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@Humz- you make complete sense Sensei, even Senpai currently meditating amidst beautiful cherry blossoms would agree ;) Forgive my randomness; I am trying to lure the untraceable back from the netherworld. Coming back to your post, oddly enough I've met people from both ends of the spectrum like you mentioned, hopelessly delirious people high on love who have been together for ages and then the contrasting cynic; I see you've chosen words very carefully, the word – as subjective; people's experiences are different and thus the subjectivity but the emotion is as real as you and I.
You may call it companionship, I may call it soul mates, at the end of the day those are mere words – which someone else coined, and it doesn't change the truth behind either of our emotions. We are all seeking for the same thing. A moment of laughter, a hand to hold as we tread our lives…or quoting a dear friend, "we all have the weird sets of emotions that get triggered by the imbalance of hormones..so we have to have an individual that we can be happy with it.."😛😆
A big jhappi for saying – "But my point here is that every individual should be happy in whatever they perceive that word love to be...so if one doesn't succeed once, they should always try again." Aye Aye! For some it may be making chairs, writing poetry..painting, working..the list is endless, but never doubt its existence, it is real! here I go off again on my randomness...sheesh!😆 that's what I feel anyways.
I know eternity is a too big a word and I don't really understand what to make of it honestly. So I prefer to think, whether that reality lasts a moment, an hour or two, two days, two weeks, two months, twenty years or for all our sakes, let's hope an entire lifetime…eternity is yours, hold it close to your heart – cherish it! No matter what it is you love!
I'll copy a few words –
To see a world in a grain of sand,
And a heaven in a wild flower,
Hold infinity in the palm of your hand,
And eternity in an hour.
In an ideal world, there would be no devdas and everyone would be happy. I don't support it either but may be when you invest a lot into something, and it falls apart- it may leave you unable to move..it's unfortunate and we can only hope that each individual is strong enough for his own sake.
If I sound too random– blame it on my coffee..and this awfully long day that started yesterday and refuses to end still 😕
And basically, I meant to say that I agree with you here, even your last bit – I esp. loved your last line, another jhappii 🤗"I guess thats what I define love as..now do I believe it will last, I guess I can always hope it'll last till one of us hits the sack.. " thats the hope really. see, it reaffirms my faith that its essentially the same thing, just worded differently.
All I was trying to say was that, real+reel, are two different things..just as we agree that a lot of what is reel is sugarcoated, a cleverly marketed commodity as Neetz mentioned – I am sure we will agree on the reality of what is real, the emotion. I know I've probably gone off on a completely diff tangent once again, but you know me...my tiny brain is not used to thinking so much about complicated issues..🤓...
@Neetz – I agree with you, on the realities of the commodity that love has become but I also stand by what I wrote to H, it still doesn't change the essence of the real emotion – it's there and very much real may be it just requires a deeper introspection... As far as books, shows, movies are concerned, they are doing their job – working making money; that's why I mentioned Shakespeare in my question, because he was rumored to have had multiple affairs himself, he simply wrote plays to make a living of course he was damn good and undoubtedly passionate about his work too. It's like this big show that's put on but after the curtains are drawn, they pack up, change, lock the auditorium and go home – back to reality, and possibly to a beautiful one filled with love..😳 see I'm a hopeless romantic so😳
I agree though, all those reel distractions paint a vivid picture in our minds…and what is perceived may be a perfect blend of highly dramatized form of reality – pure entertainment..
But I still think, despite all this commercialism, if there is a grain of truth in these fantasies – it's the reality of the emotion itself. It's real - never doubt it…just tread wisely. And give yourself the chance to be happy… like you said, we may fall, we may falter...but we must not give up hope. And that I think sums up my POV. Apologies for going off topic a bit. 😳
Mona i truly agree here and I think now the story seems more realistic and moving forward with people who see life in a way that there is second chance and one can live happily with new relationships and once a couple is married they will try their best to keep with their relationship even if its to start from scratch with i think Ridz is trying to do and Sid is helping her in every way!!😳I loved your post and I am true believer of moving on and second chances in life
what I dont like is people's different view on moving on. I dont want to bang on my head and make this thread a bashing thread but this is what I think about certain level of duality on this and I personally hate double standards in moving on theory, I like SR because of their take on second chances in life and people bashed left right center to those post because Riddhima moved on in absence of her ex, but when it came to male protagonists people waving jhanda of moving on which is quite fishy and confusing if they are actually supporting moving on or just want XYZ be happy...
before I come to second point I just want to make it clear, I am not here to promote SR as I am not their marketing managers they won their fan following on their own, so don't consider the same while reading my second point..
if people truly believed on moving on, then they would have opted and loved SR not hated them.
Originally posted by: CutiePiee4
Though they were in love with each other madly but still they cannot be called eternal lovers because in their love one person(Armaan) was always selfless while the other(Riddhima) was always selfish and demanding....Eternal lovers are not like that; there love is selfless.
