Maan in this update'.is that even possible in reality. I have always dreamt about my dream guy from time to time..and this Maan seems so unrealistic.
I mean guys usually think and try to find a solution and that is why I can understand why Maan did not want to hear about why Geet was not intimate with Dev. When a girl tries to talk about emotions'..most of the men respond back by thinking.
I was amazed and surprised at the way Maan reacted. I loved his reaction for sure, but for me it was just unbelievable that he was so patient, non-judgmental, calm, considerate and much more.
Geet took a big risk in telling him all this'I am not sure if this is the reason she did not tell him all this before'it is not bad or anything'but being a girl I can imagine the fear of losing a relationship just before it started. I mean what if she would have told him all this before and the relationship would have just ended there. She had said the reason was that she wanted Maan to be happy and live those moments and that is why she never brought this up, but was that the only reason or her fear of losing him and being judged outweighed the other.
Geet writes in her letter that she is willing to face his wrath and the fact that she thought it could be last time she could say'.it to him'about how she felt about him. The fear is right there in those lines about being judged, rejected and losing out on the relationship.
I can understand the reason why she says..not to tell something to your husband ...because sometimes past brings an ending to present relationships.
Her life with Dev was such a mess'and so much confusion yaar. I mean being 18 n married in a new country and the guy is quite a few years older than her I think, who was always busy with his business and not being able to give her time n support. Now can she relate to him or even try and talk about how she feels about her past about her baggage. Life becomes a constant struggle in these circumstances. What is a person suppose to do? Leave him or stay with him and try n hope that all works out? What can you do if your husband stays away for months n months at a time? Plus he was brutal to her one of the days'.Good for u Geet 'u slapped him.
N I m not sure if Dev was actually sleeping around with the other girl or not'.but all I gotta say is I do not like that Dev.
Maan saying that he would have given her space and then would have taken things in his own hand. I am curious to find out what Maan would have done? How would he have had handled the situation. Could he have lost his patience? Was he going to be aggressive, demanding, controlling? The Maan we know so far does not seem like that'but he does give silent treatment to Geet now n then. Would Maan have retreated back into his shell?
Geet 'I cannot believe I am telling you this' never use it against me!!!!!
Aha'this line'..you share your deepest, darkest secret with the one whom you love, because you want to be honest, loyal, faithful with them, because you want to build your life with the pillar of trust and grow it with love and care'.but 'what if ....when a time comes n you have some sort of miscommunications or arguments, you are mad at each other..... 'how long do you think it is going to take for the other person to be overcome with negative emotions like anger, rage, fear, jealousy, insecurity, etc..and in that moment of being caught with negative emotions'it is so easy, extremely easy to bring up the past and say things that you do not want to say just because in that present moment you are hurting so bad that you lose your sense and control and verbally attack the other person with hurtful words that you do not mean to say.
I will just stop here...wrote a lot...
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