FF: New York times with Maan and Geet Thread 2 - Page 76

Originally posted by: maaneet2010

Trust - The glue that holds all relationships together.

Originally posted by: Water.

Maneet,

I loved the above line. It goes in my collection of quotes.

Thank u so much for sharing.

Originally posted by: Maneetkraze

Oh haha!! 😆 Well who said there has to be a reason behind everything in life???
New York Times is a very unique name for an FF but I must say that this what got me hooked to your FF. When I first read the name, i am like what? It made me very curious so i opened it and read on and on. And i am still here!!!! 😊

Originally posted by: Lov26

Amazing Update. I like how you pay attention to small details and explained them and you are quite consistent in your story flow.

I for once have a few questions just out of curiosity:

What Maan was actually thinking when you wrote this : "I had an inkling where she was getting at and it meant only one thing or was I too soon to concur? I lifted the sheet to continue reading."

Secondly, i feel that five years is a lot, how did they manage to be together 5 years since this is a serious issue if she could not get intimate with her husband. She has valid reasons but why didn't Dev get out of the relationship before? Why did he wait 5 years? Its true he mentioned it is not because of anyone he is breaking off the relationship but i do not believe he stayed faithful right? Ok i know this is not a story about Dev. Am just like wondering about this 5 year relationship.

Thirdly, as freely as Geet responds to Maan's kisses and she seems very passionate like the office scene. Its true that after a certain point she cant go beyond and stops but was she as free with Dev up to that point or is it just with MAAN.

One last thing i absolutely love that bit : "Anticipating rejection, I walked to the bed, to lie down next to her. My pillows were still by the door and so I inched in closer to sleep on her pillow. I was wrong. She didn't push me around or sigh in disgust. Moments later, I slid my arm down her waist to hold onto her and she still didn't rebuff to my shock. I strangely felt she needed assurance and gave it to her the very instant." This is so real. 😛

Hope my questions are making sense.

Thanks :-)

Originally posted by: 6thElement

You are indeed right Fatima, I had not seen it. For some reason I had missed it out. Thanks for pointing out, else I would have not been able to write a big THANKYOU...and it makes me go to bed with the pleasure, that each update strikes a chord with someone somewhere.

Your inhibitions...Why do I feel it again comes back to being accepted? Its just the feeling I got and I have no idea about what you your current situation is but I just wrote down the first word that came back to my mind.

<Based on my limited knowledge from Psych school...I'm writing this analysis..I could still be totally wrong...This is only my opinion and not a suggestion to be followed.>

To me dreams are daily discharges...once again the fact that you had a positive dream tells me that all through the day, you felt positive that the person will understand and accept..this could be your intuition that you are failing to recognize. You know why this came as a dream and that the fear did not manifest in your dream?...Let me give it to you...Your fear of rejection is so well manifested into your brain's long term memory, that it could not find a place to fit in this positivity or the inkling that you had in you when it was processing yesterday's thoughts through your sleep cycle...which even you might have failed to recognize during your conscious state...

According to one school of thought, dreams are a way of your subconscious calling out something that is standing out with your beliefs, something that doesn't fit in...or it could simply be a discharge that the brain couldn't process and is calling out to your attention. It needs an expert opinion to do dream analysis and I just used textbook methods to do it, so process it at your own risk.

Dont call it rambling...everything will make sense one day...even if it couldn't have changed anything in your life..it gives back valuable life lessons at least at a later point of time.

Thanks for taking the time to write this....I really appreciate it that you consider us all so close to your heart. I pray that you find peace soon with whatever that you are struggling with. Even this will come to pass....

I have a book recommendation for you.. "Stumbling upon Happiness"...Its a technical book and has got nothing to do with the title...but talks a lot about how our needs and wants changes over time...I have not idea why I'm making this suggestion, but I do believe in randomness at time LOL...so go for it if you can.

Sure hopefully the update will come up before my morning...Gosh I need to start restricting myself on this forum...LOL

Originally posted by: febinyusuff

I will be back after a small nap

Originally posted by: -shabnoor-

Ah! its wonderful....dunno how I din come across this line before while commenting and reading the comments 😊
Thnx a lot for sharing...and also dear you for recommenting or else I wud have missed it :)