Why do people love to bash Geet? Read on!

One word spoken by MSK has pierced her heart...its the word "Begairat"....this word has its own history..she heard similar things from her family as well who were ready to kill others in the name of self-respect and honour....but hearing it... from MSK's mouth is something which she is not able to forget and its hurting her more because she loves MSK more than her own life...if that word would hv come out from some other person's mouth,she would not hv even bothered to take any offense...but coming out from MSK's mouth is what is hurting her more and so she is not able to forgive or forget it....People question why Dev was forgiven and why not MSK...Answer is simple...u can easily forgive someone who hardly matters in your life..but u take years to forgive the ones who r more close to your heart but still ends up hurting u....and on top of that MSK actually uses a third person Dev to convey the messege to Geet that she is a woman with no self-respect and white blood..see the sentence what MSK used there..he told Dev "if my wife is a woman with no self-respect/honour and is hving white blood..its not my problem"....now just imagine yourself in such situation where u see your own husband telling something like this to his brother or his mother "that u know my wife is begairat and is shameless"....your instant reaction will b "u r badmouthing your own wife in front of your relatives...how dare u"..this is what u will tell to your husband ..right or wrong ?...Here Geet respects MSK so much that instead of questioning him or accusing him in return,she quietly leaves the house in complete depression...and mayb thats why for viewers she becomes heartless...In short no wife will tolerate her husband humiliating her in front of his brother or mother-in-law using terms like begairat or safed khoon....if the same fight wolud hv happened in their bedroom in a more private space,I myself would hv questioned that why Geet quietly leaves the house without questioning MSK about those words....but the fight happened in front of a third person named Dev...and thats the reason why its hurting her more....Even on holi day before this whole hungama,Geet did try to tell MSK about why she has forgiven Dev ..but MSK never bothered to listen to her ....Mayb Geet was wrong in playing holi with her culprit...I m not denying it...but that does not give the licence to a husband to humiliate his wife in front of his brother using such type of words...

So today if Geet is not able to forgive or forget those words of MSK ..its because in her entire life,she has loved and respected him the most...and unfortunately she got the pain coming from the same man whom she loved the most in her life..and thats where she is finding it difficult to forgive or forget everything....she could forgive or forget her culprit becuase he never mattered in her current life..he was like a dirt whom Geet got rid of in the name of forgiveness...but MSK means the world to her...he was God for her...and when her God tells her that she is a woman with no self-respect or pride....she feels completely defeated from inside...She is in pain and she needs love and assurence from the same man again...MSK understood this ...thats why he was ready to walk on hot coal for his Geet hoping that mayb this way he can share a bit of her pain...so when MSK himself understood his Geet's inner dillemma and pain...how can viewers not understand it ?....If she is asking MSK to go from there and trying to hide herself behind the walls of her new family,its because whenever she sees MSK ,she starts remembering that black-holi day and those words coming from his mouth is piercing her heart but she wants to only remember those good memories of her MSK and thats why she wants to stay away from him with a fear that those bad memories of holi day might cast a shadow on those good old memories that she had with her Maan...Now Who is going to take her out from this shadow of pain and depression...Only MSK can do this...and MSK knows it now ..thats why he went to the dargah to ask for strength as well as punishment...so if MSK understood Geet's POV...why can't we viewers too realise it ?

ahh feeling relived reading your post......!!!!!!!

great job buddy 👍🏼

I totally agree with you......I wrote almost the same in some thread regarding this...what has Geet gone thru is not so easy to forget...Maan did understand her state of mind..so we should too....

I have always came across geet bashing posts whenever some fightings are goin on between Maaneet......but people never think from Geet's heart...we never know what it feels till we have gone thru it........

Keep it up for the post🤗

if you relate it to real life relationships you can probably understand everything well...ahh I dont know why people are so mindless the moment Maan has tears in his eyes....sometimes we should be kind enough to think from Geet's perspective.......