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Posted: 3 years ago
#31

Anyone who has watched KD can you please tell when will this shruti crap end and when will sai give divorce and walk out of that mad house

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Posted: 3 years ago
#32

If she is in the hospital , why call virat. She has been pretending to be strong, independent. If she could be in a jungle without antenatal care, surely now she can call nurses/Doctors for help.

I have zero sympathy for her or Virat. They both havr invited problems on themselves ny repeatedly making bad choices.

Also the actor has been blah.... everyone was raving about her performance capabilities but I fast forward nearly all her scenes too. Nothing noteworthy so far. Shes definitely better than pp or pulkit but thats not saying much....

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Panic may be! For First time pregnancy, entire family supports a woman especially maternal side because the woman does need moral and physical support. Sruthi has only virat now. And he did everything to her without complaining.. he repeatedly told her to ask him for help because he is doing this for himself or taken upon himself. So she has that trust on a person who helped her til now. I don’t see anything wrong in calling him. I would have called him totally.

in jungle she had her husband who she trusts will not let anything happen to her. May be!

Virat should go to her for the same reason. He kept himself available till now, so can’t give up on her when she is at the verge of delivering. His promise to his friend is to make sure she delivers safe! So if he doesn’t go now then all his help till now is a waste.


I don’t have problem with virat posing as a husband because that’s the best protection he could give a pregnant lady at this moment given scenario in Indian society. I DO have a problem if he gives his name to the child without sais consent. Sai can contest it in court and go for a divorce. With just sruthi, she can try to be understanding, iff he explains.

just my opinion and how I see



Ps: shafaq is good only if not at the level of kunti ma performance.


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Posted: 3 years ago
#34

Imo calling himself her husband is not ok either. How would he feel if Sai pretended to be married to some random guy? Theres a certain decorum inntheir relationship that he needs to remember. Even if this was deal shaadi it'd be unacceptable. He claims to love Sai yet not once is he even guilty of claiming to be Shrutis husband...And when he calls himself husband of a pregnant woman, he has automatically declared himself as unborn kids father too.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: Nja91

Imo calling himself her husband is not ok either. How would he feel if Sai pretended to be married to some random guy? Theres a certain decorum inntheir relationship that he needs to remember. Even if this was deal shaadi it'd be unacceptable. He claims to love Sai yet not once is he even guilty of claiming to be Shrutis husband...And when he calls himself husband of a pregnant woman, he has automatically declared himself as unborn kids father too.

Theoretically it is not right because role reversal doesn’t hold! You are right.

But in a patriarchal society and in a society where a man can take advantage of woman whenever there is a small chance, role reversal would not work. It is not practical.

‘husband’ is the protection he can give to a married pregnant woman so she is not looked down upon. We can go deeper into the discussion why a woman is respected more or treated well if she has a husband. There are several sociological explanations. In short, in a society like India where there is less education, and hence patrirarchal mindset ‘husband’ cover works!

Also it might be morally incorrect for virat to tell his name as husband but not legally. He has to provide marriage certificate too so it is fine till then.


But if his name gets into brith record, he is giving the child rights on his property on which sai has half the right. Legally for a married person he cannot do this without his wife’s consent. And taking responsibility of being a parent without her knowledge is not correct. Sai can contest it in court and ask for divorce. If he has to give name, adopt the child legally with your wife and provide better future for your best friends child.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Panic may be! For First time pregnancy, entire family supports a woman especially maternal side because the woman does need moral and physical support. Sruthi has only virat now. And he did everything to her without complaining.. he repeatedly told her to ask him for help because he is doing this for himself or taken upon himself. So she has that trust on a person who helped her til now. I don’t see anything wrong in calling him. I would have called him totally.

in jungle she had her husband who she trusts will not let anything happen to her. May be!

Virat should go to her for the same reason. He kept himself available till now, so can’t give up on her when she is at the verge of delivering. His promise to his friend is to make sure she delivers safe! So if he doesn’t go now then all his help till now is a waste.


I don’t have problem with virat posing as a husband because that’s the best protection he could give a pregnant lady at this moment given scenario in Indian society. I DO have a problem if he gives his name to the child without sais consent. Sai can contest it in court and go for a divorce. With just sruthi, she can try to be understanding, iff he explains.

just my opinion and how I see



Ps: shafaq is good only if not at the level of kunti ma performance.


I don't agree with you totally.. I understand why Shruti called him.. She is pregnant and thinking about the child only..

I don't think there were any choice but giving his name as husband..He could have told that she is his cousin or relative.. And then put Dada's name as father..

Does shruti care about society.. She has willingly chose this life upon herself ..She had this in mind before signing in for such jobs .

Virat's character is a joke.. They are ruining viewing experience bit by bit through this character.. Hard to believe an ACP doesn't have any gut instinct.. Sheltering pregnant Maoist doesn't make him any good human being because he is the same guy who can kick out his wife in the middle of night

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Posted: 3 years ago
#37

He could've become her brother in that case and lied that her husband is away/in army/out of state or said the truth that he's dead. What extra protection is he providing in hotel/hospital by lying about being her husband? UM and Madhuri are examples in this very show itself of women who were zimmedaris on KJ and pulkit without becoming wives.

He seems to have no qualms about it too.

No hesitation to blatantly lie about being her husband.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#38

Just trying to keep my pov.

Why Shruti needs him now. She is already in the hospital now safe delivery is all in the hands of doctors , Virat has nothing to do with her or they both have developed this much bond that now she needs Virat for emotional support ? I don't think so.

Also Virat claiming himself husband is not the best way seeing society the society even , because he is a known IPS of Nagpur how will society see him then. He will be seen as one who betrayed his own wife. Also it isn't necessary to become husband to give protections be it any case, being brother was also fine n no one in the society would have doubted ,this was an idiotic step taken by him.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nja91

He could've become her brother in that case and lied that her husband is away/in army/out of state or said the truth that he's dead. What extra protection is he providing in hotel/hospital by lying about being her husband? UM and Madhuri are examples in this very show itself of women who were zimmedaris on KJ and pulkit without becoming wives.

He seems to have no qualms about it too.

No hesitation to blatantly lie about being her husband.

UM and Madhuri would have faced insults. Virat himself questioned the nature of the relationship between pulkit and madhuri. :) society doesn’t work that way.
he should have said died to be clean! Truth never fails. But he said the police are looking for a widow. So if sruthi wears sindoor to not pose as a widow then husband is the better cover.


just think humans as social ‘animals’ and see why husband fills the gap. There are hundreds of realistic movies in Indian Cinema that discusses the issues young windows or single women face. Theoretically even I want a Society where role reversal works. I see that somewhat in USA. But in India no… we still have long time to move forward .

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nja91

He could've become her brother in that case and lied that her husband is away/in army/out of state or said the truth that he's dead. What extra protection is he providing in hotel/hospital by lying about being her husband? UM and Madhuri are examples in this very show itself of women who were zimmedaris on KJ and pulkit without becoming wives.

He seems to have no qualms about it too.

No hesitation to blatantly lie about being her husband.

I totally agree, i posted same thing few week ago .

Sai can clearly understand and support him if the relation is like Usha and madhuri.

He can easily present her as sister in hotel like husband has to go away on work, taking sister to mom’s house. Missed bus or train and lost her purse.

Same thing in hospital, no mom and dad, husband stuck somewhere or just cheated her. He is brother. Helping sister.

He had so many options to support and protect her.

If he made her his sister, even if Sai misunderstands him, it is easy to clear.

With his stupidity he not only hurt Sai feelings but also her her safety after Sada returns.

He made her wife, gave name to baby as father still wants Sai to understand.

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