@Aria: I just read your posts, I agree that love the word itself is very subjective to each individual; starting from its inception to the point where it ends,
if it ends. I've met people that flow from both end of the spectrums; a complete love lorn individual to a complete cynic. For whom, this emotion does not exist in the book.
Love, for some mean trusting that indivudual, for some it might mean the whole filmy book-ish romance. But my point here is that every individual should be happy in whatever they perceive that word love to be...so if one doesn't succeed once, they should always try again. I don't buy the whole Devdas thing, nor do I buy the fact that one can be happy by just seeing the other person they were in love with happy. We are all humans, and we all have the weird sets of emotions that get triggered by the imbalance of hormones..so we have to have an individual that we can be happy with it..(That went on a complete different tangent... and random hogwash, A..mind me.. too much caffeine does that to me..😆)
Regards to the eternity bit, again I guess its an individual choice on what they count as eternity..for a complete believer in love a couple of moments spent with that individual might be enough for them, but even then they will move on and find someone else..its a human tendency. I am not a believer in eternity, nor do I believe in eternal love as per say, but I do believe in relationships. I guess thats what I define love as..now do I believe it will last, I guess I can always hope it'll last till one of us hits the sack..😆
I know, none of what I said makes an ounce of sense, too early in the morning...but A, you make sense..its just I am wired in a weird way..😆
Edited by -Edelweiss- - 15 years ago