Accepting bitter truth in life! Right?

There are circumstances or norms in life that forces you to take actions that are not right ideally but you anyways you take it as it is required by working societal structure.

Scenarios:

1. Even thought one is against bribe but give it to police clearing ur passport to get approval for them in 1 month as comapred to 3 years.

2. One is against dowry but support your cousins asking dowry, as elders believe so and you cann't do anything about it. Society norm.

3. One is against reseveration but if open seat got reservations one ould just keep quiet and take it instead of refusing it for the sake of euality.

4. While doing any Govt related work, paying money to clerks even though you dislike corruption.

So what's u r take on

One has to do things even thought not right following the norms set by society OR u will rebel and fight for it? Also, is following principles always makes sense?

PS - reality check ... speak your mind.

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

uffff...itnee raat gaye itna bhayankar topic...Raj, will post my comments tomorrow. this one needs some thinking. ummmm...waisey bhi, tumhey bhi toh kau baar agree na kartey huye bhi apna danda ghumana padta hai masoom mambers per 😉 😆

I agree, Gaur's high time we should take some rest...lolsss. my POV are justified per circumstances cannot be equated wrong. Its in accordance of benefit of what I preach, finally😉😆

Originally posted by: raunaq

dowry topic, no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no and no

@ the post in general, let me make it short, you will see this all time round, unfortunately certain issues can be tolerated while certain issues you need to think about making an end it to, thats life

So taking decisions that might be wrong in broder picture but justified per current circumstances are right thing to do?

Originally posted by: raj5000

So taking decisions that might be wrong in broder picture but justified per current circumstances are right thing to do?

Originally posted by: raj5000

I agree, Gaur's high time we should take some rest...lolsss. my POV are justified per circumstances cannot be equated wrong. Its in accordance of benefit of what I preach, finally😉😆

always PC eh😉😆

Originally posted by: raunaq

certain things are not in your hand, i dont know how certain people respond to those issues, i know about dowry issue and thats a big no in my opinion, it doesnt matter if a girl stays spinster her whole life .

Not in One's hand then one might go against norms?

i was shocked at one of your points, clerks get paid more? i thought the other way round high management would consume the money leaving peanuts for their clerks 😕

Higher management get paid for bigger tasks but small things Clerk are paid.. under the table

@bolded part, i really cant make judgement, i will straddle the point. No worries, appreciate ur reponse, as always Raunu😊

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

always PC eh😉😆

😆 nah, why cornering me 😭😭 abeit can justify logically on each point. Can we take this ofline or on Much kuch kehna hai post...😃

Originally posted by: raj5000