Software Symphony 40 Eggs & Kathakali - Page 104

So...il do this the points way

Nam - Points 1& 5 are sooo to the point!

Yes Namratha we are all guilty of going over board, all guilty of saying the wrong things at the wrong time, doing the wrong things at the wrong time. Everyone does it some do it more than the others.

Ranjan feels a sense of "belonging" to the Iyers you know, he knows they are genuine, REAL people he has met many fake ones along the way, that do things looking at the end reward, he knows Vandu and Bala are good people. His expression of joy was "poori dukan khareed daloonga"

He feels delighted his daughter in law's family is blessed with a normal healthy child.

Appa must have reacted already to Ranjan's gifts Appa is not home now, when he gets home II will hear from him. Bala is struggling not to "lose it" He is close. He wants to be nice to II and feel the warmth but he is reminded of how wealthy she is

If the Bhallas had been maha kanjoos like MOST rich people are then the Iyers' task would have been easy, they could have cursed the Bhallas on a daily basis "Poor II kya kismat paayi hai" "Poor II she cannot take a day off even for her new nephew" "Poor II her in laws take all her money" "How cheap!! II's in laws only gave the baby Rs.501?"
That would have been it

Nope! They are genuinely good people.
They have a million unresolved issues within their family but they do not show any negativity or cynicism towards II or the Iyers.


Iyers are good people too, but the enormity of Bhalla wealth is inescapable

So this is what happens if two sisters have different wealth status after marriage 😭
Don't know who is wrong n who is right?

This is just a small incident. So if things are not handled properly now can bring more cracks in future..😕 😕

Wonderful Nisha..Yes all the characters have flaws because they are not aliens like Jagat Pita/Mata of telly world. They are just normal humans like us..

The relationships are indeed very delicate.. I am happy that slowly II is accepting Bhallas as her family.

I could not agree more to what you just said Nisha.

uff!!!a single person's insecurity now blows the minds of many...
I dont think what ranjan did was wrong.he never thought "oh,bala dont have enough money to buy a gud crib.so i should help him!"it was a genuine gift yaar!
if ambani like rich is ur close friend,he will never come to ur housewarming with a rs.500-1000 worth crockery...they will gift something more alle?that doent means u r so poor!!

money kills relations!!paavam II n ranjan...and in some instance,bala too...

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Yes Namratha we are all guilty of going over board, all guilty of saying the wrong things at the wrong time, doing the wrong things at the wrong time. Everyone does it some do it more than the others.

Ranjan feels a sense of "belonging" to the Iyers you know, he knows they are genuine, REAL people he has met many fake ones along the way, that do things looking at the end reward, he knows Vandu and Bala are good people. His expression of joy was "poori dukan khareed daloonga"

He feels delighted his daughter in law's family is blessed with a normal healthy child.

Appa must have reacted already to Ranjan's gifts Appa is not home now, when he gets home II will hear from him. Bala is struggling not to "lose it" He is close. He wants to be nice to II and feel the warmth but he is reminded of how wealthy she is

If the Bhallas had been maha kanjoos like MOST rich people are then the Iyers' task would have been easy, they could have cursed the Bhallas on a daily basis "Poor II kya kismat paayi hai" "Poor II she cannot take a day off even for her new nephew" "Poor II her in laws take all her money" "How cheap!! II's in laws only gave the baby Rs.501?"
That would have been it

Nope! They are genuinely good people.
They have a million unresolved issues within their family but they do not show any negativity or cynicism towards II or the Iyers.


Iyers are good people too, but the enormity of Bhalla wealth is inescapable

@bold I agree

It could have gone two ways

A person in Bala's situation will either say "I have too much self respect this rishtedaari is becoming too uncomfortable for me, I want them to do according to my "capacity" I want them to do things EXACTLY the same way, for example if I give Rs.501 to Lasya let it be Rs.501 for Baldie also


OR

90% of the men in Bala's situation will be like "Niiice your sister married a wealthy dude???, hmmm... let me see HOW ALL "I" can benefit from it, how about a new dining table for my house? How about a nice Maruti? How about "gifting us a overseas vacation" How about you ask your sister if we can go live in her husband's apartment in Paris?" "How about I pull him into a "Shell company" for stock broking, ask him to invest "some" which is 5 or 10 crores, I will invest 1 lakh, and then eventually "prove" to him that I lost it all in the share market


Its impossible not to feel envy, some turn their envy into greed and start grabbing... but a small percentage turn their envy into rosham as they say in Tamil and want NOTHING to do with the wealthy co brother in law, they slowly poison their wife, the sister to do the same also

The wealth gap does tend to flare up around particular situations such as this when u look at the enormity of the bhalla wealth, this is more like an economic gulf between the siblings and the families are getting sucked into it. It's gutting to read that II is uncomfortable to an extent that she tried to avoid Bala. But sibling relationship between vandu and II is so strong, they will address this right. II and vandu both are squirming, with one having to explain to the other that she or her FIL never intended to show off their Wealth and the other having to defend her husband.