DOTW: How close to real life??

Arpita is quiet and biddable, is this possible in real life? When you marry for love, isn't the relationship supposed to be about love and equality? How about the way they address each other with 'ji'..is that necessary?

So come on friends, let's all discuss how close to real life their relationship is.

I hope I haven't narrowed the discussion to only a few people. I would love it if everyone participated, even if you talk about love outside marriage, a hypothetical situation or the life of someone you know...the more the merrier.😆😆

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Hi Dreamy,
A very good topic to start with the DOTW😊

According to me, firstly these days nobody gets married to a gangster as everybody is aware that they are being haunted either by police or by their enemies. Moreover all gangsters are not really good from their heart.😲

Secondly, Arpita's nature seems like fantasy at times. She knew what she was getting into but now at certain places she behaved as though she didn't knew him nature of work and is gambling over it. 😕

True love begins when nothing is looked for in return."Antoine De Saint-Exupery 👍🏼❤️

Arpita started loving Avdesh asking nothing for return.☺️ Avdesh didn't even know that a girl somewhere in Lallanpur has created a Shrine for him in her heart and in her life.

This Part of their relationship is so true. There are so many who love truly and dearly but do not say it out or due to circumstances they always remain silent lovers.😍


The kind of love emotion and feelings for each other that they project on the screen seems real at times like Avdesh says your tears hurt me or helping in cleaning the wounds..Their relationship is not very close to reality but still sometimes feels very real...

This is a part of my thought over this topic I will be back with my thoughts and try to put more light on it.🤔

nice topic dreamy

i wud come back to it later

Hiya Dreamy...

ok let me see what i can answer u here.

as far as i can see shwetha has echoed my words in her post.

since this is just a fiction here and not reality and we dont know what happens next in the show.

so for the sake of talks i wud assume this relation is real.

no not btwn tanvi and ashish

its abt avdesh and arpita..

as shwetha said arpita world was full of fantasy and knowing how her father and brothers r she got attracted to or got infatuated with a macho man who had great respect for woman. she didnt see beyond that reality of his life.

but with times she has grown to love him more and more for the person he is and as his wife she wants best for him

and calling each other ji they r respecting each other and no harm in doing that and i have seen in most families regardless of age and all the respect is given to the person.

for arpita avdesh is her life. come what may she wud fight all odds to keep that love alive.

same goes for avdesh though at present he doesnt know nor can express it as well as he should..

some reality is there

gosh i dont know what i said made sense or not

but this is what i feel

This show in my honest opinion, is a realm of pure, un-adulterated fantasy.

Firstly, from the very maiden episode, it has been essaying a Romeo-Julietish vibe. Love at first sight....dreaming of an individual based on some pre-conceived notions from newspaper Articles, is nowhere close to anything called "Reality". Since the concept of "LAFS" is so passe, a show based on this would be so beyond any logical fathoming. In real life, you dont fall in love with people like that, you fall in Lust.

Arpita had a crush on Avdhesh, she is an 18-year old who mistook it to be love.

Secondly, the character Arpita is said to be no older than 18, but she hardly looks it. Even if we set the physical attributes aside owing to the actress who is playing her, it remains a fact that Arpita's actions, her conversations, maturity etc. are nowhere close to being an 18-year old's.

Besides the two above points about Arpita, the lead character of Avdesh is also full of contradictions. He is said to be a 22 year old...Really? Does he look that? And to be perfectly honest, a gunda like him is not expected to be a Robin-hood really. In reality, he would just have kidnapped Arpita, ravished her and left her on the road-side. Or would have kept her as a mistress. The latter is what even a decent Gunda would do, at the most.
Moreover, Avdhesh is said to be a man who swears by the barrel of his gun, and it is highly unlikely that someone of his mental space would ever be ready for something like Marriage itself.

This show is a modern-day Romeo-Juliet or a modern-day Laili and Majnun, so i dont expect any reality to interfere with this concept.
Hope i made sense. Lovely debate, nice to have taken a snook. Good day and TC. 😊

Hey Dreamy, CB, Shwetha, Prash😊,

hey vista how r u?
first of all can u pls explain ur short forms

other than that i thnk u got the meaning totally right

since u r writer u cud use words well.

hey btw how long wud u be here??

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

This show in my honest opinion, is a realm of pure, un-adulterated fantasy.

Firstly, from the very maiden episode, it has been essaying a Romeo-Julietish vibe. Love at first sight....dreaming of an individual based on some pre-conceived notions from newspaper Articles, is nowhere close to anything called "Reality". Since the concept of "LAFS" is so passe, a show based on this would be so beyond any logical fathoming. In real life, you dont fall in love with people like that, you fall in Lust.

Arpita had a crush on Avdhesh, she is an 18-year old who mistook it to be love.

Secondly, the character Arpita is said to be no older than 18, but she hardly looks it. Even if we set the physical attributes aside owing to the actress who is playing her, it remains a fact that Arpita's actions, her conversations, maturity etc. are nowhere close to being an 18-year old's.

Besides the two above points about Arpita, the lead character of Avdesh is also full of contradictions. He is said to be a 22 year old...Really? Does he look that? And to be perfectly honest, a gunda like him is not expected to be a Robin-hood really. In reality, he would just have kidnapped Arpita, ravished her and left her on the road-side. Or would have kept her as a mistress. The latter is what even a decent Gunda would do, at the most.
Moreover, Avdhesh is said to be a man who swears by the barrel of his gun, and it is highly unlikely that someone of his mental space would ever be ready for something like Marriage itself.

This show is a modern-day Romeo-Juliet or a modern-day Laili and Majnun, so i dont expect any reality to interfere with this concept.
Hope i made sense. Lovely debate, nice to have taken a snook. Good day and TC. 😊

Hey CB,