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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: an12345678

To the poster above: You do write real well. Ever thought of writing a book?

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: an12345678

FutureGeettrack: MSK Rocks ... MSK Rocks ... MSK Rock. Where were you when he was standing on the dock?

I have the next line for this rhyme but its gross😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
I disagree with you on certain things you have said, so just showing you my POV.

Originally posted by: FutureGeettrack

Maan Singh Khurana rocks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am not here to bash anyone so relax folks..

Team Geet wanted to extend the storyline and for all right reasons they had to bring in the "Begairat" track which was made look a bigger crime than rape.

I don't think they have shown rape as a lesser crime. Because Geet never considered Dev as a rapist! Neither are they showing that what Dev did is lesser than Maan's words (which would be preposterous). Firstly Geet is not ANGRY at Maan but upset. Because what he said shook the very foundations of their relationship.

Fans are not at all able to digest the fact that Geet forgived Dev and above all played holi and applied the "Tilak" of pride and glory to Dev and after having done all this expects apology from her husband for misunderstanding her.

Yesterday for the first time everyone laughed at Geet when she said: Maan was suspecting her character and Maan had given her so much pain by that one word "Begairat"

The laugh was for the writers for whom viewers felt sorry for missing common sense.

Guess Geet forgot how her husband wud have felt seeing her forgiving the man who slept with her wife,cheated her,left her pregnant and later her wife applies "Tikka" of glory and pride to the culprit..

Slept with his wife? That is not the issue, Maan accepted that ages ago! On forgiving Dev, she forgave Dev for Maan, as she said over and over again. If she held on to her anger for Dev than how would they have moved on with their life. Also forgiveness doesn't equate to no punishment. He can still get legal punishment (which he won't because Naintara forged the papers) and still be forgiven for what he did.

Complete insult and ignorance of sentiments of Maan and add to insult is the fact Maan alone is feeling guilty for his acts and Geet has shown no sign of regret...which is making we fans feel the writers have lost the control big time and wud now feel it later on.

What should she regret? For taking a decision for herself, whcih she was trying to tell him anyway?

Her justification too lacks appeal becoz what was promised to fans and the way Geet was shown expressing her desire to bring to justice the culprits is just making her previous feelings look fake and something very very situational for one to question if it was only to woo Maan SIngh Khurana and get his sympathy.

People's priorities change over time. Her desire for justice was for her child, not for herself or her loss. When she was with Maan, he became her top priority, as opposed to holding onto her grudge. So I don't think it make her past endeavors look fake.
Forget about viewers making fun of Geet,now the Maaneet scenes too are been targetted and are not related to and this is the biggest blunder played by the writers of Geet till date.

Had they shown Geet feeling guilty for her act and feeling she cant confront Maan as she feels she has lost all respect in Maan's eyes and on the other hand Maan feeling ashamed of his words,the contrast was there for fans to relate and feel for the characters thinking both are feeling sorry for their act which is how it shud have been.



But unfortunately the writers have ended up showing Geet selfish and Maan with no self respect as he alone keeps striving to get Geet's love as if it was only he who was interested in Geet's love.

As always Geet ends up insulting Maan in public like she did infront of media and others before and apologising in private...

I guess Maan wud end up insulting Geet in private and apologising in public...

He insulted her in public...because doing it in front of Dev is not private...especially if he still hates Dev.

The new track is fantastic but the minor mistakes in terms of justifying the behaviour of the two characters has led to many not relate to the character Geet anymore and feel Maan's character too has lost its toughness and its stand out factor...

But after saying all that..I feel Maan Singh Khurana still rocks as he potrays the real feelings of a gentleman and how kind men can get and how selfless they can be.

"Maan Singh Khurana Rocks"


Certainly writers of Geet are showing no respect for Geet's sensitive character and in the process of extending the track are ending up making fun of the most beloved and cherished characters ever seen on small screen.

With yet another year begins for Geet,I feel the writers and makers have a new concept on mind.

"Begairat" is a bigger "crime" than "rape" and the one who rapes and cheats can be forgived but the one who calls you begairat shud either be hanged till death or given life imprisonment.

I don't think Geet considered it as rape...so you can't really call Dev a rapist, even though he maybe in legal terms.

No one is saying that Maan should be hanged or given life imprisonment, so putting that hyperbole there doesn't really suit well. She said that she doesn't think that she can forgive him, which is quite different from wanting to punish him. In fact it is Maan who would want punishment as opposed to her.




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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: 49erFan



I don't know how many of you recall tent night, when they conveyed their feelings to each other! If u don't remember, just a reminder of what Geet said to MSK!
She herself felt bad for not being pure for MSK, he accepted her the way she was and that too with a child, she knew she wasn't pure for him, she told him so too! This is what I've been saying since the day she walked out! When he uttered those words, it killed her inside! She couldn't take that humiliation from him! One who gives u assurance and says those words, trust me, no one can bare them!
Only if people would understand her situation and what she's been thru in life they would never question her actions!

Edited add in

MSK built that fuel in Geet, the desire to live, the desire to be strong, the desire to do anything he can do and even better, he gave her that self respect and in a second he says totally the opposite to her, how do u think she should take it!

Some r reacting that he gave her everything, accepted her and he has to rights to say all that, well u see I differ, its like bring a new bride home and if doesnt do what u want a man can slap her around! Not in my books!


Hats off to creatives who have handled this so well, this is what matters in relationships!

Please feel free to post ur views!


Totally agree...
I actually hurts me and I feel really sad to see the way some individuals blindly support a character.
From yesterday's episode it was evident that for Geet what Maan said were not just mere words spoken in anger. She feels that maybe in some part of his heart he actually thought that she had no 'gairat', that she had no honour. And for someone who has gone through so much in life of being cheated by her husband, then her family wanting to kill her, then the constant humiliation in the office and by others, its natural for her to believe that he meant those words.
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: kesha2412

Totally agree...
I actually hurts me and I feel really sad to see the way some individuals blindly support a character.
From yesterday's episode it was evident that for Geet what Maan said were not just mere words spoken in anger. She feels that maybe in some part of his heart he actually thought that she had no 'gairat', that she had no honour. And for someone who has gone through so much in life of being cheated by her husband, then her family wanting to kill her, then the constant humiliation in the office and by others, its natural for her to believe that he meant those words.

I completely agree with u.....Not only this............She had always believed her own people........D starting episodes showed that........Be it brij her family..............wen dey told her dat she was useless & not respect worthy, she believed them & dats y she coudnt raise a voice then.........& den now she believes maan whole heartedly.......dat was clearly shown in d episode where maan told her dat it wud snow in delhi................& then she says........"..dat if maan has told den definitely it must b true..."So its quite obvious dat though she knew he said everything in anger, she believed him..........
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: FutureGeettrack

Why like bashing Geet? here is the answer:
How can fans in support of Geet and writers of Geet think that Maan wud feel happy to see Geet forgiving the man who slept with his wife Geet,cheated her and left her pregnant and how could he keep his cool seeing her wife applying tikka to the one who raped her and left her alone..
Had they shown Geet feeling guilty for her act and feeling she cant confront Maan as she feels she has lost all respect in Maan's eyes and on the other hand Maan feeling ashamed of his words,the contrast was there for fans to relate and feel for the characters thinking both are feeling sorry for their act which is how it shud have been.
But unfortunately the writers have ended up showing Geet selfish and Maan with no self respect as he alone keeps striving to get Geet's love as if it was only he who was interested in Geet's love.
His reactions were out of provoking behaviour which was quiet justified but not Geet's childish act of allowing Dev to touch her.
Well,agreed Geet told Maan that she is not pure,she was cheated,she was left alone and all that happened to her.
Maan accepted her with all that which showed the purity of love which "Maaneet" were known for and even fans loved it,becoz the fact that Geet was cheated and later supported and loved by a man like "Maan Singh Khurana" gave a fairy tale like treatment to the series,where a girl with unfortunate past was assured by a man with a bright future.
Maan accepts Geet becoz he loved her:
But Geet rejects Maan infront of board and office persons and later infront of media,leaving Maan insulted add to it the shere stupidity by writers when Geet leaves Maan alone during the engagement party treating him in a manner similar to how Dev treated her.
Later she apologises in private after having insulted Maan in public...
Till this point it was ok,fictional situations a story line..kahani aage kaise badhegi and all that.
But how can Geet justify her act of :
1) First forgiving the man who raped her ,well Dev giving his blood can be one reason.
2) How can she even think of applying tikka and allow her rapist to touch her during holi celebrations..
All this when she knew Maan did not know about it..
Fictional stupidity at its best but then yeh TV story hai yaar...kyu serious lena?
What writers failed in was justification:
How can fans in support of Geet and writers of Geet think that Maan wud feel happy to see Geet forgiving the man who slept with his wife Geet,cheated her and left her pregnant and how could he keep his cool seeing her wife applying tikka to the one who raped her and left her alone..
Had Geet been just another show then I dont think anyone wud have bothered to write...
As said earlier,Geet is a fictional story loved more as real story...
The desire to see Gurmeet and Drashti as real life pair is so strong in the hearts of fans that the difference between reel and real is no more when fans know Geet is the only place where they can see them together.
Hope the writers of Geet rectify their blunder soon.
Have a good day.

You are right no husband who loves his wife could keep his cool after seeing her apply tikka to a man who runied her life. But no husband who loves his wife calls her 'baigarat' and someone with 'safed khoon' in front of the same person.
As for Geet - its her perogative to forgive someone who has sinned her. She wanted to move ahead and forget a past that was constantly haunting her life. Who doesnt want that? Anyway on what basis was she suppose to keep fighting? When you lose someone you love more than life i.e her baby that changes you forever. You start looking at things differently. And punishment doesnt just come in form of sending someone to jail. Some times the biggest punishment for a sinner is actually forgiving that person and letting him live with the constant knowlwdge of this great deed.
I for one reason hail the CVs for showing the intricacies of relationships so well. In Geet's life Dev bears no exsistance. For her he is nothing. In Geet's life Maan was her everything. She measured her honour by his being and when that person says to you that she has no honour there could not be a bigger blow. For her Maan's words are not mere words spoken in anger. Its natural for her to think and believe that may be somewhere deep within him he actually felt these things.
As for what happened previously with Geet insulting Maan infront of the media etc... well may be Maan did not say those words to her in front of the whole world but in fact it ws worse... he said those things in front and to someone who had taken her izzat. Could there be a worse person to say those things to? No.
And yes Geet blamed Maan earlier without knowing the full truth.. so shouldnt have Maan learned from that experince in the past. And now that they are married its even more important that he should have communicated with her before saying those things and reaching unreasonable conclusions.
And please dont say Geet should have spoken to Maan etc... cos frankly Maan could have interrupted them at the framhouse but he didnt and she did speak to Maan afterwards but he just walked away.
Anyway thatz my POV and like everything each person can have a different outlook at things... its our perogative.
Edited by kesha2412 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: _innocent_

awesome post :) just managed to read the first page so far and loved all the replies :) totali agree wiz the post aswell as the comments i have read so far :)

ps answer mainly in regards to the title- cuz ppl think its alright to bash a woman being a woman because its a fictional show- bt had they put themselves in geet's position in reality- their response would have been completely the opposite:)
so next time u bash a woman just cuz u love the male chaRACTER more and wen it was clearly the male character's actions that caused the issues - place urself in that situation in reality and just imagine exactly how u would have reacted :)
ppl hav disgust in me in this forum- and i seriousli hope they dnt encounter such a situation in their lives cuz trust me it aint pretty :) and u will not be able to forgive and forget😃

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since yesterday I have encountered some great thoughts & I m simply moved by people having such an understanding...🤗
I bow to all....
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Posted: 14 years ago
@Geetu and Jyoti: Nice posts as always. I would like to differ with some points though

At campsite date Geet hinted at physical purity(in the sense that she is not virgin anymore) And Maan replied by saying that she is purest for him. In the kitchen scene I dont think he reverted on that statement. Yes he did say that she lacks self respect and pride,but in no way commented anything about her purity. I dont understand where did that come from.... Neither do I agree that he compared her to scum or dirt. Yes he did broke her trust and confidence. This I agree with.

Second point about him insulting her in front of his brother or in laws. . I didnt perceive the scene like that at all. Dev was not the brother here, he was the culprit. It was culprit asking,almost in a boasting manner,if the victim herself has forgiven him,why was he having problems. And MSK retorting that if victim lacks self respect that is not his problem. More than Geet his words were for Dev,as he himself confessed last night. Maybe Maan couldnt take the fact that after doing what he did ,Dev had the guts to ask why is he not forgiving him. So in order to convey to Dev that what he did was unfogivable, Maan ended up insulting Geet without realizing the impact of what he was saying. I dont think he would have reacted in same manner if Dadi or Annie had put the same question. The fact that culprit put the question made all the difference.


Lastly, yes I agree that words of our loved ones hurt us the most. But I also believe that after some point of time you do try to think what circumstances led them to say what they said. And this is all I except from Geet once she is healed.

That is all. Plz kill me if you see making me any such posts any more. I am my self tired of my rants. Hopefully this would be my last post on this matter.


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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: ankita10

@Geetu and Jyoti: Nice posts as always. I would like to differ with some points though

At campsite date Geet hinted at physical purity(in the sense that she is not virgin anymore) And Maan replied by saying that she is purest for him. In the kitchen scene I dont think he reverted on that statement. Yes he did say that she lacks self respect and pride,but in no way commented anything about her purity. I dont understand where did that come from.... Neither do I agree that he compared her to scum or dirt. Yes he did broke her trust and confidence. This I agree with.

Second point about him insulting her in front of his brother or in laws. . I didnt perceive the scene like that at all. Dev was not the brother here, he was the culprit. It was culprit asking,almost in a boasting manner,if the victim herself has forgiven him,why was he having problems. And MSK retorting that if victim lacks self respect that is not his problem. More than Geet his words were for Dev,as he himself confessed last night. Maybe Maan couldnt take the fact that after doing what he did ,Dev had the guts to ask why is he not forgiving him. So in order to convey to Dev that what he did was unfogivable, Maan ended up insulting Geet without realizing the impact of what he was saying. I dont think he would have reacted in same manner if Dadi or Annie had put the same question. The fact that culprit put the question made all the difference.


Lastly, yes I agree that words of our loved ones hurt us the most. But I also believe that after some point of time you do try to think what circumstances led them to say what they said. And this is all I except from Geet once she is healed.

That is all. Plz kill me if you see making me any such posts any more. I am my self tired of my rants. Hopefully this would be my last post on this matter.


But Ankita the mere fact that he said those words to Dev, the one person who took away her honour and runied her life, is what is the worst part.
He told the person who had sinned Geet that if Geet has no gairat its not his problem and if Geet blood is white its not his problem. I dont think he could have chosen a more degraded individual for saying such hurtful words about Geet, someone he claims to honour above all.
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Posted: 14 years ago
Originally posted by 49erFan
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I agree with every word u have said.....first when i saw the promo and read the written update I too was having second thoughts about Geet's unforgiving behaviour....putting it down to immaturity and stubbornness.....but after I saw the episode today the lines she spoke made me realise that what she felt was correct and so was her reaction to what Maan said.......any man who accepts a girl who has been under the circumstances in which Geet has been should not show that he has done her a favour by accepting her.....when geet said was it anger or was it what has been in ur heart I realised that her reaction was justified......also we must not forget that since he had seen the 2 at the farmhouse MSK's attitude towards Geet had been very wierd...he had literally begun to avoid her......guess she put all that together and only then did she decide to leave the house.......

Any self-respecting girl would have done what she did.....in fact by doing this she has proven that she is definitely NOT BEGAIRAT....
And even MSK has realised her POV and is repenting for what he thought and felt.......also the reasons she gave for forgiving Dev were very valid reasons......they conveyed the fact that even her forgiving dev was an act which was born from her deep love for MSK....which once again Mr. arrogance personified did not appreciate at that time ...........

Finally, even in the end she shows that she cares deeply for MSK because she asks God to look after him .......that along with the fact that she gives his photo for repairing.....are they not all indicators about how much she loves him?....its only when u love someone so deeply that their actions and words hurt u......sometimes that hurt goes beyond repair.....but here she will definitely forgive him.......since that is the demand of the story-line here......

My point is only that she is justified in feeling hurt and not relenting for the present.....well let MSK get on with his tactics of manaofying his Geet and let us enjoy all that he does to win her trust once again.....I wont say to win her love because we can see that she truly loves him dearly....

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