8/02 - Sid-Riddz-Shanky Promo - Honour is suicidal - Page 13

Originally posted by: eveline

hey arzoo,...its not only you..each and every one of us must be facing some or the other issues in life..i m pretty sure of that..n we all find solace n strength from this harmless forum, we say whats in our minds n hearts fearlessly coz here friends will listen, understand n not judge for me its easier to say and for u impossible to live.

.we stand by each other, we have learend sooo much here..as for me i can say that this is a very special and secret and integral part of me that i share here

any time we all will be here for you...thats a promise...right gurlz...speak u
yeah true!!!!!! your name is sana right? we all are there for you. though it may sound weird that i am a newbie and i don't know everybody as all of you know each other.but my heart goes out for you and i salute you for you have faced all this even if you really don't like it. if i had been in your place i don't know what would have i done?yes! we all are with you!!! 😊😛😃

Edited by shihij07 - 15 years ago

@ Shru - I am speechless at how well you have presented your POV👏👏👏 I agree with each and every word of yours😛

awesome post nitzie di!..thats so true..

Originally posted by: Starry_night

Hey nitzy,
What a thought provoking post !!!!👏

I seriously don't understand why people always look at a guy and a girl as if they did something wrong even if they are just friends and all...I agree things have changed to some extent and people are more open to such things these days but still somewhere these things are still not accepted by many people. Even if a girl has not done anything wrong the society blacklists her and her parents are taunted and all.....while a guy can easily get away with anything he wants. And also if they are upto something I think its their personal matter and society should not have a say in that.....I mean what are the parents and family for....they are the ones who give proper guidance.....the others just want some spicy stuff to gossip about. People should learn to live and let live.

Originally posted by: sri_4

Nthng much to say after u said so much...

and u deserve a 👏

u have analysed sid-rids-shanky promo n have taken it to a very different level....

and to end all i can say is we live in a society which always make us to "compromise" even if we dont like it.....

"society"..love it or hate it..we cant "ignore" it..

but still i say that at end it "u" who need to take a correct decision..........

great post nitica,,,,,something different from u :) !!!!!

sri:-)

Originally posted by: *Shruti*

Your favorite freak Shruti fruity is here🤗🤗

Great topic Nitz👏👏............Fruity!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Kahaan thi tum ? Kahaan thi tum?

After reading yesterday's update and watching the promo the question that ran in my mind was have we as society really changed. We say India is progressing, we are ahead in this that but has our way of thinking as a society actually changed?

A girl and a boy if are good friends and often seen together the news about something brewing between them spreads like fire. People are more interested to see what is happening in other's house rather than their own. A women has to go through much more than a man. If a man and a women spend night together means something definitely has to happen between them. You will see girl/women getting teased, raped, beaten and people around stand there and watch all this. Many of them don't interrupt thinking who will get into the trouble.

Fruity , that is the pathetic condition of our society where everyone lives a cocooned life - careless and insensitive towards people when help is needed but the first ones to gossip, bitch and poke when the same people are on hard times.


If a girl's engagement/marriage is broken family thinks who will marry/re-marry her while society would say there will be something wrong the girl did bcoz of which this happened and how the entire family has to suffer bcoz of her deeds. We can't forget whenever a relationship breaks it is the girl who has to suffer the most. Even if boy is wrong all the blame comes on the girl.


Agreed. In our society , every single damn thing that goes wrong in a relationship is because of a woman. A man is washed in dettol since birth.

If a husband cheats on his wife some sympathize with her while some say there would be some "kami" in the girl that her husband did this. If a guy has an affair he will not be questioned but if same mistake is committed by a girl she is reminded of how she has crossed her "maryada" Why these double standards?

Because women are supposed to be these FORGIVING PRISTINE SAINTS who cannot go wrong but they must forgive every wrong. Even controlling a man's carnal instincts is a woman's responsibility. Can you believe that? 😡


Even today a newborn girl is killed thinking she would ruin the family's honour once she grows up. Honour killing in the name of family respect and reputation getting tarnished is nothing new.

That makes me fill up with disgust and sardonic humour..... every man is borne of a woman but a woman must not be born? 😕

Coming to present scenario, Riddhima honour is at stake. As a father Shashnak is thinking what is future of her daughter. People won't look at her the same way they use to earlier after whatever happened. What can be done to save her honour get her married to Sid so that noone can point fingers at her and he can shut everyone's mouth. In all this process he is forgetting what will happen to lives of Siddhant and Riddhima after this. Two people Riddhima who hates Sid and Sid who finds himself responsible for whatever happened getting married. What will their future be?

That is the whole issue. Sid and Riddhima will end up being victims of this society - just to cover Riddhima's honour , all hell will break loose in their lives. How far and how much can Sid handle Riddhima , I have no idea.

Sadly they are not being asked about their decision. They will have to do what is being told to them as they would be reminded what people (society) will say, they have to live in a society and live according to society's terms and conditions and not their own.

A truth that I have a grudge against.