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I agree to your points. I didn’t to undermine the importance of words in life. But it was a more situation specific thought. Like some people may profess their love 10 times in a day, but they may lack the feelings. Similarly when we chat (like now) we may or may be able to express ourselves through the words. The tone, the voice modulation gives it the correct meaning to it.

So if we look back V has never been able to express his love in words and his gestures failed to ring a bell with Sai. Contrary to my statement they were in fact misinterpreted here. But today when they have expressed their love there is a lot that they are able to convey without speaking to each other. And as people close to us, like spouses, partners, friends, parents etc, there is lot that is gauged and understood without one needing to spell it out.

I have been disappointed in V and still do. He has done way too much with barely any reflection on his deeds. If even there was, it wasn't really shown explicitly. My list of complaint is long, right from Sai being name called and V never every once having objected to it. Respecting and protecting the respect of the spouse is of utmost importance.

I'm not sure if you have read my post on today's episode, but my views are on the current state of affairs. The Sairat in the present. The episode today had a lot of meaning. This is something I have myself said, that V takes Sai for granted and puts her on the line of fire. And he always does. The difference, then there was a deal marriage, today is a married by full consent. Today when he put her career on stake it was only for the world to think while he will neither allow it nor he have any intentions to do so. Sai and V are poles apart, she likes to call a spade a spade and V tries to avoid conflict as much as possible. Thats his character. While I hate this aspect of him, there may be situations where that is best practical approach. To stall things temporarily and make the move at the right time. That is all that I see him doing here. And I hope I'm not disappointed again. But one thing that stays, he needs to convince them by making them see things and agree to this by virtue of understanding rather than resorting to blackmailing. And he should start to speak up for himself and his wife. The Sai supporter in me cried at her helplessness and anxiety. But I have my fingers crossed that it is for a better tomorrow where she doesn’t have to sacrifice the two things that mean the most to her Love and Career.

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Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

This whole justification of Virat character like he is people pleaser, he is non confrontational is rubbish. Where is this people pleaser go when it comes to taking stand for his bhabis. Shruti is outsider so he can go against whole family for her to the extent of leaving house and threatening his family members for name calling her but he can't open his mouth to ask his family members to stop disrespecting his so called love. Logic? Pakhi also family member and he don't mind taking stand for her against his family members be it his mother, so called wife, his best friend even though they speak truth about her. I am seriously fed up of the explanations people giving for Virat character. Didn't he showed his anger towards his family members in Shruti kand. Where does this people pleaser go during that time? Shouldn't he accept the insults by his family members like he expects Sai to do because apparently he RESPECTS his family and CAN'T LIVE without his so called family. But no he refused to forgive them, moved out of the house, didn't care when his own mom pleading him on her knees. So when it comes to his and his bhabis respect he can go to any length to take stand. But when it comes to his supposed lady love he is non confrontational, people pleaser bla bla👏. There's nothing real that is being served in ghum. If in real life family like chavans exists, they would have been in jail, a character like patralekha would have thrown out of the house, a supposed to be educated girl like Sai would have shut every one mouth by simply saying I will lodge a complaint against u for harrassing me to leave my job and for daily abusing me instead of waiting for her spineless husband to take decisions on behalf of her. so called police officer like Virat would have suspended for his disgusting acts and endorsing abuse in his own house if he was a real character. There's nothing real in this show. Yes many girls face career vs family in their laws house but not like this way. Sai is studying mbbs for 5 years but now suddenly kaku has problem with it. For what? Just for drama sake they show literally anything. There's nothing productive will come out of this track. As usual Virat will throw Sai under the bus to face his family wrath like he always do. Best example: ladak trip, her reentry to the house with insults after first separation during devkit track. Couldn't stop myself from responding. Virat is very regressive character who wants to project himself as progressive. Had he don't have the fear of loosing Sai because of career vs Bahu, he would have happily be okay with her agreeing to kaku condition. That's how he is. His wife is getting insulted publicly, she is being blamed for something which she didn't do (deal, him landing in hospital because of her accusations) but all he could notice is his wife changing her Sur name. This sums up this narcissistic character.

To me, it grates me to see a cop of all people, be the enabler of emotional,mental and physical abuse being doled out to his wife for the past 5 years. And then to see the man jump to the vociferous defence of other men’s wives. And what is this issue he has about not calling such women bhabhi/vahini??

Frankly I have long wanted Sai to have a better man. Not this self centred man who stands back and watches her being called names. Like you said,in the real world,he would be stripped off his job, the in-laws in jail for abuse & Sai would be independent.

It’s further more infuriating that such a story was written by a woman and still has a woman in the writing team. It isn’t for nothing they say, women are their own worst enemies!

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

For kaku it was a win. For Virat, he wanted to diffuse the situation.

Now we know he lied🤣🤣

Originally posted by: gaurimisha

Now we know he lied🤣🤣

He just bought more time then

Originally posted by: Moor278

Real life V hota to kab ka nikal gaya hota ghar se...

Admission wale din pe hi shayad 😆

Lekin ye show hai... aur yahan kuch characters hai jinki relevance SaiRat ke CN main rehne ki vajah se hai... so he will stay...

Also why I feel he will threaten BK with transfer...

BK maan bhi gai to Didi nahi manegi.... V uski aankhon se ojhal ho jaaye ... vo bhi sai ke saath.... deva re deva... 🤪

Isliye he will remain the docile beta rather than the fiery IPS.

On serious note... V cannot love without his family and that includes Sai too... so he will always try to find a middle path that goes with everyone

He could for his Shruti Bhabhi 🥺

Originally posted by: Clois_semperanc

They skipped such an important scene of applying sindoor and the mangalsutra for what exactly?

Can we really hope they will show us a sugaagraat sequence? Or will it be left solely to our imagination after showing us lights being turned off in the room and Sai blushing the next day or some other nonsense. Considering the comfort level of our leads and Vankar's love for drama/Pakhi they might just skip it and show us the next day. Or Pakhi's mental breakdown in between.

My main issue is how all other headache inducing tracks are fully explored until we get fed up and we have to beg them to stop but any Sairat related track/sequence gets over before it even begins.

I read on twitter it did happen but it didn't make it to HotStar version 😳

Originally posted by: xfiles

So finally I watched today's episode - that too on TV because I wanted to pick up the reactions of everyone.

Sai's confusion and Virat's dilemma nicely portrayed today. The first part of Virat's dream was interesting because it clearly showed what he thinks of each of the characters from Team Sai to Team BK. 😃 And as viewers, we can see that he has a clear understanding of each and every member of his family.

And his final answer "bahu banegi" to BK was definitely out of panic that Sai will leave him. Now that both are in love, he just cannot afford to lose her. So he gave that answer.

But what I feel is, he still does not have a plan, bande ne aisa hi kah diya to diffuse the situation. Just like before during Sruthi kaand and recently breaking off ties with Sai with that diya drama, he does not think through a plan before executing. Sadly, Paki is also the same, but in its worst form. Kuch sochte hain aur kar dete hain, koi plan nahin hain ki kaise karna hain. Viru has the same problem, ye tho finally phas jaata hain but Paki gets egg in her face. 😆Thats the only difference.

But that was TILL NOW. Maybe now, things will change, as this is also a stage for him to grow and become Sai ka Pati. And stakes are definitely high. So he cannot afford a single misstep. I assume he will think through this time and come up with a fool proof plan and then execute it. Thats probably what he did today so that he can buy some time.

I know many people are angry with Virat's stand today but my 2 cents -

it is not as easy as we think it is. That too for a character like him, who considers his family and acceptance of Sai by his family to be very important, he cannot take a hasty decision at the mandap. He did the best he could by diffusing the situation and giving hope to BK that she won. But he knows BK well and how he can manipulate her to make her come around. Thats probably the rest of this track with of course a big play on mutual trust between pati and patni.

Its now a new stage in life for them too. To accept each other, to have faith, to support each other's needs and to work in tandem as a team. Their journey has just begun.

Virat is definitely not one who wants to rock the boat. ( I am completely ignoring the post-Sruthi Virat and his ridiculous behaviour to both his family and Sai 🤔)

Being a married woman, I too have come across situations where I dont agree with my in laws but I am a firm believer of not taking "bull by its horns immediately". Though it might be the righteous thing to do, the collateral damage may not be worth the trouble especially when you know your husband is close to his family. So my best option is always either ignore it so that it will diffuse by itself or talk to him and we take a stand together. Because at the end of the day, you need everyone. And believe me, 90 out of 100 times, my in laws have come around to my point eventually. bas thoda sa patience hona chahiye😃.

I know that I sound a little old fashioned but trust me it works. But, in any point of my life did I ever compromise on my self respect or my individuality nor did I give up on anything I wanted to do. So basically it is an art of picking your battles and walking that fine line. Every single thing need not be a confrontation, there are so many other strategies you can choose and finally get what you want.

I would think Virat is that kind of a person.He wants both Sai and his family in his life.

Virat's "I Love You Sai" in the pre cap was so endearing!! Hope to hear more of that. ❤️

PS - why do they have to show close up shot of Paki every 15 seconds, this is so bloody annoying now 😡 and she didnt have a single line to speak. Unprofessional to the core. I seriously wonder what hold she has on the PH to be treated this way.🤔

She's relative of the ph

Originally posted by: Nja91

And if Sai and Sam both didn't exist, V would have slept with pp by now. Maybe regretted it later because he does love his brother. But he would have had atleast an emotional if not physical affair if both Sai/Sam didn't exist. The way they showed him towards pp and the amount of manipulation she does, he'd have got involved.

He may not care about pp now, hes over her. But he till date cant make up his mind about infatuation vs love for pp. He was so carried away making promises of aashiq for a woman whose full name also he didn't know.

He is quite foolish.

Its fine to be attracted to someone. But his behavior has always been silly. He is not perceptive and does not learn lessons even after seeing people's true face.

What he used to have with Pakhi at initial stage since the time Pakhi got married to Samrat & even after SaiRat marriage is called emotional affair. He kind of got over her from Sai's college admission track or result came out from whatever I've seen from those days.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

This whole justification of Virat character like he is people pleaser, he is non confrontational is rubbish. Where is this people pleaser go when it comes to taking stand for his bhabis. Shruti is outsider so he can go against whole family for her to the extent of leaving house and threatening his family members for name calling her but he can't open his mouth to ask his family members to stop disrespecting his so called love. Logic? Pakhi also family member and he don't mind taking stand for her against his family members be it his mother, so called wife, his best friend even though they speak truth about her. I am seriously fed up of the explanations people giving for Virat character. Didn't he showed his anger towards his family members in Shruti kand. Where does this people pleaser go during that time? Shouldn't he accept the insults by his family members like he expects Sai to do because apparently he RESPECTS his family and CAN'T LIVE without his so called family. But no he refused to forgive them, moved out of the house, didn't care when his own mom pleading him on her knees. So when it comes to his and his bhabis respect he can go to any length to take stand. But when it comes to his supposed lady love he is non confrontational, people pleaser bla bla👏. There's nothing real that is being served in ghum. If in real life family like chavans exists, they would have been in jail, a character like patralekha would have thrown out of the house, a supposed to be educated girl like Sai would have shut every one mouth by simply saying I will lodge a complaint against u for harrassing me to leave my job and for daily abusing me instead of waiting for her spineless husband to take decisions on behalf of her. so called police officer like Virat would have suspended for his disgusting acts and endorsing abuse in his own house if he was a real character. There's nothing real in this show. Yes many girls face career vs family in their laws house but not like this way. Sai is studying mbbs for 5 years but now suddenly kaku has problem with it. For what? Just for drama sake they show literally anything. There's nothing productive will come out of this track. As usual Virat will throw Sai under the bus to face his family wrath like he always do. Best example: ladak trip, her reentry to the house with insults after first separation during devkit track. Couldn't stop myself from responding. Virat is very regressive character who wants to project himself as progressive. Had he don't have the fear of loosing Sai because of career vs Bahu, he would have happily be okay with her agreeing to kaku condition. That's how he is. His wife is getting insulted publicly, she is being blamed for something which she didn't do (deal, him landing in hospital because of her accusations) but all he could notice is his wife changing her Sur name. This sums up this narcissistic character.

Word. His character is just unrealistic. No man in love with do what he does. Period. Ask the actor playing him on-screen what he has to say on this 😆

Shruti is his ultimate favourite bhabhi for whom he didn't even stop from rebuking his bff when she called her a pros*itue 🤪

I mean good he stood up for her there but Shruti was characterless doesn't matter if she's not a sl*t.

I don't get the makers here like in other shows they make MLs thrash the 3rd angles at some point cus it shoots up the TRPs par yaha toh ML shares some unique bond with them.