Virat expectation from Sai (to fulfil his vaada to Kamal Sir) - Page 2

Originally posted by: Jalebi-Bhai

I hate how many expectations are expected out of Sai. Like the poor girl lost her father and she's so young and she has all this to deal with, on top of her "husband" having googly eyes for someone else. The poor girl needs to be cut some slack

I know, even though its a show, I still feel for her 💔

Originally posted by: neeraja91

The virat pakhi relationship is betond me! Its best in their interests if they focus on their individual lives and their real spouses instead of each other.

As much as virat is dutiful and a gentleman who is supportive of sai, the truth is that him n the village people forced Sai to get married. If he is taking her responsibility he should handle it all himself. Theres absolutely no need to get pakhi involved with taking care of , "guiding" and "helping" sai. Especially when its do clear that Sai dislikes pakhi! His mother and bua are there for guiding and supporting sai.

Given that pakhi is now his sister in law it is best that he maintains a respectful distance from her not just physically but emotionally too. Even if sai wasn't in the picture, pakhi is his brothers wife. His idea and promise to "never give any other girl place in his heart and life" was completely uncalled for because making such a promise means that he is pining after his sister in law....thats is also immoral as much as if he decided he'd sleep with her!

If these 2 mature people- virat n pakhi truly loved each other they should have spoken up and got married to each other. By hiding the truth they have hurt samrat very much and now by playing this "best friends" game they are only fooling themselves and hurting themselves. There is no need to constantly be in each others lives ....pakhi n virat both have families n jobs to help them move on. Moving on in life and not interfering in each others life is the mature way to handle their relationship. Not this best friend best friend rubbish.

If they had 10% of courage that Sai has, Virat and Pakhi would not be in this situation.

Sai didn't agree to be involved in his best friend/pyaar relation with Pakhi .

Now he should keep Pakhi and Sai separate rather than trying to bring them both in the same world.

If he wanted to keep things clean, he should have told Pakhi not to interfere in Sai's life and Sai to ignore Pakhi.

Just coz pakhi , sai are both "part of the family" does not mean they need to get along qnd become friends. Especially when theres atleast 2 people of the household (not to forget usha maushi) ashwini and shivani who are SENIOR and SUPPORTIVE. I cringed when virat asked pakhi to help sai with getting ready for the function. First of all, I'm sure that Sai can dress herself appropriately. Shes 18 not 8! And shes not getting ready for some appearance at a Red Carpet. Its just a simple function at home. It's like hes deliberating trying to bring pakhi into Sai's life. Why?! I dont think sai needs pakhi to guide, mentor or do anything for her. They can just peacefully co-exist. I loved when Sai upfront asked virat why pakhi should help with studies...vo doctor hai kya! Lol. It was savage and much needed. As far as i know pakhi is currently unemployed and whatever job qualification she has is definitely NOT related to science let alone medicine...toh kaahe ka help aur guidance. Virat wants to maintain a relationship of friendship with pakhi - thats his decision, his choice, his problem. But he is involving Sai in it if he chooses to talk to pakhi in their room. I loved that Sai said that she does NOT like pakhi barging into her room and that he is free to go chat with her outside.

Originally posted by: sukri

Virat never knew his family would react this way . He was shocked and disturbed to see his family behavior towards Sai . What we fail to realize is not just Sai’s life but Virat life has changed as well . It not just her but he is subjected to criticism by his family .It was not his decision alone to marry .Sai did not oppose the marriage so it’s unfair to blame him . Even today Sai has a choice to walk out of the marriage if she thinks it’s not worth it to put up with his family . Sai lost a normal college life and Virat lost a normal life as well .He has taken a responsibility of a women at a young age and that’s speaks a lot about his character . I find it unfair to blame him for his family’s mistake . He deserves to be appreciative for supporting Sai at every stage .

Sai was impulsive and childish even before the marriage .She jumped to conclusions very easily and we have seen multiple incidents in GC . It’s her nature .

Originally posted by: yyyy

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He has been very clear from the beginning that this is marriage of convenience and he cannot be her husband and Sai had similar conditions as well where she said she will never accept him as her husband .Regarding his relationship with Pakhi it’s definitely not EMA and Sai was not kept in dark about his past . He has maintained safe distance from Pakhi after her marriage to Samrat and doesn’t cross his limits but it’s unrealistic to except him to forget everything and behave nothing happened in the past .He cannot ignore Pakhi completely given that Samrat is missing and somewhere he feels guilty for putting her in this situation

Crossing the limits doesn't essentially mean physical relationship I think.... Their dialogues to each other sounds plain cheating to me... And Virat Pakhi is not cheating Sai as she knows everything before hand according to you, but then aren't they cheating Samrat ?? 🤢

The whole premise of this marriage to Sai is a bit of a loophole that cannot ever be fully justified by the makers.because there were just n number of ways he could have handled the situation without marrying her! But we all just have to accept that as a starting point coz the whole show hinges on this. Lol.

Yes virat is definitely doing his best to be supportive and hes also tried to be very clear about his position and not being able to "be a husband" at this juncture. Hes a righteous man. Agreed. But even if virat himself didn't realize the extent of humiliation Sai would be subjected to he should have still seen some of it coming....Virat is also getting told off but its nothing compared to what Sai is getting. If hes witness to all this drama when hes at home, how much more does Sai get when hes at work. She is currently at home all the time coz her entrance results have not come. Thats probably why shes SO nervous and excited about her results. Coz the only way she can get some sanity and peace of mind is when she finally joins college!

Granted he did try to warn her that his family is conservative but that was a GROSS understatement. Maybe he should have said several of them especially the oldest ones are "crazy" and "rude". Lol.

Honestly Sai has been forced more than virat. In the shock and grief of her fathers death, she really did not have any choice. She tried telling the villagers- she asked them if they would support her and they refused saying "hum hamesha nahi rahenge!" And despite that she still went to virat and asked him to refuse coz she wouldn't be able to singlehandedly refuse it herself. She was desperate to leave GC even before her fathers death because of the non stop harrasment and because jagtap and vitthal alwayys managed to be out on bail or escape charges. In this situation this 18 year old was looking at an IPS officer to NOT marry her and complicate her life but to just get her out of there.

Yes i agree that shes impulsive but what do people expect. She will mellow down with age....and everytime she's overstepped, virat has gently reprimanded her and she has rectified the situation.

So in this whole mess like majority of the viewers i am firmly in support of Sai - she is a beautiful, brave but broken girl who is trying her best to adjust to the challenges life is throwing at her without losing her self respect and ideals that her father inculcated. And even though the marriage itself was not the best step for her, the only good that has come out of it is that virat is now 100% tied into her life and is going to hopefully stand by her through thick and thin and in the process also discover that shes the life partner that he always needed and the ideal bahu to put his crazy family in place. Like many family members have realized before him, Sai ke aane se kaafi kuch badalne waala hai - and for the good.

The only description for bhawani is downright despicable! She is two faced, manipulative, petty, chindi, with an extremely regressive soch. She thinks shes better than everyone when in reality shes honestly a pretty terrible human being. And ninad, omi, sonali, mansi are puppets! Karishma, mohit are mute. The only people that are normal are shivani, ashwini devyani and virat himself. Maybe samrat if he had been there

I am not including patralekha and sunny because pakhi has no connection to the family without samrat and both her and sunny are just virats "friends" . Thats all.

Originally posted by: neeraja91

The only description for bhawani is downright despicable! She is two faced, manipulative, petty, chindi, with an extremely regressive soch. She thinks shes better than everyone when in reality shes honestly a pretty terrible human being. And ninad, omi, sonali, mansi are puppets! Karishma, mohit are mute. The only people that are normal are shivani, ashwini devyani and virat himself. Maybe samrat if he had been there

I am not including patralekha and sunny because pakhi has no connection to the family without samrat and both her and sunny are just virats "friends" . Thats all.

Regular sasural hota, toh problem hi nahi tha. Sai would have been okay fulfilling the bahu role.

Roz roz ka fighting nahi hota. Koi normal person pagal ho jaye.

Ehsan faramosh toh Chavan Khandhan hain.

They didn't even think twice that Kamal sir gave his life for Virat, else Virat would have died.

If they had so much tameez, when they knew Sai went to save Virat's career, no one thanked her for it either.

Originally posted by: CookiesNCream

Virat did not want to marry Sai in the first place. Neither did Sai. Sai's people forced Virat to marry her as they thought this is the right way to undertake one's responsibility. Usha & co had no care in the world about Virat's family and how they will treat Sai. They just wanted to rush with the wedding.

Even without the marriage, Virat would have provided the care and guidance that Sai needed.

Since the marriage happened, there is no way Sai can escape all the household drama. Sai is too young to deal with all this stuff. But Virat will not become team-Sai and go against family too. He knows that his family is flawed but he still loves them because they are his fam regardless. Sai and Virat have a long way to go when it comes to understanding eachother, love etc.

Regardless the age, when a person gets married, they are expected to carry out all responsibilities. A married woman is expected to carry out all her duties regardless regardless her age being 18 or 30.

Its fine to help around the house where you are living, bahu or not, so far, Sai doesn't seem to be having problem doing housework.

What you said is true, but I meant more about the other drama in sasural. No bahu signs up for daily insults. The way family taunts Ashwni, Karishma is OTT. Bhavani is the source of the problem. Even though she says so many things, but she does things totally opposite of what she says (like talking about respecting others when she herself doesn't leave a chance to insult other people, differentiating between bahus oats vs conflakes etc)

But the family knows Sai is 18 year old, who is right out of school and lost her father recently. She has no guidance on becoming a bahu and she is probably the youngest member in the household now. Elders in the family instead of guiding her with love, are taunting her and her parvarish (i.e. indirectly taunting her dad for bad values, forgetting that he gave up his life for Virat).

They can treat her respectfully like any other human being and if she still insults them and is rude, I can understand Bhavani's point of view then.

Not saying Sai doesn't have faults, but if it was any other person other than Sai, they would have not been able to handle this family. Even Pakhi would have gone that way, but Samrat's money is saving her. Otherwise who can forget how she was not even allowed to go visit her parents initial days of marriage.