I don't want Vikrant with Aditi either - Page 2

Originally posted by: rouble_lover

Are you seriously KIDDING ME??!! 🤢 Because of such mentalities, Indian society is still stuck in the Stone Age! Aditi lives in a loveless marriage, where she gets rejected by her husband, every single day!!! A woman like that lacks reality and self respect BiG TIME!! For staying with someone who doesn’t give a fudge about her!! And you are saying you FEEL for her??! For what?! For getting such a husband?! She walked into this marriage knowing the truth, she chose this for herself! How can you sympathize with a woman who was so blind to reality??!

The creatives had an opportunity to show how to walk away from a dignity-less marriage. V and D story is a different take, whether they get together or that, that’s not the focus.. but to wrap Aditi’s character.. showing her be desperate when rejected left and right.. shows she doesn’t respect herself enough! That’s not the kind of role model a girl should grow up to be! Supporting this, is disrespectful!


Deepika may wish things work out for her, but she definitely shows boundaries, and stays by it! Unlike Aditi!

I beg to differ on just one thing. If the marriage was so loveless ,den how come they ended up being pregnant and were happy about it ?? Does dt happen in a loveless marriage ?

The way your scales are .....by those standards most of our parents and grandparents should hv divorced too. Not everyone has dreams of being a romantic marriage. Sometimes people marry for companionship and children and stability in life. From where I see it , Aditi loves Vikrant after being in a marriage for 10yrs. While I agree dt at this point she should probably move out of the marriage but I do not for once believe she was in a totally undignified marriage. A kid brings people closer , believe it or not. Dt happened to V and A.....but it fell apart. So can you blame her if she wants to give her marriage a second chance ??

And according to you Aditi suffering bcz of her choice . Fair enough. So wasnt the marriage Vikrant's choice as well ? Wasnt breaking the marriage Deepika's choice as well ? So why should just one out of the 3 suffer the consequences of the bad decisions made by 3 people ??? Atleast Aditi she stands by her decision.

Just to put up one woman ,you are putting down another. Not every woman is the same and not every woman is supposed to have same definitions of a successful marriage.

Originally posted by: PUMMY5

Lol....

Seriously what did Aditi do to Deepika.

Tell her a few home truths, filled in the gaps left by Vikrant.

So what if She wants to protect and save her Marriage,, which Deepika is breaking.

Instead I would say that I felt fir Aditi and not Deepika.

Beg to differ - Deepika is not breaking the marriage . Vikrant is breaking .

And if a marriage can be broken by a third party without involvement of the married ones then it is not a marriage at all.

What i understand that :

Vikrant should not have denied Deepika her career as a surgeon.

Vikrant should not have married just for the sake of taking revenge on Deepika .

Vikrant was wrong not to be honest with his drug addiction .

Aditi should not have brought personal frustration, feelings and hatred into the hospital. By manipulating patients she proved that she does not deserve to be a doctor .

Aditi is not a good person , just a good wife. I have no sympathy for her .

I don't find any such misdeeds from Deepika's side. She is a honest person and never cheated anyone.

She is a very honest professional and a good doctor .

Deepika loved Vikrant but not enough to throw away her own career and ambition at his feet.

She has continued loving Vikrant and only responded to his advances when she was sure of it from Vikrant's side .

When makers understood that Aditi's character is getting too negative , they brought the daughter angle into the story so that viewers and Deepika can sympathize with her .

Hence , after everything , PC supported Deepika which boosted her moral and strength .

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I beg to differ on just one thing. If the marriage was so loveless ,den how come they ended up being pregnant and were happy about it ?? Does dt happen in a loveless marriage ?

The way your scales are .....by those standards most of our parents and grandparents should hv divorced too. Not everyone has dreams of being a romantic marriage. Sometimes people marry for companionship and children and stability in life. From where I see it , Aditi loves Vikrant after being in a marriage for 10yrs. While I agree dt at this point she should probably move out of the marriage but I do not for once believe she was in a totally undignified marriage. A kid brings people closer , believe it or not. Dt happened to V and A.....but it fell apart. So can you blame her if she wants to give her marriage a second chance ??

And according to you Aditi suffering bcz of her choice . Fair enough. So wasnt the marriage Vikrant's choice as well ? Wasnt breaking the marriage Deepika's choice as well ? So why should just one out of the 3 suffer the consequences of the bad decisions made by 3 people ??? Atleast Aditi she stands by her decision.

Just to put up one woman ,you are putting down another. Not every woman is the same and not every woman is supposed to have same definitions of a successful marriage.

sleeping together does not mean love! A man can sleep with a woman for the sake of having a child, but have no feelings for her. What sharing a physical body means to a girl it can be different to a man! It’s pure physical to a guy in such cases. Vikrant wanted to find and give meaning to his marriage by having a kid, but he never loved Aditi! Nor did he ever accept her wholeheartedly! So here Aditi just wants to hang onto this marriage for the sake of it. She is delusional. She wants to keep fighting for this marriage, try for another baby, when Vikrant feels drained from it. If he loved her, he would have supported her. Things became hard for him to be close to Aditi after losing his infant. Vikrant wanted to start afresh but life didn’t allow him that. It’s sad in all ends. I’m not putting Aditi down, but what she did with Deepika and Vikrant also wasn’t right.

Originally posted by: rouble_lover

sleeping together does not mean love! A man can sleep with a woman for the sake of having a child, but have no feelings for her. What sharing a physical body means to a girl it can be different to a man! It’s pure physical to a guy in such cases. Vikrant wanted to find and give meaning to his marriage by having a kid, but he never loved Aditi! Nor did he ever accept her wholeheartedly! So here Aditi just wants to hang onto this marriage for the sake of it. She is delusional. She wants to keep fighting for this marriage, try for another baby, when Vikrant feels drained from it. If he loved her, he would have supported her. Things became hard for him to be close to Aditi after losing his infant. Vikrant wanted to start afresh but life didn’t allow him that. It’s sad in all ends. I’m not putting Aditi down, but what she did with Deepika and Vikrant also wasn’t right.

How can you claim there wasnt any love or affection ???? Have been there in their life for 10 years ?? Have you seen them through the 10 years? No . What you hear and believe is what Vikrant says . Why cant you believe what Aditi says for once ?? Your opinion is biased. You only want to believe Vikrant's perspective.

And yes you are putting Aditi down. When she was the one who has been wronged the most in this power play between Vikrant and Deepika. They were the ones who had their chance ,they were the ones who destroyed it , they are the ones who decided to separate and get a new life and now they are the ones who want everything for themselves.

Both of them are utterly SELFISH....dts what they are.

And yes sleeping together doesnt mean love but marriage is something people uphold. If you cannot commit , you shouldnt marrry at all. Why ruin someone's life like dt.

Vikrant married Aditi so she could slave around for him , give him comfort in bed and do his biddings while he achieved a successful career. And now dt dts done ,he wants to kick her out. He is no victim. What he is ....is a lying , manipulative , deceitful , selfish , arrogant man for whom women are play things. Dts him.

Exactly my point.

The Writers have shown Aditi from the beginning, the typical Indian housewife desperate to save her Marriage, and have sadly made her this way, so now everyone is viewing her as a negative person, and just want her to end her Marriage so that the cheaters Deepika and Vikrant can move on.

Aditi even challenged Vikrant that he was cheating her and She would have been no the wiser if She had not arrived when She did.

Vikrant admitted himself that he had a good job and life in Delhi when he was Interviewed but changed his happy life to loveless Marriage when he saw Deepika in the Carpark.

Again the idea to look at Marriage through rose tinted glasses and seeing only love is not right.

There is more to Marriage than love etc comes Children and extended Family etc, sometimes sadly I cannot see Deepika fulfilling at all, She is a dedicated Surgeon, nothing wrong with it at all.

But if we follow the negative trend towards Aditi, as s3en in the comments here is shocking, that trying to save her Marriage, than who knows our Parents etc would have divorced due to there being no Love etc and engaged on EMA but they did not and maintained the value of Marriage etc. not everyone get married for love but many are arranged Marriages with everyone taken in to consideration when Parents fix Marriages etc.

Point to note that not all Marriages are successfully be it love it arranged.

But from what we know of Vikrant, a leopard never changes his spots that his and Deepika's marriage will be successfully. Love is not everything in a marriage.

We are not only seeing it from Vikrant's eyes, Aditi herself said that V never loved her. He always loved Deepika. Deepika may have loved V all along but never tried to come into his life.

Unfortunately, why I hate women like Aditi, she is self-sufficient, a pathologist, and can stand on her own. She doesn't need to go that low. Even now, after Deepika sacrificed everything, she comes to D and accuses her. Even if D goes away from her life for the next 5 years and She lives with V, she will accuse D after 5 years that she has a loveless life due to D. She tried to humiliate D in front of a patient, where due to A's stupid decision, the cancer patient could have lost her life. Not only she is a shame to her profession, but she is also very low-minded woman.

Originally posted by: babu2008

We are not only seeing it from Vikrant's eyes, Aditi herself said that V never loved her. He always loved Deepika. Deepika may have loved V all along but never tried to come into his life.

Unfortunately, why I hate women like Aditi, she is self-sufficient, a pathologist, and can stand on her own. She doesn't need to go that low. Even now, after Deepika sacrificed everything, she comes to D and accuses her. Even if D goes away from her life for the next 5 years and She lives with V, she will accuse D after 5 years that she has a loveless life due to D. She tried to humiliate D in front of a patient, where due to A's stupid decision, the cancer patient could have lost her life. Not only she is a shame to her profession, but she is also very low-minded woman.

Aditi also said that Vikrant loved her when she was preganant wid their kid . Did you not hear that part ???

What wrong did Aditi say to Deepika ? If someone actually wants to sacrifice and do something good for someone else it should be done wholeheartedly. If Deepika had so much good will she should hv never mentioned to Vikrant about Aditi visiting her. She should have just let him go and said nothing. Or dont leave him. But Deepika just wanted to show off dt she is good and not actually help Aditi.

And being a doctor myself I dont think dts what Aditi did. Its a conflict of opinion. Her opinion might hv been wrong but dt happens a lot. Two different people can have two different line of treatment for the same case. How else do you think drugs are invented or new treatment lines discovered or how vaccines come into play ??? It happens when people try to do something new. They might not be correct always but it isnt wrong either.

Oh btw Deepika hiding Vikrant's drug addiction is a crime ......a crime against her profession and a crime against all patients as well. And this is an actual crime. Punishable.

And Vikrant is a criminal who should be behind the bars in real life. Operating on people while being high on opiods is a criminal offense. But Deepika not only didnt report him ,she helped him cover it and didnt even send him on a sabbatical. Isse bada crime hai hi nai.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Aditi also said that Vikrant loved her when she was preganant wid their kid . Did you not hear that part ???

What wrong did Aditi say to Deepika ? If someone actually wants to sacrifice and do something good for someone else it should be done wholeheartedly. If Deepika had so much good will she should hv never mentioned to Vikrant about Aditi visiting her. She should have just let him go and said nothing. Or dont leave him. But Deepika just wanted to show off dt she is good and not actually help Aditi.

And being a doctor myself I dont think dts what Aditi did. Its a conflict of opinion. Her opinion might hv been wrong but dt happens a lot. Two different people can have two different line of treatment for the same case. How else do you think drugs are invented or new treatment lines discovered or how vaccines come into play ??? It happens when people try to do something new. They might not be correct always but it isnt wrong either.

Oh btw Deepika hiding Vikrant's drug addiction is a crime ......a crime against her profession and a crime against all patients as well. And this is an actual crime. Punishable.

And Vikrant is a criminal who should be behind the bars in real life. Operating on people while being high on opiods is a criminal offense. But Deepika not only didnt report him ,she helped him cover it and didnt even send him on a sabbatical. Isse bada crime hai hi nai.

so you are saying, a patient with a serious condition like cancer, THIRD STAGE with the disease spreading, should be held to be a lab rat allowing the disease to spread, when the outcome would be unknown for the treatment is an acceptable form of action for you??!! As a doctor yourself how can you talk like that??! You’ll risk a serious patient like that, just to see what lab results are garnered??! Wow!
That’s scary!

Originally posted by: rouble_lover

so you are saying, a patient with a serious condition like cancer, THIRD STAGE with the disease spreading, should be held to be a lab rat allowing the disease to spread, when the outcome would be unknown for the treatment is an acceptable form of action for you??!! As a doctor yourself how can you talk like that??! You’ll risk a serious patient like that, just to see what lab results are garnered??! Wow!
That’s scary!

I am not saying that one should allow the disease to spread or that is acceptable. I said its debatable. Sometimes the cure for last stage of cancer is not surgery. Honestly most cancers in their last stages are either treated by radiotherapy or chemotherapy bcz at that stage it becomes incurable otherwise. Infact when cancers metastasize most Docs opt for chemo or radio NOT surgery. Here just bcz Deepika is a surgeon , the answer for everything is surgery😆

Immunotherapy is also a known method of treatment like chemo and radio are. And it is a field of research in some diseases. And it is done on utmost care. Patients are not lab rats. There are protocols for that in place on how to do it and when to stop or start.

Also its not done to see lab results , its done for patient benefit . Sometimes patients benefit more from new line of treatment than known ones. Every treament has its risks and benefits .

What I said is Aditi had her opinion . Its not like she wanted to kill the patient. She had said as I recall ....many of her patients had benefitted from that . So it wasnt unknown. So its an alternative debatable treatment option. It should have been discussed wid other senior doctors and best treatment optn decided wid the patient's consent.

PS : When you have no idea how medical field works , den please dont question my profession or professional opinion. A mere tv show which isnt even 10% medically relevant or accurate doesnt give you any right to question my profession. You cant even derive 1 % knowledge of how treatments works by just watching tv shows. Its much more vast.

Dts it. I am done arguing wid you. Coz its futile. I dont want to be questioned on my profession on the basis of fictional shows and characters. My actual degree and patients are testimonials to dt.