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Posted: 15 years ago

#101

Originally posted by: -YaRa-Forever-
I haven't read all the posts...man I am just too lazy but someone mentioned LAK!!

Well FYI, Jai and Meera's relationship was different than that of AR...Jai and Meera were mature and knew how to handle their relationship and it was their love that made them be friends after they broke up! Jai never asked Meera to forget her marriage for him...!!

That was difference...while here...AR can never be friends after their break up...and like i said before, if they can't be friends even after they break up...their relationship was never strong enough for lifetime!

I was just talking to my friend about a book by Cohello...(the guy who wrote Alchemist...one of the best-sellers world-wide...its an universal novel)...named "Zahir"...well we both haven't read it...but she is firm believer in him and well you can say so am I......and it has very similar story to that of DMG...in that there are husband and wife...and husband goes for 7 years w/o telling anyone...every1 thinks he is dead...and when he returns, he finds out that his wife has married again and is pregnant...

You wanna know his reaction?? He was happy for her...happy that atleast in his absence she got love that she deserves!! He never even once questioned "their" love!!

And if that had been shown btwn AR...I would have gladly followed AR like I did before...and this time around, I would have felt them too!!

*touchwood*

This post and especially the highlighted bit needs to be read by everyone cuz it doesn't hurt to be educated once in a while. Fortunately I have also read that book, and so I can see why you dare to bring it up in the case of DMG. The man left his wife for seven years, but when he returns back, he does NOT question or accuses his lover, which just makes his love profound for her, and 'eternal' if I dare to say. He deserted her to face the cruel world, but upon his return he's satisfied to witness his wife move on and attain the happiness she rightfully deserved which unfortunately he was not able to provide to her.

Now on to DMG - If Armaan had not questioned Riddhima's love or had not accused her of almost committing a crime in his absence, I would have fallen head over heels for their story, and I am not bluffing. This would have been a turning point of their 2 year of amateur love/hate/like relationship. Unfortunately these two are at the same place they began two years back where they still accuse, mistrust, question each other though have apparently been thru thick and thin. Sad it is, and I guess some people are just never meant to be. Unconditional love is not always expecting it back in return, but the way things are shaping up in DMG...oh boy, I rather not comment.

Riddhima can return to Armaan now or at death or can have an affair with him for all I could care, deep down she knows she will NEVER be the same again with Armaan and the sooner the better if he realizes too.

I don't know where Siddhanth lies in it as of now, because the CVs are doing a horrendous job at the moment portraying Riddhima's sentiments toward Siddhanth. We never get a clear vision, but we know there's an eerie bond between the two which ties them together.

Edited by zainab25 - 15 years ago

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Pree

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Posted: 15 years ago

#102

Originally posted by: xoHarshaxo

Before Telling me i shouldn't post these facts i think you need to prove me wrong OKAY? Which you haven't so please refrain from quoting my comments because i don't appricate you trying to prove me wrong.

And if its so Stupid why waste your time reading it? 😕🤣

@ Amber: I disagree with you. A lot of people mistake arranged marriages to mean forced marriages. Arranged simply means your parents/extended family introduces you to a potential partner. It's no different from being set up on a blind date by a friend or a dating agency.

And one more thing, I live in the U.S. and I have seen many desi kids who have been born and raised here opt for arranged marriages. They certainly have the option to fall in love and then get married but you'd be surprised at how many happily agree and even ASK to have an arranged marriage. And let me assure you, they work out beautifully because people don't just want love but security in their relationship as well. Again, love is not the be all and end all when it comes to marriage.

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Blessing

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Posted: 15 years ago

#103

Originally posted by: zainab25
Ramsha, honey, everyone apparently has a story somehwere in their mind to justify AR...it's just they wouldn't want to share it, because they aren't exactly sure what itis as it's still cooking up in their brains. When a fictional tale is rendered in their minds with added masala and jazz, then they will come and share. Wait for a few more hours, and just wait for clone copies of KANK plots. Heights of creativity, I tell ya! 😊😊😊

i was going to say the same thing but thought to finish reading the whole pages to see if there is an ar fans who actually came out to say something real and true other than copying and pasting each other lies/make up stories but I'm guessing none🤣🤣

anyway I do have real story to tell and I'm not saying this because I like sr better than ar I'm saying this because it happened and i'm gladly saying it out because even though the person I'm talking about was crying her life out begging her father not to do this her she is the one praying and thanking her mom and dad now for knowing what was best for her because she now will rather die than leaving her husband and whenever she sees her ex coming in front of her she make a u turn to other side not because she is scared that her husband may not like/want her to be talking to her ex lover but because she can not believe that she was once stupidly in love with someone like him at one point in time.

so yes something like this does happen in real and when/if it happen with man or woman with good working brain unlike ridz they make the best out of the situation by shorting the door of their past and welcome their future with an open arms and clear mind.

Edited by they used-him - 15 years ago

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monar

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Posted: 15 years ago

#104

Originally posted by: zainab25
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This post and especially the highlighted bit needs to be read by everyone cuz it doesn't hurt to be educated once in a while. Fortunately I have also read that book, and so I can see why you dare to bring it up in the case of DMG. The man left his wife for seven years, but when he returns back, he does NOT question or accuses his lover, which just makes his love profound for her, and 'eternal' if I dare to say. He deserted her to face the cruel world, but upon his return he's satisfied to witness his wife move on and attain the happiness she rightfully deserved which unfortunately he was not able to provide to her.

Now on to DMG - If Armaan had not questioned Riddhima's love or had not accused her of almost committing a crime in his absence, I would have fallen head over heels for their story, and I am not bluffing. This would have been a turning point of their 2 year of amateur love/hate/like relationship. Unfortunately these two are at the same place they began two years back where they still accuse, mistrust, question each other though have apparently been thru thick and thin. Sad it is, and I guess some people are just never meant to be. Unconditional love is not always expecting it back in return, but the way things are shaping up in DMG...oh boy, I rather not comment.

Riddhima can return to Armaan now or at death or can have an affair with him for all I could care, deep down she knows she will NEVER be the same again with Armaan and the sooner the better if he realizes too.

I don't know where Siddhanth lies in it as of now, because the CVs are doing a horrendous job at the moment portraying Riddhima's sentiments toward Siddhanth. We never get a clear vision, but we know there's an eerie bond between the two which ties them together.

Yep if any one dare to read Zahir over Mills and Boon, kidding nothing personal to anyone...

one of the Quotes of Paulo Coelho which is my personal fav too -

"When we least expect it, life sets us a challenge to test our courage and willingness to change; at such a moment, there is no point in pretending that nothing has happened or in saying that we are not ready. The challenge will not wait. Life does not look back. A week is more than enough time for us to decide whether or not to accept our destiny."

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b.sandhu

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Posted: 15 years ago

#105

Zainab25
Now on to DMG - If Armaan had not questioned Riddhima's love or had not accused her of almost committing a crime in his absence, I would have fallen head over heels for their story, and I am not bluffing. This would have been a turning point of their 2 year of amateur love/hate/like relationship. Unfortunately these two are at the same place they began two years back where they still accuse, mistrust, question each other though have apparently been thru thick and thin. Sad it is, and I guess some people are just never meant to be. Unconditional love is not always expecting it back in return, but the way things are shaping up in DMG...oh boy, I rather not comment.[/P]

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<p>I don't know where Siddhanth lies in it as of now, because the CVs are doing a horrendous job at the moment portraying Riddhima's sentiments toward Siddhanth. We never get a clear vision, but we know there's an eerie bond between the twowhich ties them together. [/DIV]

I totally agree especially with the highlighted part; to ME Riddima and Armaan's relationship never had mutual trust. They are never able to talk to one another, they just wildly accuse and yell at each other for the decisions or actions the other has taken and for that reason I just can't see their relationship sustain, because to ME what event should've helped bring them closer has only taken them farther apart.

Cheers:)

Edited by b.sandhu - 15 years ago

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Sanober

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Posted: 15 years ago

#106

Sorry Ramsha to interupt, but posting personal things isnt so good.. dony you think so.. some members would only post little facts about your topic.

Please Members, dont argue with each other as it wont go anywhere.:)

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