In defence of Sahir and falling in love, again - Page 3

Originally posted by: Lily30

Lovely post 👏 couldn' agree more 😃

In any relationship both parties have to work hard to keep it alive and life is unpredictable, you get both the good and the bad, it's how you deal with the situation around it defines who you are and what you can be capable of.

Originally posted by: ecrivain

@TM great post and I like your choice of words tht you have per say used in the context of sahir ..

Aptly said that there are diff couples who have a diff life altogether and no one couple is similar to the other ..and ONLY n ONLY the one who experiences the pain has a right to judge how n wht he or she wants ...

Having said tht sahir TILL date has been shown to be a man who is firmly grounded to his roots and has been given an upbringing tht makes him RESPECT women n I hence refuse to believe tht he will lead ARZOO on when there would be hope for Zeenat to get back to him ...

I strongly believe there is much more than wht meets the eye ..n his having feelings for ARZOO or even being attracted to her HAS to be a trigger to the fact tht Zeenat n his relation might not have been very intimate one or to say a happy one atleast ...which can be on account of anything ,,

STILL the man punishes himself cos he feels he is attracted to ARZOO which could be wrong

N hence I want to see wht the Cvs have planned n see how this goes

Also I know the PH makes good show's n I for one will wait for this to unfold

Cheers

Originally posted by: altuphalu

Very well explained! It is a complex issue indeed.

Affairs of the heart cannot be predicted. But I feel that we do not lead our lives just based on emotions; but also with responsibility towards loved ones in our life. That responsibility also falls under the umbrella of integrity.

Here, Sahir miya is hell bent on keeping it all a secret. Worse still he is shown as hitting himself- so regressive. It is like doping yourself and then cutting your wrists. Borders on mental instability. In affairs of heart; one has to beware of unstable people.

Btw, welcome to the forum. Hoping to read more thought provoking posts from you.

Originally posted by: Bujee09

Bang on post 👏 well thought through and beautifully framed !

All i want to see how strong the makers are going to unfold Sahir's past because that is something which is going to justify the now well portrayed character of Sahir Azeem Chaudary - ! Fingers crossd I am keeping my hopes high 😛

Originally posted by: zephyr29

Thank you for this post, Junoonian. Brilliantly written and much needed point of view. It hasn't just been here but even elsewhere I've seen when a character shows the slightest bit of attraction for another while still in a relationship (even though it's only in name) they are termed as characterless or immoral when they don't even act out on those impulses. The matters of the heart are far more complex and subjective than being black or white, right or wrong. In real life you do come across stories of people who met their soul mates while being married or in a relationship with other people and over here Sahir's wife has been in a coma for 7 years and from what we know so far it doesn't seem to be the most loving or successful of marriages. Plus he seems to have taken a lot of pains to guard his heart and deny all joy & other emotions from affecting him so far. And now after all this time finally someone cracks through that shell and he himself is left confused at the feelings Aarzoo elicits in him and severely punishes himself for it. Like you said, you can never predict when love enters your life but all that matters is how you handle yourself in such a situation. And from what we've seen so far of Sahir he has been honorable hence will do right by both Zeenat as well as Aarzoo.

Of course it remains to be seen whether the makers/CVs will do right by these characters and their story. However it turns out this track has definitely piqued my interest again in this show.

Originally posted by: -vandy-

the way u've put forth sahir's POV is simply brilliant...

u know...love is something that just happens...u just have no control over it...

ppl spend all their lives living like a "happily married couple"...but if u just notice them a bit more deeply...u realise...its more of an obligation they are trying to portray...its not love actually...

very few ppl in this world r blessed with someone whom they actually love...and someone who loves them back in the same manner...

all other so called perfect relationships in this world r a farce...obligations that ppl r forced to live with..be it for family...children...husband...wife...etc...

sahir...is a person...who has lived in that relationship...a relationship which has marred both his past and present...he's hurt...he's broken...and if he finds love in aarzoo...there is nothing immoral or wrong in it...

he has been betrayed in life...he needs somebody to hold him...to help him gather the pieces of him...and move on...

Originally posted by: TaanuDeewani

Agree 100%... 👏

Originally posted by: -vandy-

its pretty justified on sahir's part to keep this pain of betrayal to himself...he is human afterall...not god...a person who is cheated by his own wife...he doesn't even know where he went wrong as a husband...he deserves some answers...and those answers lie with zeenat...

it takes a lot of strength for any human to keep his betrayals...his pain...his sufferings all bottled up... an easier path for him would've been to let the world know...get their sympsthy...and just walk out of the relationship...

but...it does take a lot of courage to wait for the day wen his questions will be answered...

Originally posted by: Junoonian

Thanks :) - I too hope that the story unfolds in a manner that stays true to the characters of Sahir and Arzoo as it has been portrayed up until now - two people who are intrinsically honest and good at heart.