leave the house. Isliye aur bhi “root cause” pe chale gaye ki Imlie lagaati nahin toh Malini wouldn’t have yelled at her, Adi wouldn’t have fought with her and whole chain of events wouldn’t escalate to this 🤷‍♀️😂

You can only shake your head at their naïveté regarding Malini after a while. 😆

Conveniently bhool gaye ki first time ghar chhod ke gayi thi toh ghar ke bete ke jhoot ki wajah se 😆

Originally posted by: MuteButton

I do not think he will lie. I think going forward Aditya will only try to tell the truth but will always be stopped by someone else. Mostly AC aa jaaye kal

And Malini will drop it? oh man same vicious cycle again then. And more fool you Malini, The way Adi was phrasing his sentences today - it seemed like he would lie ... because it was too late to tell the truth to an unstable Malini. UGH!

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Conveniently bhool gaye ki first time ghar chhod ke gayi thi toh ghar ke bete ke jhoot ki wajah se 😆

Originally posted by: MuteButton

But it was hilarious na ki they zeroed in on - sindoor kyun lagaaya? Sindoor nahin lagaati toh Malini aisa nahin karti. 😆 I mean suicide nahin spa mein gayi ho Malini. Their lack of awareness is sadly funny and not so at the same time.

I think that is a very typical reaction.... in extreme situations you tend to blame anyone and anything.... even a simple “you came late and hence this happened “ can become a reason to blame..... plus you never blame the person who did the deed when she is mostly at fault because she is bimaar 😆 and blaming her will go into insensitive tag...

When Aparna asked ki saari galti malini ki hain, the answer is yes and Aparna knows it but how can you blame the person who is on the deathbed so you try to find excuses and blame the next person that you find. When rupi Di retaliated, aparna was ashamed but she is as helpless as the next person here.... plus if Bahu is done it means T’s areto be blamed. khudko to blame nahi kar sakte so find an excuse and blame the person due to which the whole fasaad started.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Few other random thoughts....

Malini grabbed Imlie's hand right as the doctors were trying to get Imlie to leave....lol symbolism for the fact ki aage Malini will ensure Imlie stays around her even if Imlie wants to leave? Unhinged Didi itni aasaani se kisi ko apne clutches se nahin nikalne dengi :P

Waise Imlie ka didi prem dekh kar lagta nahin woh khud Didi ko chhod kar kahin jaane ko raazi hogi🤣.....I was finding it all so lulzy today....all the forced "do beheno" ka "soulful bond" drama which has just never been convincing but the writers won't stop trying😆

It's kinda cute how overwhelmed and confused Imlie looks at the way Rupi has fully taken her under her wing 😆....usko samajh hi nahin aa raha woh kya bole as Rupi is giving grand lectures on AWAAZ UTHAAO😆

Originally posted by: PPak

And Malini will drop it? oh man same vicious cycle again then. And more fool you Malini, The way Adi was phrasing his sentences today - it seemed like he would lie ... because it was too late to tell the truth to an unstable Malini. UGH!

I do not think her being unstable will have anything to do with Aditya’s need to tell the truth. His dialogue today as well was - I should have told you in the beginning which in not so many words meant all this drama could have been avoided had he found the courage to say it out in the initial days itself.

His disappointment was not with Malini’s condition but with his inability to overlook it the first time around

Originally posted by: pamk06

I think that is a very typical reaction.... in extreme situations you tend to blame anyone and anything.... even a simple “you came late and hence this happened “ can become a reason to blame..... plus you never blame the person who did the deed when she is mostly at fault because she is bimaar 😆 and blaming her will go into insensitive tag...

When Aparna asked ki saari galti malini ki hain, the answer is yes and Aparna knows it but how can you blame the person who is on the deathbed so you try to find excuses and blame the next person that you find. When rupi Di retaliated, aparna was ashamed but she is as helpless as the next person here.... plus if Bahu is done it means T’s areto be blamed. khudko to blame nahi kar sakte so find an excuse and blame the person due to which the whole fasaad started.

Exactly ! They somewhere knew ke this isn't fair which is why yeh chuo bhi kar gayin thi but they needed an outlet too and imlie became that outlet.. again it is a lot riding on them too had anything had happened ... how the hell would they face the world ke bahi khudkhusi kar li inke bete ki wajah se thanks to the SN.. the guilt the sheer guilt and embarrassment. It was kt only an accusation on aditya but the whole family in ways.and what have they not done to make sure the bahu gets priority over the beta yet she does this lol one can only be frustrated

Originally posted by: PPak

And Malini will drop it? oh man same vicious cycle again then. And more fool you Malini, The way Adi was phrasing his sentences today - it seemed like he would lie ... because it was too late to tell the truth to an unstable Malini. UGH!

Malini does not have guts to hear the truth so how much ever she says that she wants to hear it, it’s never going to happen. If she had the guts why didn’t she wait for Aditya to come and talk to her...the reason is because once she hears the truth from Aditya, all bets are off.... Aditya will not stay with her and the marriage is over.... as long as the truth is hidden she can pretend and thus force Aditya to pretend.

If she is all that sane and good, then as she has an idea of the truth , she should refuse to go back to the T’s but she does so that should tell you her state of mind and intention.