Welcome to CBC - Page 11

Originally posted by: msin

No I guess they find this a different track .. I don’t mind this career vs marriage track .. if they write it well ..

They can incorporate pakhi ka fake pregnancy.. when Sai knows she is not pregnant..,but acting

Then it can really be omi / Sonali not well .. but not getting a doctor ., and Sai refusing to treat them saying Kaku told her not to practice .. it will be good if they squirm .. then Sai gives them something like an antacid.,

Finally Kaku herself having a heart attack.. Sai treating her at the nick of time .. by giving those 3 medicines.. till Kaku herself is on the verge of death .. literally dead .. she will not realise Sai is a valuable resource

This will just increase number of episodes nothing else . She has done so much more than this but it has zilch affect on CN clowns..

If the story is real an impulsive girl like Sai should walk out of the house and If he really loves her should leave CN with Sai..

I understand why he chose to say bahu because that was necessary to get on with his next plan..

However I would like to see how he manages to convince Bhavani instead of sooth her ego every damn time..

How come this whole non confrontation mode is only switched on when its about Sai. and for how long will he keep trying to get everyone to "accept " her for the way she is....whats this need for hum saath saath hai all the time. He never has any plan. Just go with the flow. Keep defusing the situation. Never even think of leaving CN taking Sai with him. Is that thought at least going to be entertained by him. Obviously hoga nahi but will they bring it up? Or is he just gonna offer his silent support as Sai tolerates more taunts on a daily basis.

She has put his trust in him to figure this out. I think subconsciously she understood and knew that V was just trying to buy time and she knows he doesn't share BKs archaic ideology. So she gave in. Because being with hin is also important to her. But obviously shes unhappy about these conditions placed by BK.

I don't trust makers to handle such a track well. Anyway dekhte hai ...but personally i would have preferred V taking a stand out loud instead of this non confrontation, keep everyone happy modality which has pretty much never worked in the past also. All it does is make Sai go through uncessary inaults, taunts and she is expected to just brush it off.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

What did Virat's dream actually mean?

what I felt is he knows she is put in a fix. He knows she loves him and her career equally. But he didnt want to take Chance. Good that he understood that career and her aabas dream can surpass him. He accepts it as a possibility so he got scared that she might leave. She is also a person who wants immediate decision. It is actually a good sign, he knows her priorities and her nature too.

In his dream also, sai was talking about his efforts to make her a doctor will go to waste. So he understands that if she leaves, it is because of her inability to chose and not because she loves him any lesser. Therefore in order to buy some time and handle it amicably he spoke like that.

thinkgong back it is not the fear of losing her but the fear of their love and relationship being questioned again. He was sure it was a tough decision.

for example if she had chosen him not career would he be okay!? Absolutely not. He freaked out when she said she will flunk the exam 😀

He being a thinker in their marriage is taking a decision that holds the respect of their bond. He didn’t suspect her love. It was pretty clear from his dream.

One thing I liked about Virat's dream was Sai spoke about her being a doctor as Aabha's dream and her pehchaan. He knows in his mind that that it is her identity and she stands to lose it if she gives in to this. Which makes me feel he will think of something.

I think the problem with most of us is we are worried about his so called plans that almost always flop. 😆 and Sai bears the brunt of it.

Fact that she trusts him should make him feel more responsible towards her.

👏👏👏

Thank u for tagging!!

Actually I agree with ur point of having patience and going through the fine line!!

Living in joint family and in small family has a great difference and we can see it in behavior of the members... Now u'll think what's the point of having joint family or small family cuz there r MILs and DILs in both... That's not the case... in big family head person has to look after all the people's need ,their choices and all cuz it's their responsibility that no one in the house feels that they aren't valued... While in small family aisa kuch nai hai... We don't have to ask every other person to do some thing...

That is why people in joint families prefer girls who also belong to the same family background because if they know the art of living in such family they'll be able to adjust easily... And if it isn't the case ,nok jhok or sometimes can't say fight but the term matbhed or mannbhed happens!

Again this will feel so orthodoxy but yeah that's the truth!

Haven't ever tried to write such long posts cuz personally I feel that I am not able to explain what I feel to others but still this is it😅

Completely my interpretation.

V got happy hearing that Sai is ready to accept his name. That was his non dream part. So he knows how far she is ready to go. She is ready to change the one thing that she held dear.. her name Sai Joshi.

Dream starts here.

Kaku asks her to choose between being a bahu and doctor. Sai explains that this choice is difficult, unnecessary and not aligned with her dreams.

Team SaiRat joins in with their support but BK doesn't agree.

She feels that a woman cannot do both, that there might be a point where Sai has to choose one or other (totally possible and it does happen in real life... This conflict is very real. Absolutely nothing wrong in BK's interpretation here).

V is hearing all this... He knows what Sai will think, she will say Doctor... Team SaiRat too wants her to not give up on her dream. Even imagines how they will react to his non action. But V imagines himself worse, that even though Sai loves him passionately, she would give him up if he doesn't support her. Hence, she breaks the gathbandhan and goes away. While she does love him with all her heart, and ready to give up her identity, she cannot give up her career. She would not even consider this choice.

Here ends the dream. He is relieved to see Sai still there.

I felt that subconsciously V has realised this. That Sai leaves when he doesn't stand by her, her feelings, her dreams and her emotions. Her identity is equally important to her as much as her love. But that's only so much she can compromise. She is willing to sacrifice her name for him but she is not willing to give up her career. That's a no go.

That came from all other previous events.

Hence, he takes a gamble... He responds bahu but asks Sai to trust him. And she does. That encourages him. He visibly relaxes and completes the pheras and all through the remaining part keeps on trying to talk to her and make her smile.

Picture abhi baki hai. They will drag this till Saturday i feel.

So he has understood that she didn't like the reply but he is wishing to balance both her and BK. Why??? Is a question we all want to ask?

Logically he should have left then and there. Already has the transfer letter with him. Finish the pheras and move out.

But that's his pacifying nature, he wants both and somewhere he knows she wants it too. So it's an exercise in trust. How he lives up to it will be really interesting to see.

Once again, in real life and in real marriages it is not possible that the partners agree to everything. There is conflict, there is disagreement on the other persons actions. But you cannot just get up and leave everytime this happens. They have to work through. That's what happened today.

SaiRat will find something to work through.

He doesn't seem to have a clear cut plan right now but he will not let her sacrifice her career. Itna to ummeed hai mujhe abhi bhi. 🤞🏻🤞🏻

V ko is baat pe clarity nahi hai ki kya karna hai aur kaise karna hai .. but use is baat pe clarity hai ki nahi kiya to kya hoga...

I hope you got your answer in this jibber jabber.

Just loved your take on the episode ..

My thoughts are quite similar

Originally posted by: Moor278

Completely my interpretation.

V got happy hearing that Sai is ready to accept his name. That was his non dream part. So he knows how far she is ready to go. She is ready to change the one thing that she held dear.. her name Sai Joshi.

Dream starts here.

Kaku asks her to choose between being a bahu and doctor. Sai explains that this choice is difficult, unnecessary and not aligned with her dreams.

Team SaiRat joins in with their support but BK doesn't agree.

She feels that a woman cannot do both, that there might be a point where Sai has to choose one or other (totally possible and it does happen in real life... This conflict is very real. Absolutely nothing wrong in BK's interpretation here).

V is hearing all this... He knows what Sai will think, she will say Doctor... Team SaiRat too wants her to not give up on her dream. Even imagines how they will react to his non action. But V imagines himself worse, that even though Sai loves him passionately, she would give him up if he doesn't support her. Hence, she breaks the gathbandhan and goes away. While she does love him with all her heart, and ready to give up her identity, she cannot give up her career. She would not even consider this choice.

Here ends the dream. He is relieved to see Sai still there.

I felt that subconsciously V has realised this. That Sai leaves when he doesn't stand by her, her feelings, her dreams and her emotions. Her identity is equally important to her as much as her love. But that's only so much she can compromise. She is willing to sacrifice her name for him but she is not willing to give up her career. That's a no go.

That came from all other previous events.

Hence, he takes a gamble... He responds bahu but asks Sai to trust him. And she does. That encourages him. He visibly relaxes and completes the pheras and all through the remaining part keeps on trying to talk to her and make her smile.

Picture abhi baki hai. They will drag this till Saturday i feel.

So he has understood that she didn't like the reply but he is wishing to balance both her and BK. Why??? Is a question we all want to ask?

Logically he should have left then and there. Already has the transfer letter with him. Finish the pheras and move out.

But that's his pacifying nature, he wants both and somewhere he knows she wants it too. So it's an exercise in trust. How he lives up to it will be really interesting to see.

Once again, in real life and in real marriages it is not possible that the partners agree to everything. There is conflict, there is disagreement on the other persons actions. But you cannot just get up and leave everytime this happens. They have to work through. That's what happened today.

SaiRat will find something to work through.

He doesn't seem to have a clear cut plan right now but he will not let her sacrifice her career. Itna to ummeed hai mujhe abhi bhi. 🤞🏻🤞🏻

V ko is baat pe clarity nahi hai ki kya karna hai aur kaise karna hai .. but use is baat pe clarity hai ki nahi kiya to kya hoga...

I hope you got your answer in this jibber jabber.

Welcome to the real world !😆

Because he can afford to be confrontational about Shruti.

It doesn't matter if Shruti is not accepted in the family, there is no need infact in the first place.

But Sai is his wife, bahu of the house and her acceptance by the family is all that they both are striving for since day one.

So giving into direct confrontation will only escalate the matter like it has previously.

Also, the kind of environment V is ... He cannot live without his family... And even in real world, nobody can really live without their families.

Even the ones who elope and are disowned by the family strive to be accepted till their last breath. So just get up and leave it not possible.

For Pakhi, it is his guilt at ruining all the four lives by that stupid vaada. He has explained enough to her and clarified his stand multiple times. That the woman doesn't understand cannot be his fault. Itne dramatic confession ke baad bhi she was trying to break them up... matlab kya????

With or without Sai, i don't think he would have indulged in a relationship with her by betraying his brother for whom he sacrificed his one true love (then).

Upar se this is a show... Ye dono kahin aur chale gaye to drama khatam ho jayega. isliye inko baar baar CN lautna hi padta hai. By hook or by crook.

See the timing of the name change dialogue happening before the dream is very important.

Because of that, not only V, but BK and whole of CN family knows what Sai can do, how much she is ready to change.

But there's only so much someone can bend. And that means not giving up her career for Sai.

It is not just her dream, it is Aaba's too and she also credits V with helping her achieve that.

Also, V accepting that the reason they are in this mess is because KJ took the bullet meant for him. So he owes him that.

Hence, in the dream, when Sai looks at him with hope and he does not stand up, it is his combined guilt for failing her all these times. That's his mind telling him how you faltered and that you need to buck up.

But because he cannot come up with a plan immediately, he takes an approach that pacifies BK while he asks Sai to trust him that he will make sure she will not sacrifice on her dream.

It's a very real situation and a very real solution even though it may look bad right now. In hindsight, it would mean that V will make her realise her dream by treading a fine line between family and her.

It's completely his ball game now.