DOTW: How close to real life?? - Page 2

oh ok thnks for explaining.. hehe shortforms confused me.

oh i like the story still. so much scope and so much to show.. i m enjoying it.

Originally posted by: vista90pro

Hey Krystal,

Agree with you on your point about maturity level of Arpita....but you do have to consider the fact that she has not really had the love-filled,protected upbringing that most 18 year olds have.......she has been exposed to real nastiness in her house from quite early on, thanks to her monster Dad. Adversity lends a huge helping hand on the road to maturity.

Typical gunda behaviour would have been to ravish and reject, but in this case, we know that a) Avi respects women and has been pretty much a virgin in all senses of the word till he met Arpi b) He has fallen in love with her.

Thanks and take care

Vista

Thats precisely what would qualify this show as "fantasy".😳
Agreed with you on Arpita....but then again, she is unable to distinguish between a love and a random crush, which again contradicts her world-wisdom.

Wow Krystal, if this constitutes a fantasy then you would be breaking a lot of young hearts!!!

Hi All 😃 Dreamy thts an excellent topic to begin the DOTW Thread.👍🏼

Let me see how mch I can contribute😕. Well to start of, for me, No I don't find anything fantasized or unrealistic in the show. Few days back, some of us were discussing the same things in Vista's thread. About the dreams we had when we were of Arpi's age😳. For me Arpi's falling for Avi is jst like any other teenage girl falling for a young star thru journals n magazines. Rather her feelings were much more intense as she wanted to marry tht man whom she felt for as she wanted to bring tht fear in her dad n bros's hearts, which only Avi cud bring. So having a crush on a guy, be it thru any means is no fantasy for a girl of 18. Now when she found the guy she loves so much, also has the same feelings for her in return, tht gave a boost to her confidence and love. What more cud she have asked for.

The fact abt falling in love with a gunda, Arpi never saw him doing any sin. She always read praises of Avi in news papers. Even the police came n said her dad tht he's a robin hood. And moreover the ppl who were bad to her n her mom were scared of Avi(snake n his sons) So that was enough for her to declare him a hero.

Arpi never took the lead in talking to Avi nor did she evr try expressing her love to him until she was forced to get married to an idiot like Pappu. She didn't want to see her fate like her mom's, so she decided to revolt. And moreover she had seen the love in Avi's eyes for her. So she went on to write the letter and leave the mandap holding the hands of her love. Maybe if I was ever in such a situation, I wud have done anything to save myself from the grips of a man like Pappu.

On the point of addressing each other as ji , well I too have the same thing tht Vista had to say. Me n my hubby address each other as Aap. Though some of my frnds make fun of this bt we do n still have loads of love n respect for each other.😳

Talking abt Avi's life. I don't find anything unrealistic in tht too. Though being a gunda, he is shown to have immense respect for women. He helps the poor n needy, he is the most obedient son and devar and overall a very kind hearted human (all the ingredients of a Mr Right) The only negative thing he possesses is his profession. But tht again is not by his choice bt cz of his evil Bj who has injected in his mind tht Violence is the only way to protect his family n Haveli. And abt a gunda falling in love !! A gunda is a human as well. He too has a heart. And Avi is shown as a gunga with Golden heart. 😳

I never found anything unrealistic in this show. I cud always relate myself to Arpi. Thts wat kept me hooked to the show so much. And now am sure am gonna get chappals for writing this big Essay n boring ALL 😆

hi dreamy,😊
what s up? is your son ok?
according to me
at the first we have a gal who an 18 that without to spot of reality to a guy that never see him.even she knows him from news & newspapers. over time, she knew him & beloved.dont forget it when arpi entered to avis haveli BJ saied to her: "love of the man like avdesh is like a light candle in the storm.I doubt u can save this love."at that time she told right coz she tought arpis love is a fleeting lust.

arpi is very fantasy but in my opinion ,she was the best wife for the avdesh.avdesh like a flaring fire & arpita like a cool water she has to put out this fire.avdesh is a stubborn,dour,brave & adventurer man also arpi is a stubborn , brave & adventurer gal.

I think arpi exactly knew that she married with a unusual man.indeed, she didnt want a usual life like other women (like her mother).if she wanted ,she ll married with bapu!A ARANGMENT MARRIEG that like a waveless lake that overtime, that will be change to a marsh.
marriag with a guy like avdesh is like diving in to the big,deep & stormy ocean.she can swim in it if she ll think right & wisely. indeed she being mature with power of love & she understand her situatoin quickly.

she chois her housband with passion & her heart but if she want to close to her hubby she has to live with her brain & intelligence.
i think if she ll use of her brain she ll close to avdesh & change him & nowshe is doing this👏

Oooo...👍🏼

hi dreamy
yes i would
dreamy,
also,my father was disagree with my marriage 😉

yaar arpita ko pata tha ki jiske saath woh ja rahi hai woh usse pyaar karta hai.

I agree with krystal_watz, she has put it so well.

I think Arpi loved the idea of Avdesh, I mean we all love 'heroes' and if they are kind of bad boy, we love them even more. The idea of the whole thing being forbidden is the most appealing to most idealistic young girls and older women.
Avdhesh on the other hand, loves that fact of being loved by someone like Arpi, who worships him despite knowing his shortcomings/ flaws.
So both are basically fools and you know fools rush in and got married.
Now Arpi has realised the realities of being a gangster's wife and Avdesh has realised the fact of being married to girl who craves attention and love 24/7.
Both are learning valuable lesson and thus to me are still far from being truly in love but they are in love with love.

Hiee Dreamy..

m back with my part😃😃 Vista Di, CB Di, Nandini, Chista, Shwetha....nd everyone else who have posted..thnk u...