Am I the only one not liking Raghav..?? - Page 4

Originally posted by: SahanaG

Yaar Sejal don't want to think about 360 degree turn Raghav has taken since the party His sweetness is giving me diabetes, his love is turning into obsession, his impatience is driving me crazy 🤔 He even looked tired of getting a straight answer from Kalpi today, his expression were too flat I can not make out who Raghav is currently 🤔

@ blue - Here I would say the actor and creatives are to be blamed. Raghav's dialogues towards the end of the episode needed to be a little more emotional, with feeling. I feel they cut short the dialogue leading to tomorrow's episode and will add more to it tomorrow.

About the rest, I made a longish post on page 4 ... take a look if you have time. Its not a 360 degree turn in his character as much the way the CVs handled the transition from revenge mode to romance mode. That confession episode was one of the worst ever of EMA in terms of editing, bloopers etc. Its a turning point in the story, a very important moment but it left all of us confused and upset.

Originally posted by: Infofan

Thank you for this post. I thought I was the only one who felt this way. I made several posts on this topic last week. I dont think his current behavior is out of character at all.

He is aggressive, impatient, restless, impulsive among other things, these are some of his characteristics. He doesnt do things half heartedly, he just goes all out with a one track mind, very focused. We have seen this approach in business and personal relationships. He has not had anyone to call his own in ages, someone who cares for him like Kalpi does and he is just so eager to be able to express his thoughts, love her, hold her and have her be a part of his thus far lonely life. He is unable to control himself his excitement, his love and his desires of all kinds😉.

Its barely been a little over 24 hours since his confession. He now wants to express his feelings to her directly and hear her side which she has not given him a chance to do yet. Once they have a talk, he will be a bit more at peace.

In the meantime neither has he forgotten about his revenge nor has Kalpi forgotten about aai's dreams and ambitions for her. They will both get back on track once their relationships and feelings are sorted out.

I am enjoying their romance even though I felt the confession came too early on. Honestly, most soaps usually show hardcore romance for an episode or two before the next calamity strikes. Here are having a visual treat for almost a week, its very rare IMHO and worth appreciating.

I wish though that they had shown a few more internal dialogues on how and why Raghav decided to pursue a relationship with Kalpi after his confession. The transition would have been easier for all of us!

Edit - the only flaw I see in him at the moment is he is unable to understand that Kalpi needs time and he needs to give her space.

Thanks to you too. I am actually getting nervous seeing all the negative posts about Raghav and his character so I thought I would put some of my thoughts in and see if people will be able to see the other side of this character. This character is not totally a grey shade but it will be more colorful than we all think. It's hard for some to recognize the sudden change in character but looking at the past records, it was very obvious that sooner or later he will open up himself infront of Kalpi. This guy has imagined kalpi even when he was in a process of revenge. This had to come out of the box and it did. Nothing was wrong in it. Yes, the confession wasnt expected to be this fast but I guess by looking at his impulsive character, the confession had to propose this way.

I am loving it excluding a bit of editing side and I would blame the CVS for it. His character expects too much from the people who gets close to him. And at any cost he wants them to be close to him forever. Maybe that's why he is showing more of his possessive side towards kalpi, but in a nice way. As long as he isn't harming her, everything should be fine 😃

happy holi guys

humm so our sejal is not happy

well coming to raghav he is very much into character...infact cvs did not change him even a bit..lol


did see his impatience toaday...like kahee mujhe phir se na bus me travel karna pade...but then he said...no ways this time she has to come with him

when sammy said u will have to wait ...raghav singhania was the same brat again...i dont wait for people...and their is the answer of all ur questions sejal

raghav is never logical when it comes to his passions...be it revenge or love...he has it both in him ...and he is passionate of both...and when he puts an eye on somethings he gets it...thats it..thats his attitude to life...and when he does not get it then he just goes heywire and starts venting his frustration on people around ...misfortunatly he is the man with power and money ...which makes him even more arrogant

he will not sit till he gets confession from kalpana..thats how he is deal with it...were not we dealing with him when he was an arrogant insulting boss ..then what is the difference now...

right now he is the man on kill ...and this time he is smiling rather then being vindictive.still one thing has not changed he is restless like wind

he will never be able to really understand kalpanas concern coz he is not messy...instead he will just say fine ...chalo shaadi kar lete hai...i think that will solve many problems ...rofl

@ Manoshana, the one thing bothered me today was Raghav telling Kalpi he is sad she didn't understand him. Dude how much do you both know each other? That was a bit weird.

Originally posted by: Infofan

@ Manoshana, the one thing bothered me today was Raghav telling Kalpi he is sad she didn't understand him. Dude how much do you both know each other? That was a bit weird.

Rest akdoo was in full form... RS doesn't wait for anything/anyone and Kalpi will have to travel with him in the car today😆

Being with Kalpi he will be calmer, learn to be more patient and listen to others POV as well.

He does need to acknowledge and apologize for his rudeness and disrespectful behavior towards her sometime soon. My problem is Ragna have forgotten about it and maybe the CVs too

@bold we must be thankful enough that the great mr. singhania traveled with bus !!...eat mirchi and is using genda phool for decoration kal to rang bhi lagayengey...what more can we expect...

as soon as kalpi says yes our honemoon time will be over...we will be served paaki tantrums...neetu plots and manda jasoosgiri

and bang...kalpi will be vicimised again...now then i wanna see what raghav singhania does...coz i want to see his protective and possessive side for kalpi...coz thats his best side

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

happy holi guys

humm so our sejal is not happy

well coming to raghav he is very much into character...infact cvs did not change him even a bit..lol


did see his impatience toaday...like kahee mujhe phir se na bus me travel karna pade...but then he said...no ways this time she has to come with him

when sammy said u will have to wait ...raghav singhania was the same brat again...i dont wait for people...and their is the answer of all ur questions sejal

raghav is never logical when it comes to his passions...be it revenge or love...he has it both in him ...and he is passionate of both...and when he puts an eye on somethings he gets it...thats it..thats his attitude to life...and when he does not get it then he just goes heywire and starts venting his frustration on people around ...misfortunatly he is the man with power and money ...which makes him even more arrogant

he will not sit till he gets confession from kalpana..thats how he is deal with it...were not we dealing with him when he was an arrogant insulting boss ..then what is the difference now...

right now he is the man on kill ...and this time he is smiling rather then being vindictive.still one thing has not changed he is restless like wind

he will never be able to really understand kalpanas concern coz he is not messy...instead he will just say fine ...chalo shaadi kar lete hai...i think that will solve many problems ...rofl

Originally posted by: Infofan

@ Manoshana, the one thing bothered me today was Raghav telling Kalpi he is sad she didn't understand him. Dude how much do you both know each other? That was a bit weird.

Rest akdoo was in full form... RS doesn't wait for anything/anyone and Kalpi will have to travel with him in the car today😆

Being with Kalpi he will be calmer, learn to be more patient and listen to others POV as well.

He does need to acknowledge and apologize for his rudeness and disrespectful behavior towards her sometime soon. My problem is Ragna have forgotten about it and maybe the CVs too

Edit - just read your post. Yes he has lost too much and is afraid of loosing anyone else. He wants to have Kalpi close to him and quickly. Hence pressing her for her confession. He is so sure Kalpi cares and they have an opportunity to be happy together.

😆 yes, even I felt like telling him that he isnt in a relationship with her nor it has been long :p. Even though he knew her a bit from childhood, he instantly knows that kalpi didn't like the food in the restaurant but he can't expect the same from her in this early stage of love. She hasn't really feel like he did. It will take some time. I was surprised how he was telling himself that he won't let them travel in a bus like they are already in a relationship. He has taken his feelings for granted and expects the same from Kalpi. I guess somewhere he knows that she may feel the same for him? 😃

But I guess the revenge will be a different take from his side from now on. It used to be pakhi but now he may take the revenge in some other way. But pakki may give RagNa some trouble as she too is in love with Raghav. The twist may get more complex in the future and that's why I am enjoying the current track to the fullest.

i dont think raghav changed he's just experiancing love for the first time soon mr akdoo will be back he wont be mean to kalpi his lady love

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

happy holi guys

humm so our sejal is not happy

well coming to raghav he is very much into character...infact cvs did not change him even a bit..lol


did see his impatience toaday...like kahee mujhe phir se na bus me travel karna pade...but then he said...no ways this time she has to come with him

when sammy said u will have to wait ...raghav singhania was the same brat again...i dont wait for people...and their is the answer of all ur questions sejal

raghav is never logical when it comes to his passions...be it revenge or love...he has it both in him ...and he is passionate of both...and when he puts an eye on somethings he gets it...thats it..thats his attitude to life...and when he does not get it then he just goes heywire and starts venting his frustration on people around ...misfortunatly he is the man with power and money ...which makes him even more arrogant

he will not sit till he gets confession from kalpana..thats how he is deal with it...were not we dealing with him when he was an arrogant insulting boss ..then what is the difference now...

right now he is the man on kill ...and this time he is smiling rather then being vindictive.still one thing has not changed he is restless like wind

he will never be able to really understand kalpanas concern coz he is not messy...instead he will just say fine ...chalo shaadi kar lete hai...i think that will solve many problems ...rofl

Originally posted by: samarth300

So Raghav has lost everyone that was close to him and so thts why he's possessive about her. But, doesn't tht mean he will try his hardest to not let Kalpi go. By not understanding her, will tht make Kalpi go closer to him. No! It will lead to the opposite making Kalpi go further away. Raghav should acknowledge her fears and give her time.

But okay. Let's say tht Raghav has lost so many loved ones tht he doesn't know wht to do to not lose Kalpi. Why does Raghav expect Kalpi to flock to him? Kalpi needs a sensitive person tht understands her feelings very well and encourage her and praise her. But all he has done is the opposite of that. Let's give h the benefit of the doubt again and say tht he made a mistake. But has he tried apologizing for it atleast once. And this is not only one time he has insulted her. Especially tht Genda phool incident. Tht was just cheap. Has he tried rectifying his mistake? And eating spicy food and traveling in a bus with Kalpi comes nowhere near and doesn't make up for the number of insults hurled at Kalpi by Raghav. Kalpi has made mistakes like the Alibaugh incident and such. But many insults were hurled at her tr shouldn't have whether she made a mistake or not.Srry if u think I hurt anyone's feelings

Samarth300... I don't even wish to start with counts of Raghav's insult...!! I have already made post on the same... Here kalpi is at fault... for letting him get the ways to get closer to her..!! I am not even expecting in any Indian serial, we would ever get guy appologizing... for any of his such acts.. It's us audience who would have to cut and try to balance insults and efforts to get the lady love..
My problem.. is why sudden change??? Let love not be an excuse.. people get more rationale... and he is just plain obsessed... As I keep on mentioning.. his current condition is that of worse then Pakkhi... Paakhi.. whom we call obsessed lover... is taking soo rationale steps.. of finding out likes, dislikes.., understanding... here.. kalpi is telling him on his face.. what are her issues.. he is denying them all..!! Now that is sad!!