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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: xfiles

We all know that this show sucks in terms of writing, direction and overall execution. So it is better not to watch it as a whole trying to connect previous tracks because nothing sensible will come out it. Thats how much they have destroyed this show.

The best way to watch it now is to consider each track as a stand alone track with no bearing on the previous ones and in worst case scenarios, I consider even individual episodes as stand alone episodes. This is primarily to not lose my sanity over a show and at the same time enjoy what I want to enjoy 😆 This is the only way you can watch Ghum or else we will be perpetually stressed !🤔 Just my humble advice if you still want to continue watching Ghum 😃

I hardly watch this show now a days. But saw recent episodes clips on insta so thought of visiting forum. I stopped caring about this show's regressive plot and spineless characters. But what amazes me is the justifications for Virat character that he is people pleaser and non confrontational etc to justify his muteness over his wife insults. Even after Shruti track people still think he is non confrontational that's why not stopping his wife insults 🙄. He already proved what he is capable of doing when his respect and his bhabis respect is at stake. He don't stop his wife insults because he don't want to. As simple as that. He prefers his wife facing humiliation daily than him being in bad books of his family members. The main reason Virat character is deteriorating daily is because of the lameless justifications people give for this character. A husband being mute to his wife insults is big NO. Nothing can justify this. But here ml does this in every episode and people justify that spineless and narcissistic nature as non confrontational and people pleaser. Sorry if my posts offends anyone. But that's what it is.
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: xfiles

We all know that this show sucks in terms of writing, direction and overall execution. So it is better not to watch it as a whole trying to connect previous tracks because nothing sensible will come out it. Thats how much they have destroyed this show.

The best way to watch it now is to consider each track as a stand alone track with no bearing on the previous ones and in worst case scenarios, I consider even individual episodes as stand alone episodes. This is primarily to not lose my sanity over a show and at the same time enjoy what I want to enjoy 😆 This is the only way you can watch Ghum or else we will be perpetually stressed !🤔 Just my humble advice if you still want to continue watching Ghum 😃

Some of our creative writers here should come up with a User manual on

" How to Watch Ghum without losing your sanity" or

"Ghum watching for Dummies!" or

"Instruction Manual for Ghum 2.0" or something similar. It will be very helpful 🤣

Tagging a few writers for fun 😆

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

I hardly watch this show now a days. But saw recent episodes clips on insta so thought of visiting forum. I stopped caring about this show's regressive plot and spineless characters. But what amazes me is the justifications for Virat character that he is people pleaser and non confrontational etc to justify his muteness over his wife insults. Even after Shruti track people still think he is non confrontational that's why not stopping his wife insults 🙄. He already proved what he is capable of doing when his respect and his bhabis respect is at stake. He don't stop his wife insults because he don't want to. As simple as that. He prefers his wife facing humiliation daily than him being in bad books of his family members. The main reason Virat character is deteriorating daily is because of the lameless justifications people give for this character. A husband being mute to his wife insults is big NO. Nothing can justify this. But here ml does this in every episode and people justify that spineless and narcissistic nature as non confrontational and people pleaser. Sorry if my posts offends anyone. But that's what it is.

No need to apologise. You have every right to express your views here. I have always found the forum wasis sensible enough to understand every point of view.
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Posted: 3 years ago

No re. Your posts are welcome. Just as you feel Virat is spineless, some feel that he is people pleaser. It is just a matter of nazariya. It is fine.

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Posted: 3 years ago

It is always the non-verbal thats is more impactful and intense in appeal. Words are slave to interpretation.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: sherry_24

It is always the non-verbal thats is more impactful and intense in appeal. Words are slave to interpretation.


Jo bhi mein kehna chahun, barbaad kare alphaaz mere!


This line struck me like the truth when I heard it. 😊 And now your line words are slave to interpretation. 👏

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Posted: 3 years ago

Slightly different but very interesting point

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Edited by Moor278 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Have seen this one. It holds a a very powerful meaning.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: xfiles

This is what affects the overall viewing experience adversely to the point of getting on our nerves. But what to do - real life equation trumps audience preference!🤔

Virakhi love angle is beyond me.. The way it has been kept alive no wonder fans call them unprofessional since the real life equation is there they have aggravated fans doubts.. 👎🏼It has only created some negative hypes as result affected on viewing experience 👎🏼..We don't know the real picture unfortunately they are literally playing mind games with fans..

In other version virakhi angle was deeper.. Rono literally fall for her from the very first sight of her.. They had more intense conversation than this one.. Once he gets married to Emon he became more formal minus the last track..

Now coming to shruti angle.. I didn't get why both SaiRat were harping on betray, pain etc etc.. sai never allowed him to get intimate with her neither Virat gave her any clarity about his changing feelings.. Virat is wrong here for betraying his nation and putting Sai's life in danger.. If they were bit more intimate during mimo track then I would have understood the pain both always harping on..

Both angles only downgraded Virat's character.. Because mostly it was him who always led them on.. It directly impacted on Sai's character as well who chose to only believe virat even after knowing the whole truth from Sada

Edited by Shaome - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: sherry_24

It is always the non-verbal thats is more impactful and intense in appeal. Words are slave to interpretation.

Always nonverbal is more impactful is not true. Sometimes you need to open your mouth and speak.

Virat's silence every single time Sai is attacked by his ridiculous family is not acceptable.

He always has some excuse or the other for his silence/tolerance pertaining to Sai's harassment. Today its shaadi that was priority , yesterday n tomm it maybe something else.

Imo, there's no use to his support towards Sai if he is going to do it without explicitly stating to these losers that their stance is completely unacceptable.

We know V cares a lot about Sais education and career. But theres no point in him caring if he cant speak up. Instead of placating Sai , he should be telling his family that they cannot make any irrational conditions. Its HIS marriage so any talk of potential expectations from his spouse Sai should be his perogative and ideally discussed pre-shaadi and not during the pheras. So bk however "respected" has no business demanding things and making stupid rules and just coz he wants peace in his family or no drama in the wedding he can't just stay quiet and watch that happen.

If he was waiting for the shaadi to happen, well now it has. So i wanna see if he will he speak up the next day or is he gonna do more wait/watch while Sai gets harassed some more....

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