What's wrong with moving on?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I've been observing this forum for a while. All the 'AR fans' seem to be perturbed by the fact that a new woman would be coming in Armaan's life. Now, my arguement doesn't entail the Sid-Ridhima marriage, my arguement finds it's stems in the question - What's wrong with moving on?
AR suddenly seem to have become some sort of a 'legendary' or 'tragic' couple. To start with, DMG isn't some classic shakespeare romance or literature, it's a fictional show. Second, it's a show about youngsters. These 20-somethings that we're talking about. Each so called 'love' seems like eternal, 'I-can't-live-without-you' kind of relationship. If AR were real, they would laugh at their little fling 10 years hence. I'm not claiming that the new woman in Armaan's life, i.e Shilpa, is his real soulmate, but defenitely a new chapter in his life.
Oh and taking bullets for each other doesn't cement the fact that two people are eternal lovers. How many times have we heard about crazy couples slitting their wrists for each other? Almost every second day.
Hell, we're not even aware of what true love is.
My point is, 'moving on' isn't some sort of shocker. It's realistic. It happens. Just when you feel you've found THE one, the pack of cards falls and it's gone in the wink of an eye. This isn't equivalent to Heer Ranjha, Romeo Juliet, Laila Majnu et al. Let DMG be realistic for a change.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i really hope they show the Armaan -shilpa love story as AMAZINGLY as they showed thhe SIDDHIMA story

the way they showed the transition from riddhima gupta to riddhima modi has been AWESOME.......

i also want the same BRILLIANCE in the KASH track

now i hv full faith in cvs

i m sure they wont screw it up now

Edited by luvarti - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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U go girl!!!!!!!!!!!
I agree with every line of ur post
sanam/ sam
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Posted: 15 years ago
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True, this is a stupid fictional show but ppl make it seem like some legendary love story where one ought to swear their allegiance for eternity. And if one even changes their likings a bit then thou shalt be judged!
Also why can't Armaan move on when Ridhhima very clearly moved on in February???? And yes in real life there's no such thing as eternal love, and come on isn't this show supposed to depict the youth?
To all AR and KaJen fans, KSG himself said that he doesn't blame Ridhhima for moving on b/c alot has happened....well then why can't he move on esp. since his love is someone's wife now and seems very happy about it?
And yes what is true love? Have ppl even experienced it to make such high handed comments on it?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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nothing is wrong with move on for those wishes to do so cos life is all abt picking up the pieces of what is left in one's life and move on with it, not sit and cries over what u cannot have and making sure that those who have cannot be happy.



whatever happen to forget the past and be happy for ur friends huh?


I'm Siddhima fan and I believe that is't time for Armaan to move on too, I mean if Riddhima can be happily married to her Sid why not Armaan?😕


yes guys I know it's very hurtful to not get what u want but that is life for ya......so to say dream does not always come true for everybody.



it's not everybody that start together will for sure end up together.
Edited by .Angel - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Exactly haha people who dont even know what love is, theyve never even fallen in love, give us lessons on what "true love" is!
and really ive been an AR fan too, but whatever Riddhima has moved on and now so should armaan!
Infact in life, u really have to move on, everything wont happen acc to ur choices always! u cant rally be a kid and whine about the same thing again and again!
and whats worse, these people dont want to move on and ones who want to, they'll tag them as traitors LOL so called eternal AR lovers were all MIA in KaSu/KaSh the main base for AR time and now they come and brag about how big a crime is to separate the eternal couple AR! mannnn heights of illogicality! 😕
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Neetu meri bacchi...🤗 Kaisi hai tu??
Now that I am done with being weird, I shall comment on this topic, I just came on line after a few days and finally I see a decent topic of discussion in this forum, or else tau mostly its filled with AR=DMG, without AR=No Air, AR= eternal love and AR this and that. Yadi yada.. Jeez, I wonder if half of them even known what being in a relationship entails. I say relationship and not love, because there is no novelty in the word love, it's worn out; that word has become so saturated, its become stale. And love or being in a relationship does not mean having thousands of eye locks, or trip catch and fall routine every other day.

So back to topic in hand, Neetu, there is nothing called eternal love or tragic or legendary couples, it exists in books and movies. Neetu don't u know that this programme is way above the likes of classic literature, it is way more special and means much more than that, its a way of living for some. But jokes apart, its a blasphemy to compare this **** with the likes of Shakespeare and other classic literature. I pity people if they actually take this show to heart.

Neetu, I have always had problem with people when they use the word eternal, there is nothing forever in this world. And people do move on, they find love again, this funda about loving once is complete BS, if you don't succeed in a relationship first time around, why not give it a second try? If we can fall and get up again, why cant we move on?

And you're right, taking bullets for each other is not love, and since we are talking about realistic, I have seen many couples moving on coz for one reason or other their relationship didn't work out. So I don't suppose why they can't show that in the show. Why everybody is being so persistent in getting AR together, for god sake, they're a fictional couple. Move on...

Can't be bothered to type any more, lost my momentum now..blah blah.. but u know my thoughts about this locha called love.😆

Btw Neetu off topic, but you should definitely watch Rishta.com, if you don't. Its a freaking fabulous show, fab actors, concept and production value. I am sure you'll love it.

🤗
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: vruls

U go girl!!!!!!!!!!!
I agree with every line of ur post
sanam/ sam

Thanks Sam :D
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Posted: 15 years ago
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nothing is wrong with "moving on" that is IF ppl truly haveee moved on...yes, things don't go according to our plans and ppl find others and start to live with them..but when a person who has supposedly "moved on" thinks about their "ex" after intimate moments with their husband..or upon entering their husbands house feels the presence of their "ex" and their romantic track starts accordinggg to the person that has "moved on" then this "moving on" doesn't make anyyy sense and contradicts the phrase of "moving on"
when ppl on...in TRUE meaning...ONLY concentrate on their present.. yes, the past alwayz remainz as a special place in their heart..but they do not call out to them WHENEVER they are in misery...they dont' ALLOW them to come back into their life and guide them with every step.. they don't feel their presence left, right, and in the center... they don't get down on their knees and cry for them either.....
also, it would be VERY MUCH appreciated if ppl stopped ASSUMING that the ppl commenting and feeling SO strongly about AR dunno the meaning of love and have never fallin in love... its okay to have ur povz about a particular topic..but to judge ppl like that, IS NOT okay...
this was my pov..if any of the ppl that are goin to respond to wat i have posted are rude or only mock, then no way imma respond to them.... but if u wanna have a mature discussion, then im completely up for it.... pe@ce...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I can see where you're coming from in this post. And though I'll be saddened by it, I do agree that Armaan does need to move on.
However, I hasten to add, that I can see AR fans to have a valid point. It may be realistic for AR to move on, but I think the 'unrealisticness' (forgive my word invention) was the charm of their relationship. The fact that they loved each other so much was so unrealistic, that it was the very thing that kept you glued to the screen. To many people, AR were and are in the same category as Romeo-Juliet, Heer-Ranjha etc...just of the modern day.
I think the other thing that annoys fans is that after 2 years of AR, in which time fans have become so attached to the characters, it seems pointless to separate them. What's the point of 2 years of AR, if they're not going to be together in the end.
Also, DMG is never realistic! 😆
But on a more serious note, TV shows are there to entertain, and in some cases are mediums by which people can forget reality and escape into a fantasy world. They're hardly ever particularly realistic, because ultimately they provide what the viewers want. And generally speaking, viewers want tales of eternal love, because they're simply so rare and give happy endings. Viewers like happy endings! 😃
The point is: if fictional stories can't even give happy endings, what hope do we have in real life?

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