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Posted: 3 years ago
#91

Originally posted by: msin

Sometimes it is necessary to step back and then spring an attack

Kaku had started drama and toxicity right in the middle of function..

Any thing virat and Sai have said would have led to more vitriol .. he just stopped the damage ..



Kaku is not Bhagwan that virat cannot lie to her .. he can always walk around the bakwas pledge .

he just got Kaku to stop and move back..

Sai will be a doctor .. Ab when we will see





Ok, for once can take about Virat trying to diffuse the situation by pleasing his good for nothing kaku. But isn't it a high time that he told her to stfu from calling names to his wife?? Y it has to be later always that he opens his mouth?? Atleast now onwards, after learning about Sai's love for him, he shld be shown taking strong stand for her & if those mentals don't agree, he straight away shld threaten to leave that madhouse!

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Posted: 3 years ago
#92

Actually sai should ask pakhi .publicly in dinner table Why don’t you and Sam dada have a baby isn’t it time .. if Kaku is asking me for a waaris won’t Mansi Bua want the same from you

Edited by msin - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
#93

What did Virat's dream actually mean?

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Posted: 3 years ago
#94

No I guess they find this a different track .. I don’t mind this career vs marriage track .. if they write it well ..


They can incorporate pakhi ka fake pregnancy.. when Sai knows she is not pregnant..,but acting


Then it can really be omi / Sonali not well .. but not getting a doctor ., and Sai refusing to treat them saying Kaku told her not to practice .. it will be good if they squirm .. then Sai gives them something like an antacid.,




Finally Kaku herself having a heart attack.. Sai treating her at the nick of time .. by giving those 3 medicines.. till Kaku herself is on the verge of death .. literally dead .. she will not realise Sai is a valuable resource

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Posted: 3 years ago
#95

See this is a daily soap zzz they will stretch these issues pro max ..


This is the next track which has been laid out …for the last 200 episodes it was Sai n virat ka confession.. now they have confessed ..

If all the issues get sorted why will public watch .,

The next track is career vs marriage ..

Then maybe can a lady balance both nicely .

Edited by msin - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
#96

That pakhi , Kaku , omi and Sonali are big time evil .. he saw their real faces clearly in his dream

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Posted: 3 years ago
#97

So finally I watched today's episode - that too on TV because I wanted to pick up the reactions of everyone.

Sai's confusion and Virat's dilemma nicely portrayed today. The first part of Virat's dream was interesting because it clearly showed what he thinks of each of the characters from Team Sai to Team BK. 😃 And as viewers, we can see that he has a clear understanding of each and every member of his family.

And his final answer "bahu banegi" to BK was definitely out of panic that Sai will leave him. Now that both are in love, he just cannot afford to lose her. So he gave that answer.

But what I feel is, he still does not have a plan, bande ne aisa hi kah diya to diffuse the situation. Just like before during Sruthi kaand and recently breaking off ties with Sai with that diya drama, he does not think through a plan before executing. Sadly, Paki is also the same, but in its worst form. Kuch sochte hain aur kar dete hain, koi plan nahin hain ki kaise karna hain. Viru has the same problem, ye tho finally phas jaata hain but Paki gets egg in her face. 😆Thats the only difference.

But that was TILL NOW. Maybe now, things will change, as this is also a stage for him to grow and become Sai ka Pati. And stakes are definitely high. So he cannot afford a single misstep. I assume he will think through this time and come up with a fool proof plan and then execute it. Thats probably what he did today so that he can buy some time.


I know many people are angry with Virat's stand today but my 2 cents -

it is not as easy as we think it is. That too for a character like him, who considers his family and acceptance of Sai by his family to be very important, he cannot take a hasty decision at the mandap. He did the best he could by diffusing the situation and giving hope to BK that she won. But he knows BK well and how he can manipulate her to make her come around. Thats probably the rest of this track with of course a big play on mutual trust between pati and patni.

Its now a new stage in life for them too. To accept each other, to have faith, to support each other's needs and to work in tandem as a team. Their journey has just begun.

Virat is definitely not one who wants to rock the boat. ( I am completely ignoring the post-Sruthi Virat and his ridiculous behaviour to both his family and Sai 🤔)

Being a married woman, I too have come across situations where I dont agree with my in laws but I am a firm believer of not taking "bull by its horns immediately". Though it might be the righteous thing to do, the collateral damage may not be worth the trouble especially when you know your husband is close to his family. So my best option is always either ignore it so that it will diffuse by itself or talk to him and we take a stand together. Because at the end of the day, you need everyone. And believe me, 90 out of 100 times, my in laws have come around to my point eventually. bas thoda sa patience hona chahiye😃.

I know that I sound a little old fashioned but trust me it works. But, in any point of my life did I ever compromise on my self respect or my individuality nor did I give up on anything I wanted to do. So basically it is an art of picking your battles and walking that fine line. Every single thing need not be a confrontation, there are so many other strategies you can choose and finally get what you want.

I would think Virat is that kind of a person.He wants both Sai and his family in his life.


Virat's "I Love You Sai" in the pre cap was so endearing!! Hope to hear more of that. ❤️



PS - why do they have to show close up shot of Paki every 15 seconds, this is so bloody annoying now 😡 and she didnt have a single line to speak. Unprofessional to the core. I seriously wonder what hold she has on the PH to be treated this way.🤔

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Virat’s dream was personification of his inner fears. He imagined the sequence of events basis his understanding of each of the family member including himself. He knew Sai’s decision, the choice she would make, he knew how Ashwini would try to stop, and most importantly he knew he would not step up to support Sai in her decision. He knew hope he would react if Sai took that call and asked for him to agree. He would have no control on the course of events and knew he would lose Sai because he probably wouldn’t be able to stand up to BK. The only place he went wrong with judgement was BK. In his dream you will see her smiling when Sai walks off as if she wanted her to leave. This is proven wrong when BK confirms to Sonali and P that Sai is family and she is concerned for her. He imagined the whole sequence as per understanding, retracted, re-evaluated and then decided to change the sequence by changing the action of one person he could..himself

V knew that he had to somehow salvage the situation, his usual stance as he imagined in dream will make him lose Sai. He knew he had to step up for her. But he also knew that this was not the time to go bold, that could worsen the situation. He had to handle this more carefully. He took the decision for Sai ensuring and knowing that she will trust him with it. And by this he only stalled the events and the situation became calm momentarily. He is only waiting for the right situation to put his plan into action, whatever it is up in his mind.

Edited by sherry_24 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
#99

Completely agree. Virat said bahu because he was scared of losing her. And it is better for the couple to fight an issue together rather. Also this was not a wedding. They were just renewing their vows. They would have remained a couple nonetheless.

Also, I feel the situation that they were in, confrontation would have been messy. This was better.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Virat is so selfish can't believe he tell sai leave her career i think only his family important in his life just like he fight for shruti he never fight for sai actually what virat want sai become his slave and ya sai to bikul typical hogayi now she is weak now even he wouldn't let sai saying doctor now sai iqs being fool she said she trust virat and also she is weak now now she loves virat so she is ready to become gopi she will let family torcher her i remember kokila modi lock gopi in dark store room but gopi has no problem because she is weakness she loves ahem and because she break fast for ahem now sai will let chavan torcher her because she loves virat now



Precap i think virat are controlling sai he knows why sai upset and sai still saying smile its look sai he is taking sai advantage weakness love otherwise how sai fool i trust you and i love you too bola lag raha hai sai ready to give up on her career then why virat force sai to do exams and virat break sai dream and kamal ki promise also

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