Is this really even defendable? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Roshni2015

Shravan was wrong.. Yes. No justification for what he said today..

But he let his anger, pent up frustrations n agony overrule his better judgement... He committed a grave mistake..

Like I said before, to err is human.. If you realize your mistake, repent fir n rectify it.. You are a good human... Shravan definitely is n he if needed he will walk any extra miles to set this right..

Originally posted by: an_chau

The thing is, he has always blamed Sumo for "using" him. Well today, he did the same. Used her with little thought of how his words might impact her. For all my love for Shravan Malhotra, this makes me sad. Especially cuz, he is so much better than this. A moment of weakness when rage won, friendship lost.

I understand what you are saying it was really wrong but I actually want him to realize how big his blunder is and the fact that he needs to control his anger. We all know that once he will realize his mistakes he won't sit back and wait for things to happen he will go ahead and amend for them. Anger can really blind you, his aim was to hurt Aditya he did not want to hurt Sumo and when he will see the consequences he will do everything to get her back. To gain her trust back and I want Sumo to make him really work hard for it !

Even though Shravan is our favourite character we aren't defending him but trying to understand him... we din't like him for being an idiolistic person rather we do as he's humane, he has flaws, recognises his errors and tries to rectify them... Isn't he so realistic??

So there are a few questions/comments I have...I do not attempt to create a war zone here...just a few things that I would like to hear people's opinions about. So please be civil...and maintain peace! 😆

1. When Shravan had trash talked about women in general...how come people's reactions were so subdued? I absolutely hated the way he said those things!

2. Are people upset that he lied about the relationship?

3. Suppose Shraman had been physically intimate...and Shravan revealed it to Adi...would people still be mad?

4. If your answer to question no. 3 is yes...my question is...is it wrong to talk about your physical relationships in the open?

Shravan was a volcano today that erupted.

Originally posted by: puba

So there are a few questions/comments I have...I do not attempt to create a war zone here...just a few things that I would like to hear people's opinions about. So please be civil...and maintain peace! 😆

1. When Shravan had trash talked about women in general...how come people's reactions were so subdued? I absolutely hated the way he said those things!

2. Are people upset that he lied about the relationship?

3. Suppose Shraman had been physically intimate...and Shravan revealed it to Adi...would people still be mad?

4. If your answer to question no. 3 is yes...my question is...is it wrong to talk about your physical relationships in the open?

Hi Puba,
Here is where I fall:

1) that was unacceptable too
2) yes
3) Hell Yes!
4) it is perfectly fine talking about your physical relationships in public. No hypocrisy there. But when the relationship involves two people, the information sharing should happen with mutual consent. That's my biggest peeve.

Originally posted by: puba

So there are a few questions/comments I have...I do not attempt to create a war zone here...just a few things that I would like to hear people's opinions about. So please be civil...and maintain peace! 😆

1. When Shravan had trash talked about women in general...how come people's reactions were so subdued? I absolutely hated the way he said those things!

2. Are people upset that he lied about the relationship?

3. Suppose Shraman had been physically intimate...and Shravan revealed it to Adi...would people still be mad?

4. If your answer to question no. 3 is yes...my question is...is it wrong to talk about your physical relationships in the open?

Originally posted by: puba

So there are a few questions/comments I have...I do not attempt to create a war zone here...just a few things that I would like to hear people's opinions about. So please be civil...and maintain peace! 😆

1. When Shravan had trash talked about women in general...how come people's reactions were so subdued? I absolutely hated the way he said those things!

2. Are people upset that he lied about the relationship?

3. Suppose Shraman had been physically intimate...and Shravan revealed it to Adi...would people still be mad?

4. If your answer to question no. 3 is yes...my question is...is it wrong to talk about your physical relationships in the open?

Aditya has lost all reason btw. Just three days ago Shravan also said he loved someone and that it wa onesided and all. Today he does a 360. And Aditya in his quest to uncover the facts goes drunk to Suman's house and moments her. Blame the cvs for creating two such characters, one worse than the other however circumstantial. But gosh what is this woman Nirmala ? Dus saal mein wapis aai bhi to kuchh maangne ? Wo bhi Shravan se Shravan Ki sumo?

Key is what if pct fiasco never happened? Tiwaris and sumo would still have gone ahead with this alliance and dropped Shravan like a hot potato right? They are quite selfish and matlabi in that sense. This whole show and most situations are very convoluted. Time cvs start cleaning the mess not adding more to it.

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

1.I'm sure any girl would hate it

2.Yes (belittled their pure and innocent dosti)

3.Yes (absence of Suman's consent)

4.Depends (mutual consent)... I'm a bit on unromantic side and so I dislike even PDA let alone talks about physical intimacy in the open

If I were sumo and this was about me, whether or not I slept with Shravan I would feel bad that this was said by him spite and avenge his mother two days before my marriage.