What is it with Intimacy? - Page 4

Originally posted by: falak01

first of all a bigg thanx 4 opening this topic...we all needed it....yea...rach had opened it at Perfect time...

oh god give me a break...ppl have opened topic and questioning the "intimacy" and calling it vulgar??😲😲....truly evn i ws shockd to c some topics..jee toh kar raha hai abhi un sabke i start usin my adjectives for them...😆

lol i agree rachna...i think ppl on this forum need to know first that what is "intimacy" and what is "vulagrity"?😆😆.........mayb they shud 1st chk their dictionary.....

oh come-on..they r 20yrs old and r mature enough to think abt this...today even in india ppl cross there limits in very early age..and lets dun talk abt other countries...😆.......other countries??????🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.......haa wahan pe toh bache bache jaante honge whts fk n all......😉........anku luv u dear.....tumhe toh vakeel banni chahiye thi...kya dhansu pts nikali maamu......👏👏👏

but plzzzzz...why r ppl considering it vulgar???

does it have anything like we see in Bollywood moviess??well i wont say hollywood movies coz they have many things which i dun think the soo called "un-cheap" ppl here wud have even heard abt it..😆😆.......agree agree my lord....😉😉😉......

yeah rachna we all r mature enough to differentiate between "cheap" and "romantic"..anku...tu bekaar mein koshish kar rahi hai....jise cheap ka word meanin hi nahi aata ho woh kya romance samjhega....

and i think some ppl here have taken responsibilty of doing "constructive -criticism"(that is what they call it😆).....haan...n u knw y they r doin?vo log aadat se majboor hai.....bechaare....n DDLJ ki dialogue unpar kaafi suit karta hai....ki...Aadatein agar waqt par na badla jaaye....toh aadatein zarooratein ban jaatein hai.......n wohi yeh log kar rahe hai....din mein ek baar bhi agar hamari MN ki haai-haai jo inke langugage mein 'tareef' hai vo na kare toh inka din khatam hi nahi hota....😡

but i have always said this and m again repeating this...

its ok if u dun want to do sumthing like this at the age of 19/20,its ur life...

but come-on its a fiction and why r u expecting that it wil have "reality" in it????

and if u want something like "reality" then u shud watch BIG-BOSS,..i m sure u will have fun watching it...

onli big boss?wht jungle se koi mujhe bachao n pati,patni aur woh???🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

according to me it was not at all "vulgar"..it was an another side of love..dats it..

and yes plzz dun criticize MN scenes just bcoz such type of scene hasn't given to SG..just wait ,i hope they will also get such scenes...then i will also see how many of soo called "criticisers" will dun like it!!!

anku plzz u dnt say plz to them....jo log yeh baatein more 1 saal se samaj hi nahi paa rahe....vo kya khaak samjhenge abhi.....leave it.....

thanku!

Originally posted by: Bollywood_chic

Rach!

You're so right, it is hypocrisy.. We see it all the times on the movies, both on Bollywood and Hollywood, We're mad over English TV shows, where a kiss on the lips or anything as such is normal... It's part of life is it not?

Then we come to the bit about intimacy, you said every relationship needs one? and they DO! If one does not have full faith in their partner, what can you say about the relationship? Each relationship goes through that stage of firts and this is MN's first, many people here can agree they may have gone through this stage with their partner, boyfriend etc... no one named it cheap or vulgar did they? It's all part of life!

We're at a time, where a kiss on the lips in front of your family is NOTHING. Maybe if we were to go back 20 years ago, Yes, it may be called cheap or vulgar, but if MJHT is a youth show, if it is going along with the modern times, it's normal.. go anywhere in the world, you can ask the same question about whether this sequence being called Vulgar or Cheap, I assure you that it will be classified as "Normal"

It's all about being Open Minded, as times progress Open Mindness is all we can give back... People have different ways of showing their intimacy and everyone does go through with such intimacy like being shown in MJHT, though no 2 people will go through it at the same time...

All we can tell people to do is be open-minded, and realise this is the characters LIVES, not OURS... we may choose to live life differently, yet we can't impact our own values on others.

Originally posted by: utfracks

Exactly...they teach us how to plot against one another, how to use abusive words. See, how much today's "YOUTH" can learn from such "realistic" shows! MJHT is cheap. it doesn't use such fowl language. people can't learn anything wonderful like dey do in Roadies and Big Boss. Hai na? 😆

Originally posted by: zainab25

LMFAO, I would definitely have presented my views with the issue of intimacy and such in an essay format, lekin meri itni achchi kismat kahan like MN. Unfortunately I am studying (*shocked*) for a Calculus exam that I am sure Mayank and Nupur have never done.

These days all they have on their mind is sexual frustration, kiss, tinka massaging lessons, etc. 😛

I will definitely be back in 13 hours or so to have a less of scattered thought on this issue.

Originally posted by: zainab25

LMFAO, I would definitely have presented my views with the issue of intimacy and such in an essay format, lekin meri itni achchi kismat kahan like MN. Unfortunately I am studying (*shocked*) for a Calculus exam that I am sure Mayank and Nupur have never done.

These days all they have on their mind is sexual frustration, kiss, tinka massaging lessons, etc. 😛

I will definitely be back in 13 hours or so to have a less of scattered thought on this issue.