Rantara PMS lust is hypocrisy?? DT note pg 6 - Pls read - Page 5

DT Note:

Originally posted by: diva82

@shiny, yes I trully hope they don't. Ayaz and Niks just do their jobs and they are soo sweet in giving us soo many IVs.

@Gags, exactly, I am glad they are showing this, it means they are trully one. They only thing I am worried about is that this may lead to Phattu marrying Antara.

Actualy im thinkin exactly opposite!! After their union im kinda assured Antara wl never marry Phatu!! She may nt even marry Raghu!! I won't even b surprised if this union wl lead to Antara's pregnancy track!! Maybe at this point she wd move away frm her family n Raghu sumwer they wd nt b able to reach her!! No wonder Ruksana is brought in Antara's home!! If Antara moves out she wl move out wid a promise frm ruksana that she wd tk cr of her mother n brother in her absence!! I don c Satya-Antara marriage n im relieved!!

Originally posted by: pampz

i completely agree with you Kreya ...i was really hurt when i saw some of us are mentioning the love between two pure soul like Raghu and Antara as LUST ...i truely feel they don know what is true love and what is LUST ...whn a girl loves a man with her everything n gives herself entirely to that person ...how come we can call that girl immoral or wrong or cheating with her family ...n bla bla bla ...

when we think that after marriage sex is right n premarital sex is a sin then back of the mind it plays that you don hv 100 % trust on the person u love n so u cant giv urself entirely to that person bfore marriage ...and the IRONY is u never know whether ur marriage with a particular person wd end up to a divorce or not ...so whats the result if u giv urself after marriage to that person ...???? the outcome wd be same ...u wll feel cheated ...u wd feel lost n humiliated n what not ...only a person who had got cheated knows how much pain n agony he /she goes through after facing such treachery in real life.

those who are shouting that loving physically the person u love most is wrong ..i think they dont know actually what love means ... again i must say we need learn to respect LOVE .

if somebody is uncomfortable in sex before marriage then don do it plzzz...n again i must say that u need to be matured enough before deriving to such a decision(having sex or not)

n only giv urself or giv a kiss to someone who really deserves that from u...that matters at the end of day ...if u do it with ur so called husband n the next day you come to know that u hv given ur all to a fraud ..a cheater ...what u r going to feel then ??? the harsh reality is marriage is not the epitome of happiness if you r not with the right person. it wd just crush down into ash when u realise it . So be matured enough n then take decision in every field of life ...it wd help u to protect to a long extent.

Bang on!!! Agree wid every word uv penned down!! Fab post!!

@Arshi Glad u made this post!! Highly sensible n mature post!! U realy mk sense!!!

Originally posted by: punnubaby

Actualy im thinkin exactly opposite!! After their union im kinda assured Antara wl never marry Phatu!! She may nt even marry Raghu!! I won't even b surprised if this union wl lead to Antara's pregnancy track!! Maybe at this point she wd move away frm her family n Raghu sumwer they wd nt b able to reach her!! No wonder Ruksana is brought in Antara's home!! If Antara moves out she wl move out wid a promise frm ruksana that she wd tk cr of her mother n brother in her absence!! I don c Satya-Antara marriage n im relieved!!

First of all i dont read any OS ...though i get a few pm's everyday to read the OS but i really dont hv that much time to read such long posts so i dont hv any idea abt the so called OS which members are talking abt ...


secondly i used the term Lust becaz thats what the makers will portray RanTara as if only few days left in the wedding and they lose themselves to each other...becaz that the mentality which is followed in India that a girl shd not lose her chastity and dignity till she gets married...thats what we hv been taught abt...the most precious thing in a girl's life is her dignity and chastity ...after few days they wud b living under the same roof... if Lust is not the correct word then is the word DESPO i shd use...We know RanTara are such a UNIQUE and Eternal couple ...the makers shd not destroy the beauty and charm of their relationship and lovestory at the name of passion

i think makers are un necessarily bringing this twist in the show ...there is no need for that...they cud easily show RanTara marriage and then separation ...they are trying to make the things more complicated ...

All i want is RanTara marriage ...i hv a fear that if the makers are gonna show PMS track then def RanTara marriage wont happen...and there is a possibility that Satya cud marry ANatara then...


all i can say is that still we dont know whether this track will happen or not as sumtime TC news proves to b fake ...so we shd just ask for RanTara marriage track from the makers ...so i really dont care whats coming next ...i will only ask for RanTara marriage from the makers

and one more thing the new creatives of the show are doing a PATHETIC JOB ,want the old creatives,writers ,dialouge writers back in the show ..

Originally posted by: Bansari7

People (or just the person who does) who call rantara lustful should seriously go and watch only saas bahu dramas, which star plus has a lot of cuz they obviously don't have the mentality to watch a passionate intense couple like raghu and antara

Also they should do some research on the word that they use before using it

well i agrre with you. Some people say thing before thinking and knowing fully about it

Originally posted by: sita11

First of all i dont read any OS ...though i get a few pm's everyday to read the OS but i really dont hv that much time to read such long posts so i dont hv any idea abt the so called OS which members are talking abt ...


secondly i used the term Lust becaz thats what the makers will portray RanTara as if only few days left in the wedding and they lose themselves to each other...becaz that the mentality which is followed in India that a girl shd not lose her chastity and dignity till she gets married...thats what we hv been taught abt...the most precious thing in a girl's life is her dignity and chastity ...after few days they wud b living under the same roof... if Lust is not the correct word then is the word DESPO i shd use...We know RanTara are such a UNIQUE and Eternal couple ...the makers shd not destroy the beauty and charm of their relationship and lovestory at the name of passion

I wouldn't have spoken on his issue if it was not for this comment. Really disheartening to see people still consider virginity as a measure of a girl's character or dignity. India as a nation has grown leaps and bounds , these days we talk of gender equality but we are still stuck in a rut which cages women in some society created parameters. As a nation our history has been full of evidence where the relationship between a man and a woman is celebrated. Marriage or not, it is and should rightly be a girl's call to have sex or not. One might disagree with her choice but no way we have a right to judge it on moral grounds.

You mention how instead of using despo , the term lust was used...may I suggest another one , try-love making. This is what they did and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Passion is not a bad word, it is an expression or an adjective of love. It has no vulgar connotation:-

If someone is passionate for his work- it is considered a good trait.

Similarly someone being passionate in love , just speaks about the intensity of the the relationship not about the physical desires.

How ironical is that we still question the girl and her chastity and never about the boy. Double standards much. Regardless, sex is an expression of love which two people share together , we might not like it but it doesn't make it wrong or sleezy. And this has nothing to do with Indian culture - show me one scripture which has degraded love making. Neither it has to do with contemporary or modern outlook, all everyone here are saying - Don't agree but don't judge.

i think makers are un necessarily bringing this twist in the show ...there is no need for that...they cud easily show RanTara marriage and then separation ...they are trying to make the things more complicated ...

I am sure the CV's have a well thought of idea about this twist. They seem to have a story on their hand, more than marriage which should frown everyone is , how they are going to make a girl love a guy who has been involved in her father's death.

All i want is RanTara marriage ...i hv a fear that if the makers are gonna show PMS track then def RanTara marriage wont happen...and there is a possibility that Satya cud marry ANatara then...

Then your whole argument against PMS track is wrong. You have an objection against her marriage to Satya, great , protest that not bring a moral compass to either of the actors or the characters.


all i can say is that still we dont know whether this track will happen or not as sumtime TC news proves to b fake ...so we shd just ask for RanTara marriage track from the makers ...so i really dont care whats coming next ...i will only ask for RanTara marriage from the makers

and one more thing the new creatives of the show are doing a PATHETIC JOB ,want the old creatives,writers ,dialouge writers back in the show ..

I think as previously stated- the writers , the CV's are all the same. The only change has been the dialogue writer. The serial has undergone a shift from its previous track. Now we are heading towards something which was shown to us in the 1st promo. This is a angst filled love story. I feel if you give time to the CV's and the show it won't disappoint you.

@charmin---------i am not bringing any actors into all this...and i wrote my thoughts ...ok if u say that i shd not judge ...then fine i will not judge but atleast i can give my opinion...as u know that different minds think differently so I agree to Disagee with u at many points...may becaz my thought process is different ...the things which i hv seen around me...the things which i hv been taught ...i speak from that mind frame ...

there is no en dto this discussion i guess...and we are not sure whether this track will b shown or not so fussing on it is of no use for now ...

I am asking For RanTara marriage ...from the makers for now
thats it... ...

Hey all :) im not from india and have grown up in a highly westernized society. Pre marital sex is a part of life where i am from however i do have an indian background and am very religious therefore i do not believe in it. I have the utmost respect from my non indian friends because of my decision and they continue to admire it. I too then return the gesture and treat their decisions with the utmost respect because i live by the notion live and let live... Everyone has different reasons for living the way they do and have a right to do so... Coming back to rantara im sure they hold similar values that we all do but have succumb to a moment of passion.. Not lust... Passion which is an important aspect of love. One who is deeply in love is susceptible to such acts without having any control.

Originally posted by: mjhtgeetfan

Hey all :) im not from india and have grown up in a highly westernized society. Pre marital sex is a part of life where i am from however i do have an indian background and am very religious therefore i do not believe in it. I have the utmost respect from my non indian friends because of my decision and they continue to admire it. I too then return the gesture and treat their decisions with the utmost respect because i live by the notion live and let live... Everyone has different reasons for living the way they do and have a right to do so... Coming back to rantara im sure they hold similar values that we all do but have succumb to a moment of passion.. Not lust... Passion which is an important aspect of love. One who is deeply in love is susceptible to such acts without having any control.

Despite my beliefs i do not feel that this is a bad move for the show... It is after all for entertainment :)

Agree but i just hope the makers are not giving us this tack to compensate for satya and natara marriage in future becaz if satya -anatara marriage will happen this show will b ruined...