Originally posted by: prs_725
Beautiful analysis, Janki!
Virat was totally hurt screaming at Sai in the room and in front of all the people. The tears in his eyes were evidently speaking the chaos in his heart, he knows th battle he picked up on yelling at Sai in front of everyone else. Him closing his eyes when Pakhi insulted and everyone else insulted Sai seemed like even he can't handle the insults but he knows he has picked up a battle that he can't back out from. Was it how she talked to his family or talked w Amey and him that troubled him?
Amey conversation has hurt him very deeply. It's not going to get okay so soon. To top it, he doesn't like her being attacked for her own loose tongue. So when she goes out of control and gives the family a chance to call her name's and insult her, it hurts him. And this whole honey trapping Amey will not go down well with the family he knows but she's being adamant. It kind of justifies his anger (keeping aside logic that he actually can arrest Amey without listening to Sai)
I also want to point out him saying "apne nasuk khandhey par itna bhoj kyun lena chahti ho Sai?"
That spoke volumes to me! he realizes the work she has cut out to do w her college and his family and wants her to avoid any energy expending confrontations. He is trying to make her understand to fight her battles carefully and choose which ones to fight and worth fighting. Yes his family is mean and she cant stand there taking insults but I think using tact, as you mentioned, will and DOES get the job done.
Yes, exactly. I think Sai would benefit if she follows his advise and just sticks to her important stuff - studies and some chores. And give it back when it's absolutely must and he's there to back her. She doesn't have to actually carry out every morcha on her own, as he said. I tend to agree.
We have seen Sai lack tact many times before as well - one when she goes to police station and her aba misses the chance to nab jagtap and his son and her dad tells her bc of you I missed the chance to stop them and then again when Jagtap traps her into coming out of the home saying it's her dad on the road. Though smart, when she gets emotionally involved, she is unable to think rationally beyond that and understand, what the next set of actions could mean for her and her husband. I think all this is a surviving mechanism bc though she understand Virat does things for her, she thinks no one is her apna to help her and love her/to shade her. Even when Virat does it, she refuses to believe its out of more than zimmedari and she is not wrong in that...bc he clearly stated i'll only do things for zimmedari. Should he sit her down and say we are more than zimmedari bond now, I think she will def listen.
Agree. They need to break that silence and come clean about a few things, especially him. So it will clear her confusion too đ
Virat babu needs to say whats in his heart but as his mom said "he never tells anyone what is in his heart". This is costing him his precious time w biwi but her time and energy as well. The sooner these two learn woh dono ek dusre ke liya kya hain and not duniya ke liye, the faster they will understand what both are trying to say...
They have admitted they are husband/wife for the world but keep questioning each other "tum kaun ho?"/ "aap hote kaun hain?"
They said it in rage today. They now know they are Pati Patni and parivaar=zimmedariđ¤Ł
Sigh SaiRat!! Their journey is def interesting to watch bc today they opened their relationship to more than zimmedari-and-my aba. They are on the way to becoming a popular SP jodi for sure. Last I watched this much fire between leads was Iss Pyaar days <3
I don't know why I love them fighting. They are so real. It's definitely a whole periodic table of chemistry.đ
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