Originally posted by: ria_sengupta
i agree both Maan and geet have flaws which is after all natural........................and believe me, i absolutely have no problem with maan and geet having some flaws....yes, maan is short tempered,he gets angry really fast,he is full of attitude-and well, thats the reason we love him!yes,of course geet also has some problems, i certainly do not expect her to be without flaws but here the main problem is that geet's character consistency has not been maintained by the cvs...........maan was short tempered from the begining,right from his entry, and though his character has changed over time, i feel, his change has been normal, i agree that he was never a hen-pecked husband, instead he agreed to geet's tantrums, and whims because he knew her childish nature...................but geet started off as a timid and shy girl, who finally decides to stand up for what she thought right-i had huge respect for her,yes,she always had childishness in her,but thats what i said, during the office track, she never seemed irritationg or over the top, but all of a sudden,that childishness increased in leaps and bounds,and immaturity is tolerable only to an extent, when it surpasses those limits,people r bound to get irritated...................coming to the present track.......i can even try and understand why geet forgave dev( though i personally do not think it was right...but thats another thing).....yes,she was bound to get hurt by what maan said...............but leaving the home-No, that was wrong....she chose to run, and that is not the mark of strength at all, and now her attitude says, she has almost given up on her marriage, her Maan.only for those harsh words.even after hearing his apology, and all the while knowing in her heart that it was her action with dev(playing holi) which made maan lose his mind...and it was natural for him to do so, but still he never for once mistrusted Geet, he was angry becoz geet had chosen to forgive her sinner.....................geet's current attitude towards maan is unacceptable and thats the reason many of us do not relate to this geet,the original geet would have definitely not run,and she would hv been angry with maan, but she would hv confronted him,and then she would also have realised her fault in the whole issue.......but now geet does not seem to think she has any fault which is totally unacceptable!maan on the other hand is fighting for his love,he is ready to face all hardships to atone for those words uttered in a moment of anger and therefore my respect for this man increases two folds...........feel bad that the same can't be said for geet....................................geet's current attitude looks like ego instead of self respect, if it was self respect, she would hv at least talked to him,and most importantly,she would never stand quitely in front of her relatives when they were insulting maan.....according to me,that was the worst thing done by her so far and that is what totally made her lose all respect in my eyes-her attitude and silence convinced her relatives even more that she had been tortured and forced to leave her house by maan...................and this is not the way to uphold one's self respect, in fact not even ego,huge egoists would also not let their loved ones lose respect infront of others but thats exactly what geet did-and this is unpardonable!
