Is this really even defendable?

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malika

@_symphony

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 9 years ago

Its really sad I can still see some people trying to defend Shravan. I know everyone here loves him a lot. Ask me! 💔 As of now I dont even know if I will be interested in this show the same way anomore. And DARN I LOVEDDD this guy like anything till before tonights epi 🥺

But still I cant be so blind. I just have one question to cvs that how in the world will even his repentance in future make him any better guy for Sumo? Just for a second, everyone who is defending him, put yourself or your sister at Sumo's place. Just realize what has Shravan done to her. And the worst of it is, that guy not even for a second think that how this will disrupt all of Sumo's life. Without even any mistake of her. He didnt even think "What if Aditya told all this in front of Tiwaris and Nanu and humiliated them for it??" What if he questioned Sumo about this in front of her whole family...How the girl would have justified herself. How in the world she will show her face to her family to whom she is already so indebted and in front of the Malhotras who are her sister's in-laws. Honestly I wonder if any amount of repentance can make up for this. For this betrayal. For this adultery 🤢

Its a sad moment for the whole fandom for such a pure, loveable and innocent character has been scarred beyond repair. 💔 I know the so called extra creative CVs of this show will probably someday justify this and make Sumo fogive Shravan like some mahanta ki moorat may be because he will save her from some life-threatening accident or may be he will some fine day realize his mistake and binge on alcohol, fall sick and cry for forgiveness. So much for a creative show 🤢🤢

Sorry EDKV CVs you tried to pull a stunt but it failed big time...And I am sorry people...This isnt defendable. It isn't! For any damn reason.

Edited by Malika - 9 years ago

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nith125

@nith125

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Posted: 9 years ago

What he did was wrong, period. As an adult he is responsible for his words and actions. He will face the consequences and learn from his mistake.

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Samridhi

@BinKuchKahe.

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

I am feeling a little low with the way this show has shaped up so all I will say is THANK YOU for this post. Much needed.

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Roshni2015

@Roshni2015

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

Shravan was wrong.. Yes. No justification for what he said today..

But he let his anger, pent up frustrations n agony overrule his better judgement... He committed a grave mistake..

Like I said before, to err is human.. If you realize your mistake, repent fir n rectify it.. You are a good human... Shravan definitely is n he if needed he will walk any extra miles to set this right..

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an_chau

@an_chau

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

Love your post - if not for anything else, for calling it like it is. 👏
I still love Shravan's character, and will feel sad for him when his moment of truth comes. But that doesn't mean that I don't see the wrong in what he has done today.

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KitkitMkb

@KitkitMkb

Rocker

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Posted: 9 years ago

Most of the people are not defending him, what he did was wrong but we understand why he did so. Anger, hurt resentment can make human beings do really stupid things yet it does not justify what he did, it was really wrong. But it proves that Shravan is flawed, he is impulsive and as far as his redemption is concerned I am sure we will actually see him regretting what he did, whatever he said to Sumo. I am not defending his actions, he is my favorite character he has messed up big time but I hope and know that he will redeem himself I want him to realize, to earn Sumo's forgiveness. To be worth of her .Btw I really like your posts and understand your pov ! Keep writing them !

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Spnfan

@spnfan

Trailblazer

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Posted: 9 years ago

The problem is he didnt even once thought about sumo...there was only nirmala.ahuja.in his mind.. No one else.. If he had thought of sumo.and.their friendship he would.have never uttered those disgusting words..

He.is gonna regret each and every word when he sees his sumo crying.on.his arms... May be even before.that...

What he wanted was to see a defeated and unhappy aditya which he got... He is gonna think what he did the.next morning... Aditya is also gonna realise what he did to sumo the next day after the man handling...

In.frustration and anger we does stuff.which we regret after realizing what we did.. A lot of crimes happen due to the heat of the.moment...

Like.Sumo is not.thinking about the.consequence of her.decisions shravan.is.not thinking about the consequences of his anger and hatred... Sumo's decision.to make her.family happy is by sacrificing the happiness of 3 people aditya, shravan and herself, shravan's decision to make aditya suffer is by defaming the pure friendship shraman had... Aditya's decision to be.impulsive is gonnq.give him a life long tag of an.abuser...

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Nancy (Zin)

@PlainJane

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

Yes...what Shravan did was wrong. He really needs to apologize and redeem himself for this.

But what about Aditya? Someone just tells him that they had a past with Sumo and he is going to molest her? Like, really!🤢

I love Shravan. What he did was not justified. But he was lashing out in pain. His own mother was accusing him of being a bad influence and to stay away, also Aditya kept pestering him about Sumo's past. Sumo already agreed to marry Adi, so why does her past relationships matter. And if Adi thinks Sumo would carry on an affair with Shravan while being engaged to Adi, then Adi doesn't know her at all. Also, do you really think if Shravan had said nothing happened in the past, Aditya would have believed him?🤢 At the end the only way to shut him up what give Adi what he wanted, that is trash about the supposed past.

Again, I am not justifying Shravan's actions. I am just saying not all of us can tolerate rubbish before lashing out. Shravan warned us that he was at the end of his tether. He just proved he meant it. Alas! Sumo was hurt in the process.😭 I hope Shravan can rectify that.

My main point is: Every character is wrong. Sumo is acting defensive which raises Adi's suspicion; Adi is being cryptic; and Shravan is being a basket-case. Also, every character have a point. Sumo doesn't need to talk about the past if she doesn't want to. If Adi can't deal with it then leave her. Adi is suspicious because Sumo is acting defensive (though what he is about to do to her is not justified at any cost). Shravan is in too much pain to calculate the consequences of his duplicity. He is not in his right mind.

You are right in your opinion. 😊But I can't find it in myself to condemn Shravan beyond redemption...at least not now.

I hope I have not offended you.

Edited by PlainJane - 9 years ago

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an_chau

@an_chau

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: KitkitMkb
Most of the people are not defending him, what he did was wrong but we understand why he did so. Anger, hurt resentment can make human beings do really stupid things yet it does not justify what he did, it was really wrong. But it proves that Shravan is flawed, he is impulsive and as far as his redemption is concerned I am sure we will actually see him regretting what he did, whatever he said to Sumo. I am not defending his actions, he is my favorite character he has messed up big time but I hope and know that he will redeem himself I want him to realize, to earn Sumo's forgiveness. To be worth of her .Btw I really like your posts and understand your pov ! Keep writing them !

The thing is, he has always blamed Sumo for "using" him. Well today, he did the same. Used her with little thought of how his words might impact her. For all my love for Shravan Malhotra, this makes me sad. Especially cuz, he is so much better than this. A moment of weakness when rage won, friendship lost.