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Posted: 15 years ago
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Also can I add that each person's perspective will be different..there is NO Right/Wrong answer to this..as each person interprets stuff differently according to the situations at hand!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: bheegi

Yes, Ramsha. I have a very good friend with a very similar story. It is ironical how similar her story is to DMG....she really loved someone in college (both were docs too) with all her heart, but because of parental pressure, she had to marry someone else.

She obliged like an obedient daughter and to this day, is an unhappy girl.She even has kids with her husband who BTW is a gem of a person, but she has never accepted him wholeheartedly. She even tried to commit suicide 7 years after marriage...

Her ex lover is still unmarried but happy with what he does, and has never forgotten her...

That's why I keep harping on why AR should get together...maine aap sab logon se zyaada duniya dekhi hai 😛



100% correct cuz after marriage the only two who have to live together are husband & wife....everyone else goes back to their own life...& there is only one life....so if you have found your love instead of killing urself & ur husband in the name of rituals be with that person....in case of SR since Sid has seen the intensity of love Ridz had for Armaan....he might always question her loyality the way he said once....kya kahta meri biwi kisi aur ko chahti hai....when he decided not to tell his mom abt their marriage very first time...when mom came to their home

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XTqpCBKxzRE&feature=related

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Posted: 15 years ago
#73

Originally posted by: bheegi

Yes, Ramsha. I have a very good friend with a very similar story. It is ironical how similar her story is to DMG....she really loved someone in college (both were docs too) with all her heart, but because of parental pressure, she had to marry someone else.

She obliged like an obedient daughter and to this day, is an unhappy girl.She even has kids with her husband who BTW is a gem of a person, but she has never accepted him wholeheartedly. She even tried to commit suicide 7 years after marriage...

Her ex lover is still unmarried but happy with what he does, and has never forgotten her...

That's why I keep harping on why AR should get together...maine aap sab logon se zyaada duniya dekhi hai 😛



This is close to what i wanted to hear.. but this has really no connection to AR in my opinion. Riddhima can't relate to your friend because she moved on instead of waiting.. It signifies weakness doesn't it?

What is your view on your friend?? Shouldn't she have moved on or you prefer she waits for him all her life?

Thanx a lot sharing your friend's story though.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Amber_x



now wait for someone to call you a 'creative liar'



I wouldn't waste time writing on a post just to lie yaar😆...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -PZlicious-

Just because he deserves her & bonded by this marriage doesn't mean he's the one for her what about feelings??? what about Armaan? why he's always ended up getting worst when he never imagined it would happen in first place?? ... what are we going to prove by who deserves who everyone's going to make conclusions...and why people push us to think we have to accept mariage and its soo wrong if divorce happens hello its fictional show DMG has been illogical since beginning what you expect now?

Real life exmples its not appropriate to put it here but things do happen in real life if creatives would decide something it would be sensible but is DMG creatives so don't expect too much and its for both AR/SR fans



There are thousand of threads to discuss on Armaan's broken-heart condition😊 Plz feel free to post in those topics😛

And Ramsha, me too me too.. I am a sucker for arranged marriage.. Just that I don't wanna discuss my personal life here, otherwise I can say that minus the Sid part, I can relate myself to Ridhima😊 And I don't appreciate people like Armaan much!😛

I am not married yet, and not to be either, unless it's parent's decBut I can surely say, I wont ever go back to my x, regardless of me getting married or not..

And here comes the reason, why I can't understand Ridz's confusion
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ramsha i know another case a girl was forced to marry her bestfriend but she loved someone else.That night she said she doesnt want to do it she doesnt want to she cant her parent said no. She tried working things out nothing worked out and she went back to her ex lover eventually.The girl left him because she knew she still yearned for her ex
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@ Sangeeta Di: <3 You have seen more of the world than some of us here...so you know the importance more...Honestly its better to lead a life where your happy than to have some feeling of regret your whole life..thanks for sharing!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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It all depends the person you married to,
if you are marrying a person with no mood to accept him/her as your spouse then definitely don't go for it and get divorce asap if you;re already in it, but whatever you end up spoiling one more life with you, your spouse.

many ppl discussed real life cases here, but the outcome all depends on persons positivity, circumstances, and will power to make things right, Suicide is the easiest way to walk off all the problems, which I will and can never support, please excuse me but prefer people not give such kind of exmple here, this can backfire.

I will never want my sibling to wait for her ex-beau for her entire life, will pep her up to move on, forcefully NO! Things get nasty sometimes in life but it depends what do you want to see, half glass empty or full.and for me moving on is always better choice than holding back.

PS: No preaching intended, just what I learned from my personal life experiences.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: prerna4rishav



There are thousand of threads to discuss on Armaan's broken-heart condition😊 Plz feel free to post in those topics😛 Sweety its free forum everyone is entitled to thier opinion i don't follow what people tell me to do don't try please do not quote me k thanks😃

And Ramsha, me too me too.. I am a sucker for arranged marriage.. Just that I don't wanna discuss my personal life here, otherwise I can say that minus the Sid part, I can relate myself to Ridhima😊 And I don't appreciate people like Armaan much!😛

I am not married yet, and not to be either, unless it's parent's decBut I can surely say, I wont ever go back to my x, regardless of me getting married or not..

And here comes the reason, why I can't understand Ridz's confusion

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree with the topic maker. DMG track rarely exist in real world though many ppl have said it does exist and tried to give their personal opinion. I have never heard nor experienced such situation till now. I do believe that arrange marriage works better than love marriage in most cases but this does not mean love marriage don't work at all. Another thing is that once ppl move on their life, they don't look back for their ex in real life for sure (especially when someone has husband like Sid).

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