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Posted: 11 years ago
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Raghav's character is totally ruined for me right now I'm enjoying ragna just for kalpi she is the only one sane in that couple right now personally I love their acting and that's why I look forward to their scene but today even their sizzling intense chemistry was missing that makes me forget all the misconducts of CVs well not every episode is bound to be perfect and all but I seriously hope CVs bring back that old raghav singhania and ema with whom we all fell in love with.
Before anyone jumps on me I am loving ragna right now it's just I didn't expected raghav to be lovey dovey and all I just hope after kalpi accept his proposal raghav should give her space be romantic but stay true to his character too
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Posted: 11 years ago
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What does Raghav's character suppose to do? If He is in love with kalpi then people also expect him to be rude to her as well? Because Raghav's character was pretty straight forward like, not giving any sympathy, no pity on anyone. He can't act like this with kalpi while he is in love 😕

He is suppose to be all nice to her and there is nothing wrong in it. And I also don't think that he has forgotten about his revenge from the Kapoor's. He will going to take it but currently he is traveling in this phase right now. He needs to solve his feelings for kalpi. He needs to know whether she feels the same. I am sure once he gets satisfied then his focus will be back on the kapoors. Give this guy sometime!
Edited by Manoshono - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manoshono

What does Raghav's character suppose to do? If He is in love with kalpi then people also expect him to be rude to her as well? Because Raghav's character was pretty straight forward like, not giving any sympathy, no pity on anyone. He can't act like this with kalpi while he is in love 😕

He is suppose to be all nice to her and there is nothing wrong in it. And I also don't think that he has forgotten about his revenge from the Kapoor's. He will going to take it but currently he is traveling in this phase right now. He needs to solve his feelings for kalpi. He needs to know whether she feels the same. I am sure once he gets satisfied then his focus will be back on the kapoors. Give this guy sometime!


That's what I want to say after kalpi accepts him I want him to be focused and smart again and not as a love ridden fool.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: gina24


That's what I want to say after kalpi accepts him I want him to be focused and smart again and not as a love ridden fool.

I am sure this will going to take place but the current track has been shifted to his inner feelings that he has been fighting over ever since he felt for kalpi. We all have seen it right? It's just that he has taken a break to solve his relationship status with kalpi first. Once that is done, then his intentions of destroying kapoors might get easier. And you never know he may open his history to kalpi as to why he was behaving the way before. He might divulge about his family and mother and revenge? They might think together etc. A lot of things may happen. We should give this track sometime. It's not scary, it's not bad... I have seen so many worse tracks of the other serials. This one is perfectly making sense. It's great to see them In love.
Edited by Manoshono - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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BOYs always does that... after realising their feelings they just wanted to posses her win her they doesn't tries to understand her... strange, but have seen in reality, Raghav is going in the same path
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with you. He has finally opened up and felt things hes never felt before with Kalpi and he wants to know that he isn't the only one who feels this way. It's a strange, new feeling for him and like you said he wants to feel secure by knowing she loves him the same way too.

The longer she takes to reciprocate his feelings the more he will be disturbed and keep pushing her for some form of confession. He needs to back off a little and let her realize how she feels for him. I think she is in the "like" stage for him and doesn't love him as yet. He needs to give her time.
Edited by westindian - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sapnapari

The thing iz tat ragav hs never allowed ny1 enter his world bt nw a new entry of kalpi hs made him change...

He hs started 2 feel ntng more important than her... He just wants 2 know does she feel d same so that he feels secure...
He's just bcum 2 impatient 2 listen 2 those magical words 4rm kalpi's mouth...

Bt yes sejal... I accept 2 ur point tat in he's luv he hs forgttn d gap... Bt i think tat this gap can surely b filled by equal efforts put by both... :)



So Raghav has lost everyone that was close to him and so thts why he's possessive about her. But, doesn't tht mean he will try his hardest to not let Kalpi go. By not understanding her, will tht make Kalpi go closer to him. No! It will lead to the opposite making Kalpi go further away. Raghav should acknowledge her fears and give her time.

But okay. Let's say tht Raghav has lost so many loved ones tht he doesn't know wht to do to not lose Kalpi. Why does Raghav expect Kalpi to flock to him? Kalpi needs a sensitive person tht understands her feelings very well and encourage her and praise her. But all he has done is the opposite of that. Let's give h the benefit of the doubt again and say tht he made a mistake. But has he tried apologizing for it atleast once. And this is not only one time he has insulted her. Especially tht Genda phool incident. Tht was just cheap. Has he tried rectifying his mistake? And eating spicy food and traveling in a bus with Kalpi comes nowhere near and doesn't make up for the number of insults hurled at Kalpi by Raghav. Kalpi has made mistakes like the Alibaugh incident and such. But many insults were hurled at her tr shouldn't have whether she made a mistake or not.Srry if u think I hurt anyone's feelings
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Insightful Post!! However, I disagree in some sense. Raghav was socialised very differently from Kalpi. He is used to girls being free to do what they want. So, I can understand why he is not getting what Kalpi is saying.
Also, he is in love for the first time, and there is no perfect method to show love, he is just acting on impulse as this is his first time and he is unsure of how to handle it. When a person is in love, there is no knowing what they will do or say, some people act rational, some irrational and also start acting silly (in a good way) like Raghav and others freeze up like Kalpi.

So, I think we should be more patient with Raghav and try to understand where he is coming from. It is also nice to have a man lose his senses over you (in a good way that is).😆
Edited by dumppurvi - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manoshono

I am sure this will going to take place but the current track has been shifted to his inner feelings that he has been fighting over ever since he felt for kalpi. We all have seen it right? It's just that he has taken a break to solve his relationship status with kalpi first. Once that is done, then his intentions of destroying kapoors might get easier. And you never know he may open his history to kalpi as to why he was behaving the way before. He might divulge about his family and mother and revenge? They might think together etc. A lot of things may happen. We should give this track sometime. It's not scary, it's not bad... I have seen so many worse tracks of the other serials. This one is perfectly making sense. It's great to see them In love.



Thank you for this post. I thought I was the only one who felt this way. I made several posts on this topic last week. I dont think his current behavior is out of character at all.

He is aggressive, impatient, restless, impulsive among other things, these are some of his characteristics. He doesnt do things half heartedly, he just goes all out with a one track mind, very focused. We have seen this approach in business and personal relationships. He has not had anyone to call his own in ages, someone who cares for him like Kalpi does and he is just so eager to be able to express his thoughts, love her, hold her and have her be a part of his thus far lonely life. He is unable to control himself his excitement, his love and his desires of all kinds😉.

Its barely been a little over 24 hours since his confession. He now wants to express his feelings to her directly and hear her side which she has not given him a chance to do yet. Once they have a talk, he will be a bit more at peace.

In the meantime neither has he forgotten about his revenge nor has Kalpi forgotten about aai's dreams and ambitions for her. They will both get back on track once their relationships and feelings are sorted out. Raghav would also be fully supportive of Kalpi's ambitions and career.

I am enjoying their romance even though I felt the confession came too early on. Honestly, most soaps usually show hardcore romance for an episode or two before the next calamity strikes. Here are having a visual treat for almost a week, its very rare IMHO and worth appreciating.

I wish though that they had shown a few more internal dialogues on how and why Raghav decided to pursue a relationship with Kalpi after his confession. The transition would have been easier for all of us!

Edit - the only flaw I see in him at the moment is he is unable to understand that Kalpi needs time and he needs to give her space. Wonder what he will do if she says she doesnt reciprocate his feelings? Raghav Singhania is not used to hearing no, he is used to having things his way and quickly!! Instant coffee types😉
Edited by Infofan - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: dumppurvi

Insightful Post!! However, I disagree in some sense. Raghav was socialised very differently from Kalpi. He is used to girls being free to do what they want. So, I can understand why he is not getting what Kalpi is saying.

Also, he is in love for the first time, and there is no perfect method to show love, he is just acting on impulse as this is his first time and he is unsure of how to handle it. When a person is in love, there is no knowing what they will do or say, some people act rational, some irrational and also start acting silly (in a good way) like Raghav and others freeze up like Kalpi.

So, I think we should be more patient with Raghav and try to understand where he is coming from. It is also nice to have a man lose his senses over you (in a good way that is).😆



Agree:))) If Kalpi needs time we all also need time to understand Raghav... He is a rational man, he knows that kalpi loves him too bt afraid of accepting it... He just want to listen it from her only and its nothing new hv seen many people behaving like that & therez nothing wrong in that till the girl in front doesn't feel offended...
And here even Raghav is sure that Kalpi likes being with him... And about the gap the major gap h they have is between their thinking & not lifestyle...

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