Sai really needs to leave. - Page 7

Originally posted by: sadiltl

really a good discussion but I can’t type my insights. Would have been better if we could all talk and debate.
I don’t want to cause hurt to others sentiments because women issues are sensitive. We should not randomly say things. So thats why I sai no contest.

And I want to be friends with you all! After all we need to discuss sairat romance down the lane ☺️

2nd year is pathology, micro, forensic and pharmacology and the beginning of clinical rotations,she would not be in a position to assist deliveries. In final year we all had to get certified in conducting 20 normal deliveries as a requirement of Mbbs curriculum. So unless Sai went to final year suddenly she cannot be in the hospital assisting deliveries.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

No I don’t consider his gifts!

I liked how he stood by sai during her name change and education. He is supportive of her goals. And considers them as his. That’s what I like in him.

That's my favorite part too..his attachment WITH KJ has a lot to do with his good deeds ..This guy is way too much attached to KJ even more than his own father..

Many girls loose their identity post marriage. One sad truth of our society.. She will be either called as someone's wife or someone's mother..

Originally posted by: Nja91

2nd year is pathology, micro, forensic and pharmacology and the beginning of clinical rotations,she would not be in a position to assist deliveries. In final year we all had to get certified in conducting 20 normal deliveries as a requirement of Mbbs curriculum. So unless Sai went to final year suddenly she cannot be in the hospital assisting deliveries.

Could she be there for clinical rotations?

May be she came to meet pullu, saw Virat coincidentally and followed him.

Originally posted by: Nja91

2nd year is pathology, micro, forensic and pharmacology and the beginning of clinical rotations,she would not be in a position to assist deliveries. In final year we all had to get certified in conducting 20 normal deliveries as a requirement of Mbbs curriculum. So unless Sai went to final year suddenly she cannot be in the hospital assisting deliveries.

meri ummeedom pe paani mat phenkna.

may be sai got special permissions because she is topper! They can take creative liberties here.

My ideal partner is someone who considers me as an equal. And supports my dreams. Rest and all are trivial for me.

Equal in the sense not with jealousy and all! Virat completely loses here… in a good way though.

Originally posted by: wonderwomen143

Could she be there for clinical rotations?

May be she came to meet pullu, saw Virat coincidentally and followed him.

darling there is going to be an MU. Just get prepared for it! We are all under water so what’s big deal 😅

Originally posted by: sadiltl

bigger cities yes things are changing. Just go one level below!!! Yeah I have handful of examples which went wrong. And you have books and media which discuss these in and out. In my opinion it takes two more generations and solid education to let things happen like we desire. And for virat to not pose as a husband to protect a woman.

@bold Agree 100000%. Not just patriachy, every ills in society needs many decades, multiple generations and widespread education among the masses to bring about gradual change. Majority humans are creatures of habit (conditioned thinking) - and unfortunately there is no quick fix to bring change.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

bigger cities yes things are changing. Just go one level below!!! Yeah I have handful of examples which went wrong. And you have books and media which discuss these in and out. In my opinion it takes two more generations and solid education to let things happen like we desire. And for virat to not pose as a husband to protect a woman.

I agree to it all.

BUT since smaller cities are at it and do watch these shows, in a way they could make these ideal characters not do such things at times. The only way to bring that change is through movies/shows. In smaller cities a middle age woman with grown up children looking out for love would be frowned upon, probably would be attacked and yet show showcasing that aspect in an ordinary woman's life is not only loved by majority but is also being accepted with all hearts. ITV has certain degree of responsibility. This show has shown none.

Change will not come in two decades on its own. Shows though are not for reforming the society can take these small steps to bring that change. Apart from helping her study(which if he did not Sai would have stepped out anyway), Virat has honestly not done much in terms of being" not patriarchist" . Talking about words and not actions. The character introduced however was not the one I would associate all that I have said for Virat now, with. Toxic MLs have been shown to be better feminist than Virat Chavan. By feminist I mean 'human feminist' and not over blown meanings of the word.

I don't think if Virat did not pose as her husband it would not have worked, she would not have been able to deliver the baby. A lot of women on roads have given birth to babies, in smaller cities as well. I have my house help in smaller city doing fine without her husband...They have had auto wala bhaiya's as their Bhaiya help them when needed. So no this was not needed here...

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

@bold Agree 100000%. Not just patriachy, every ills in society needs many decades, multiple generations and widespread education among the masses to bring about gradual change. Majority humans are creatures of habit (conditioned thinking) - and unfortunately there is no quick fix to bring change.

I preferred the last two words 😊 Because I almost wrote the same thing.