Any real examples of this situation?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Random topic but clearly people are going on and on about how Riddhima should follow her heart fully only or fullfill her yearning for Armaan and divorce Sid and go hug and kiss Armaan.

Does anyone have any real life examples of such situations? Like where you are married and your lover suddenly shows up after leaving you and you run back to them despite of you knowing you can/have a peaceful life with your husband.

Apparently marriage is not a kiddish play that you can break it off with such situations which are currently shown in DMG like your lover is back so you say hey lets run back to him like the husband was just a toy.

How much fair was/will it be on the husband? How sensible or foolish was/will it be?

And tell me how many of you would give out such advices outside in the real world if such situation happens when you yourself know the person you are telling the advice to has a gem of a husband.. I REPEAT Sid is not a saint and that does not make him negative or a bad husband or unfaithful.

But anyways i don't want to get in there so yeah tell me such situations if you have any?

PLEASE give me proper and real facts.. i am not someone who's arguments are based on fake fantasy facts.

I don't care if this is a show.. i need real facts please incase you go off topic but please don't!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I actually do.... but I don't really want to mention it. :/

My cousin went through 2 marriages. First - an arranged marriage. Second, she went back to her ex-boyfriend. Now, how she got there, and why, I don't really want to talk about 'cause it's not my business to do so...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I do as a matter of fact.. but its too personal to discuss it on a forum.. esp where everyone is ever ready to jump on each other😆


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Posted: 15 years ago
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@ramsha totally agree with what u said!!

And tell me how many of you would give out such advices outside in the real world if such situation happens when you yourself know the person you are telling the advice to has a gem of a husband.. I REPEAT Sid is not a saint and that does not make him negative or a bad husband or unfaithful.

Forget advice, I would never do it myself.. after getting married to a good husband and after being commited to the marriage!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I do Ramsha the girl remained married with the guy hoping things will work out but it dint she was in love with her ex.
She finally got back with her ex after 2 years of suffering

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Posted: 15 years ago
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@ Ramsha:

Frankly, I had supported AR even without feeling anything for them when i re-started watching this show! Because whatever, I felt that since ridz doesn't feel for Sid...it is better for her to go with armaan...coz if she remained w/ sid, it would ruin three lives...

But after this one week, my opinion has changed. Yes, I would still advice my friend if she loves her lover to leave her husband...especially because her husband would have been way too good!

But here, it was armaan saying...and I think it was selfish on his part...tht is why I am liking Sid who has set ridz free to make her own decision and follow her heart! He respects her...and that is what I believe is true love...and ridz feels sid...she so does, but she is blinded by armaan's presence...and that is what I believe...because umm she has had some intimate moments with him...and ofcourse "thought" that it was love...which basically was not (from my POV)...so knowing all this, I wouldn't advice my friend at all!

And being a lover, I don't think I have right to tell whomever I love to leave her husband/wife for our love...because it would be selfish on my part...I would rather let her follow her heart!😳😳😳

PS: Did armaan say this?? From your post it seems he did but I dont know if he did...coz I didn't watch AR scene!😛
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Okay All i am going to say is ....

Arragned Marriages work Far better off then Love Marriages.

You can search it up anywhere you want. Love Marriages don't work For a long time.
Edited by xoHarshaxo - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: xoHarshaxo

Okay All i am going to say is ....

Arragned Marriages work Far better off then Love Marriages.

You can search it up anywhere you want. Love Marriages don't work For a long time.



This is probably the most stupid thing i've heard.
arranged marriages work for people because the ones who DO get into them have no choice of the big D word sweety, that in NO way means they work better than loved ones.
and in desi world the ones who have the guts to fight for their love and go ahead with the marriage, CAN think of the D word if needed. so PLEASE stop stating such facts.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Amber_x



This is probably the most stupid thing i've heard.
arranged marriages work for people because the ones who DO get into them have no choice of the big D word sweety, that in NO way means they work better than loved ones.
and in desi world the ones who have the guts to fight for their love and go ahead with the marriage, CAN think of the D word if needed. so PLEASE stop stating such facts.



Before Telling me i shouldn't post these facts i think you need to prove me wrong OKAY? Which you haven't so please refrain from quoting my comments because i don't appricate you trying to prove me wrong.

And if its so Stupid why waste your time reading it? 😕🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: xoHarshaxo



Before Telling me i shouldn't post these facts i think you need to prove me wrong OKAY? Which you haven't so please refrain from quoting my comments because i don't appricate you trying to prove me wrong.

And if its so Stupid why waste your time reading it? 😕🤣



because you know what you said is afghan mentality...so i actually DID prove you wrong hence the reason you telling me not to quote you again 😆

aight m done with you 🤣

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