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Spandana

@sptrno

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+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#121

Thank u and love you so much dear for making this post..........also loved reading everyone's thoughts..........

I truly and immensely love, respect, admire and worship MAANEET so i'm really hurt and shocked to see so many bashing posts some bashing Geet some bashing Maan from couple of days................so i love and support all posts which defend our Geet and Maan............

I fail to understand y is that whenever anything tragic unpleasant or negative happens in our MAANEET's life, people start bashing Geet or Maan or both?...........v all shud feel sorry for both Geet and Maan poor souls who r going thru so much once again...........v shud understand MAANEET's heartbreaking and soulbreaking pain which is piercing their heart and soul like a zillion daggers, thorns and needles, their helplessness, their guilt, their tadap which is killing them every second.............v all MAANEETIANS shud feel and understand wat our beloved divine and sacred MAANEET r going thru once again bcuz of cruel and unfair destiny which is testing them once again in the present unpleasant and unfortunate circumstance.........

In the current scenario, I feel both Geet and Maan owe an apology to each other (this is my pov and i respect others' pov as well) and also MAANEET i know from the past one year wud surely apologise to each other...........bcuz MAANEET i know v know r someone who wud say sorry as soon as they realize they r at fault.........

I feel at some point Geet and Maan both were right in their own place and also both were wrong at some point............bcuz in life sometimes it is very difficult or almost impossible to say who is 100% right and who is 100% wrong........wat is 100%right and wat is 100%wrong...... sometimes circumstances make us do those things which v might have never thought of or dreamt of................. MAANEET wud have never hurt each other if they were in their senses and they wud have never hurt each other knowingly...........it was just that cruel and unpleasant circumstances, destiny and life made them behave in such a way when they were not their normalselves and in the process gave immense pain to each other................

For MAANEET both were utmost hurt this time and the pain was piercing their heart and soul like infinite needles and thorns bcuz this time for both the person who has hurt them is the person whom they love the most and the person who loves them the most........Geet is completely heartbroken and soulbroken as this time her Maan-whom she loves, cares and trusts the most and someone who loves, cares and trusts her the most has hurt her and even Maan is completely heartbroken and soulbroken as this time his Geet-whom he loves, cares and trusts the most and someone who loves, cares and trusts him the most has hurt him (but both never meant to hurt each other........both hurt each other unknowingly and unintentionally)................

Seeing so many bashing posts last week and to stop such bashing, i had made a post sometime last week where i had tried my best to understand and explain both Geet's and Maan's pov in the current scenario based on wat i know of MAANEET and their eternal love...........here is the link if u wish to read...........

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/geet-hui-sabse-parayee/1650532/os-maaneets-eternal-union-updated-p6

Love,

Spandana

Edited by sptrno - 14 years ago

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@-HJ-

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#122

Originally posted by: sptrno

Thank u and love you so much dear for making this post..........also loved reading everyone's thoughts..........

I truly and immensely love, respect, admire and worship MAANEET so i'm really hurt and shocked to see so many bashing posts some bashing Geet some bashing Maan from couple of days................so i love and support all posts which defend our Geet and Maan............

I fail to understand y is that whenever anything tragic unpleasant or negative happens in our MAANEET's life, people start bashing Geet or Maan or both?...........v all shud feel sorry for both Geet and Maan poor souls who r going thru so much once again...........v shud understand MAANEET's heartbreaking and soulbreaking pain which is piercing their heart and soul like a zillion daggers, thorns and needles, their helplessness, their guilt, their tadap which is killing them every second.............v all MAANEETIANS shud feel and understand wat our beloved divine and sacred MAANEET r going thru once again bcuz of cruel and unfair destiny which is testing them once again in the present unpleasant and unfortunate circumstance.........

In the current scenario, I feel both Geet and Maan owe an apology to each other (this is my pov and i respect others' pov as well) and also MAANEET i know from the past one year wud surely apologise to each other...........bcuz MAANEET i know v know r someone who wud say sorry as soon as they realize they r at fault.........

I feel at some point Geet and Maan both were right in their own place and also both were wrong at some point............bcuz in life sometimes it is very difficult or almost impossible to say who is 100% right and who is 100% wrong........wat is 100%right and wat is 100%wrong...... sometimes circumstances make us do those things which v might have never thought of or dreamt of................. MAANEET wud have never hurt each other if they were in their senses and they wud have never hurt each other knowingly...........it was just that cruel and unpleasant circumstances, destiny and life made them behave in such a way when they were not their normalselves and in the process gave immense pain to each other................

For MAANEET both were utmost hurt this time and the pain was piercing their heart and soul like infinite needles and thorns bcuz this time for both the person who has hurt them is the person whom they love the most and the person who love them the most........Geet is completely heartbroken and soulbroken as this time her Maan-whom she loves, cares and trusts the most and someone who loves, cares and trusts her the most has hurt her and even Maan is completely heartbroken and soulbroken as this time his Geet-whom he loves, cares and trusts the most and someone who loves, cares and trusts him the most has hurt him (but both never meant to hurt each other........both hurt each other unknowingly and unintentionally)................

Seeing so many bashing posts last week and to stop such bashing, i had made a post sometime last week where i had tried my best to understand and explain both Geet's and Maan's pov in the current scenario based on wat i know of MAANEET and their eternal love...........here is the link if u wish to read...........

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/geet-hui-sabse-parayee/1650532/os-maaneets-eternal-union-updated-p6

Love,

Spandana

heyyyyyyy my guru🤗

do read my comments too...I have learnt to write😆😉

I was about to PM u the link for this post....such a nice one na...

well I totally agree with whatever u said......🤗

Love you Speeeeeeeeeeeee😃

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Spandana

@sptrno

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#123

Originally posted by: -Honeybee-

heyyyyyyy my guru🤗

do read my comments too...I have learnt to write😆😉

I was about to PM u the link for this post....such a nice one na...

well I totally agree with whatever u said......🤗

Love you Speeeeeeeeeeeee😃

hi honey...........

i'm proud of my shishya!!!😊.............i have to go now sweety but will be back arnd 6...........i will surely read all ur comments and post my replies also..............sorry for the delay dear but whole day i'm using net in my room so i better go out for a while😆............

love u too honey🤗

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evasumi

@evasumi

Rocker

+ 6

Posted: 14 years ago

#124

I for one has always believe in forgiveness but I do not condemn Geet for not forgiving Maan for this moment of time...

As Jyoti has explained beautifully that the word Gairat has a uttermost important in life of Geet.. She has been treated like a dust of the feet by her so called elders in all her younglife. She was ordered to kill by her own GF in the name of fake prestiage. In her such a young life she has been through a lot and that word Gairat -- self respect had carried her through.

And when MSK entered in her life he also thought that she had no self respect and that is why she is taking all from her family without a word and that thought has made her stand on her own against her tyrannical family and that thought has made her break out from that family's clutches. So indirectly it was MSK who gave her the strength and the aim in her life to fight for her own and she took that in and stood against tyranny of her grand father and veerji.

So as if it was MSK who gave her that zeal and that zest and it was MSK who witnessed everything.. her flight her fight and her struggle for existence in the city like Delhi. It was MSK who came after her after the incident of her torn saree in party. So MSK was the source of her Gairat and he himself provided that force in her life..

Now coming from the same person that she has no gairat is like sucking the life and life support out of her.. And she truly said that this is not the words spoken just by your anger.. Only anger do not produce this volcanic irruption... He was meditating on those thoughts for a while and then concluded without talking to her that she was without selfrespect.

It was not only the anger that MSK spoke this word... In those word he was disgusted that she was like that he thought so low of her and detached himself from her and that was the killer.. after he said those she had no life left in her.. She rightly said that he has killed her love

It is not that she does not love him or she does not care for him or she does not want to be with him but those words are so poisonous it touched her and her loved just withered away. Her survival depended upon how MSK sees her and how MSK values her. But when MSK thought she was begairat there is no meaning of her life there is no meaning of her survival there is no meaning of her joy or existence..

Yes it will take time to heal this hurt. The hurt is not going to be erased by just simple sorry.. A simple sorry may start the healing process but the hurt is so deep to her core that she cannot forget it so easily.

Even if she forget and forgive and goes back to MSK who knows in a month or two once again his anger may explode and he will say some more mean things and the cycle may repeat..

No as much as this hurt needs to go from her... in the same manner this anger and arrogance from MSK needs to go to... The complete healing only will take place when both the party will heal

MSK also needs to take out this anger issue from him and that only can be done once he realises how deep the hurt is and he has hurt the person for whose love he can lay down his life... He has killed that emotions of love and respect which automatically comes in Geet when she lays eyes on him. Now looking at hims tears come in her eyes and she remembers those hurtful words and she withers inside..

Now that feeling of love and adoration needs to come back in Geet's eyes when she sees him and for that it will take time

Geet is now so hurt that now she is surviving on her hurt but she also needs to come to the point where she will seek his love and will realise that she cannot survive on hurt but only his love and for that MSK has to give her that love and pour it down on her that the hurt washed away..

Edited by evasumi - 14 years ago

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@rickks

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 14 years ago

#125

Wow Excellent Post And i so much Agree, I was Freaking Tired of stating my Views which are exactly the same as urs regarding Geet, but all the response i got was Bashing😭 but chaddo, excellent post.......👏

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Ankita

@ankita10

Navigator

Posted: 14 years ago

#126

Originally posted by: kesha2412

But Ankita the mere fact that he said those words to Dev, the one person who took away her honour and runied her life, is what is the worst part.

He told the person who had sinned Geet that if Geet has no gairat its not his problem and if Geet blood is white its not his problem. I dont think he could have chosen a more degraded individual for saying such hurtful words about Geet, someone he claims to honour above all.

I wrote that point in response to a point raised by Jyoti that Maan humiliated Geet in front of his brother. And as I said Dev was not the brother here but the culprit and to reiterate how unforgivable his crime is Maan uttered those words. Dev was no third person here,he was the reason for those words.

About Maan insulting Geet infront of Dev ,I get truly and utterly baffled when someone says that. Is it possible to insult any human being in front of Dev,leave alone Geet? How can anyone be insulted in front of Dev,who himself is the biggest insult? So if you say that Maan insulted Geet infront of crockery, I may still give it a thought,but if you say Maan insulted Geet infront of Dev, sorry, I dont think that is possible. And is it possible for Geet to feel insulted by Dev's opinion of herself? Geet's reaction would have been same if those words were uttered between four walls. What mattered was Maan said those words doesnt matter in front of whom,least of all Dev. And Dev, he doesnt deserve to hold an opinion about Geet, if he was the last person alive.

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@49erFan

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 14 years ago

#127

Thanks for posting Spandana, will check out ur link!

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evasumi

@evasumi

Rocker

+ 6

Posted: 14 years ago

#128

I think the bottom line here is not who insulted whom and in front of whom.. That question does not have any connection at all..

This is between Maan and Geet and their relationship..

How it was built and how it came around...

If you remember the first ride Maan gave her and left her in the middle of the road telling her that unless you control your tears and stand on your two feet you will be in this pathetic situation all your life..

Geet took those words to her heart and started to raise her voice... and if we remember during her first mehndi she was able to tell Brij Veerji that he was wrong and got a big slap from Brij.. but the bottom line is that the words of Maan always have promted her to do right thing.

Even when Maan left her on the road after the assults of Brij on her life. She calmly took the sword and went and exposed the whole thing in front of villagers and called police and put Brij in jail..

No one knows better then Maan what Geet went through. As he was the only witness of all the wrong done to her and how she fought and how she came out alone and how she survived all these things in this young age of 18..

Maan always have been the source of her inspiration.. her life... her existence.

So when Maan said those words after the one week of utter uncommunication it means he was pondering on those thoughts and was harboring those thoughts about her being begairat.. and that was hurting her.. She just cannot forget the fact that Maan her Maan who thought that non was better then her... Once he told her that he did not loose his family because of her but let them go because she was right and her fight was right and that is why he stood with her. He also told her that if she was not right in her fight and in her integrity he would never have given her any support..

Now the same person thought that she was begairat... no this is not small thing. The thought came in his mind and he kept thinking on it and it proved in his mind that no it is like that means he was believing what he was watching since the time he heard Geet say those words to Dev and I think behind those words there was a shadow of doubt.. and that was hurting Geet..

This is absolutely between Maan and Geet and their understanding about each other.

The thing was hurting Geet was how a man who knows her inside out...

A man who knows that she loves him to death..

A man who knows that her life revolve arounds him...

A man knows that for Geet sun rises and sets on him...

A man who knows that he is the one whom she clings to for her existence

The same man thought she has no self respect

The same man thought her blood is not worthy to be compared to his

The same man separated him from her action

That is what hurting Geet... That how could he even entertain that thought but he said it clear and loud

and that sucked the life out of her.

That made her totaly dead inside..

That killed whatever she was fighting for

That killed her desire to have new life

So now Maan is so very sorry but she has no life to respond to him. She has no zest to go on..

Cause when she sees Maan or when she remembers him and their good time and when those romantic moments come to her mind but then it gets over shadowed by his harsh and cruel words and that is what upsetting her and she just cannot forget those words.. and instead of being happy with those beautiful memories she starts crying and her heart aches.. and the hurt surfaces and love goes down..

Yea she rightly said that Maan's anger has killed her love but only on the surface. Their love is still there rooted deep in her heart but on the surface the plant is ruined now from those deep root of love a new plant of life needs to spring up and the gardener MSK himself has to work hard to bring the life in to that burnt plant as he only has the key to the root cause of that burnt

It is like the sun who gives the life to the plant but sometimes the scorching heat burns it... So now the gardener who was careless to let the sun burn the plant only knows how to protect it and how to take care of it and how to nourish it so that the life may come back to the plant and it flourishes again

but until the life comes back the plant is almost dead except the root...

So now Maan has to work hard to take away the effects of those words so that when he comes to her mind those words do not bare their marks but are washed away by his constant love and care

Edited by evasumi - 14 years ago