Is it Necessary?

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Is it Necessary to have a man/Girl in ur life? After a certain age, it is wise to settle your house, get married, enjoy life wid ur man/girl, have childrens, etc!

But, i m on abt a 12 - 20 years old! Is it good to have a Bboyfriend/Girlfriend? Would u be able to concentrate on ur studies after going out? WHY do u need a patner at this age? U knw that u r going to have a patner after some certain age so WHY going out now???

Does it mean that v all r scared of living alone, & thats d reason that v need some one to protect us? OR is it beacuse u want to show off to the world saying that I have a boyfriend/girlfriend! Is Boyfriend/Girlfriend a time pass?

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Anoli

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you can survive without a BF or GF during 12-20 years range. Well i am not sure about 18-20 yrs if ppl can. Sometimes you feel or realize that need to have that someone in our life.

It is absolutely unnecessary.

Instead, one can focus on your life as an adolescent and its priorities such as
1)studies, & beginning to explore career options (12-16)
2)giving enough time to pursue hobbies,
3)making friends (not gf/bf),
4)learning to be responsible and to take wise decisions

For the fortunate ones of us, family is a great suport system and hence, there is no need of a gf/ bf. Your close freinds can provide the same w/o entangling in a relationship.
Any relationship comes with responsibility. I don't think 12-18 is an age to bear it. Early distraction, irrational decision-making and loss of innocence can leave life-long scars on one's personality, career and hence life!

not 12-20....!!thts too young....i mean this age group have their parents to look after them...
but after abt 23-28,29....u need a partner to take each step forward along with urs..its not some issue like we cnt do anything without them...but yes...we do need them...as much as they need us. 😉

Originally posted by: hira_187

you can survive without a BF or GF during 12-20 years range. Well i am not sure about 18-20 yrs if ppl can. Sometimes you feel or realize that need to have that someone in our life.

Okay!!!

ws so special abt 18 - 20?😕

One of my mate got engaged & she is just 17! I was 😲

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Anoli

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Originally posted by: rose82

not 12-20....!!thts too young....i mean this age group have their parents to look after them...
but after abt 23-28,29....u need a partner to take each step forward along with urs..its not some issue like we cnt do anything without them...but yes...we do need them...as much as they need us. 😉

Marriage patner😊 After 20, ppl get married to settle!😊

How do u knw that they need us?😉😆

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Anoli

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Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

It is absolutely unnecessary.

Instead, one can focus on your life as an adolescent and its priorities such as
1)studies, & beginning to explore career options (12-16)
2)giving enough time to pursue hobbies,
3)making friends (not gf/bf),
4)learning to be responsible and to take wise decisions

For the fortunate ones of us, family is a great suport system and hence, there is no need of a gf/ bf. Your close freinds can provide the same w/o entangling in a relationship.
Any relationship comes with responsibility. I don't think 12-18 is an age to bear it. Early distraction, irrational decision-making and loss of innocence can leave life-long scars on one's personality, career and hence life!

Excately! But now-a-dayz, i dont think ppl think of their family as much as they do for der bf's/gf's!!!😳

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Anoli

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I think that when you feel that you actually need someone in your life, just because your friends or someone slse has one- your not comfforatble with yourself. If your a strong and independent person you can survive, but some ppl need to be with some one, there just like that. but i think that before you get into a relationship, are you doing it because you love the person, or just for the hell of having some one to call a "B" or a "GF"...becuase you cant die if your single...alot of ppl are

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Originally posted by: Anoli

Okay!!!

ws so special abt 18 - 20?😕

One of my mate got engaged & she is just 17! I was 😲

Take Care

Anoli

xxx

Well i see in college that alot of people are mostly in need of a BF or GF. and that they start searching for their significant other. this is in NYC that i see. That is wat i seen. But i think getting engaged or It kind of distracts u from school and other things.

yet there are some ppl who are so anxious to be married already. Two of my friends got married at the age of 17!!

At any age what you really need is a friend, it does not matter if it is the same or opposit sex as you. Romance is not the only reason to befriend people. So the answer is yes it is necessary to have a person or persons in your life to share the good and bad, to grow up with, and bond. Romance does not have to be the only motive or the be all and it all of all relationships. 😎😎