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falak

@falak01

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+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Bul3
totally totally totally agree with you on this..I am loving this phase of Mayur relationship and cant wait to watch this whole situation and scenes...I found them very very romantic but not at all vulgar..others may feel what they like and I wont like to even comment on what they feel but I am seriously sick of people always complaining about anything and everything which is shown..I take it as a show not reality and I dont let anything going in the show bother me..if I like it,I will watch..and even if I do watch something I didnt liked I wont complain..afterall it was my decision to watch !! ..I am too attached to Mayur a lot but that doesnt mean that I would take show that seriously that it starts irritating me..I watch it for pure enjoyment and I always enjoy Mayur and even when I dont enjoy,,,I just give myself a break and watch epis only after the written updates so that I dont feel bad afterwards..saying all this I want to say that I dont want to offend anyone..its just my view..I apolozise if I hurt someone unintentionally..afterall everyone has a right to say what they feel/like/!!

100% agree with u!!!

if we watch something its our decision...and if we dun like it then its ok..what is there to make such big issue??

and i guess ppl here watch such scenes only to make "issues" on them...😆

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@sweeetisme

Explorer

Posted: 15 years ago

#22

too good.loved ur post.really needed it.i even wanted to know tht from which point it luked vulgar as it dint seemed vulgar to me.

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shruti

@-Nymphadora-

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 15 years ago

#23

i wont comment till i actually see the promo...till den im gonna keep my mouth shut!!

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Ranbir Deewani ........

@ranbir_lekha

Dazzler

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Posted: 15 years ago

#24

Okay I want to add something about this please bear with me

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Although the nature or essence of love is a subject of frequent debate, different aspects of the word can be clarified by determining what isn't love. As a general expression of positive sentiment (a stronger form of like), love is commonly contrasted with hate (or neutral apathy); as a less sexual and more emotionally intimate form of romantic attachment, love is commonly contrasted with lust; and as an interpersonal relationship with romantic overtones, love is commonly contrasted with friendship, although other definitions of the word love may be applied to close friendships in certain contexts.

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In addition to cross-cultural differences in understanding love, ideas about love have also changed greatly over time. Some historians date modern conceptions of romantic love to courtly Europe during or after the Middle Ages, although the prior existence of romantic attachments is attested by ancient love poetry.[5]
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Is being in Love called vulgarity???Love doeshaveIntimacy .. Bollywood is a different sphere Tv is a wholy different sphere as far as I have seen SBB video there was nothing as such that is Vulgar or anything Intimacy was there, I don't deny it but tagging it as vulgar is just not the way we all I am quite sureAll of us here areguided by our parents to whtwe watch on Tv right??? it'smainly in the POV of theviewers as to whatthey think about it If andaswe see we ourself are awareas to what is Vulgar or not we all are mature eneough to differentiate b\w right and wrong

Sorry I did not mean to be a bother
Lekha

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Bulbul

@Bul3

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: utfracks

Exactly. This is a fiction show. if they want reality, they could settle in for reality shows. And MayUr were romantic, not vulgar and cheap. That's exactly what i don't get. Why do people tag intimacy as cheap? So they mean to say, it's wrong to get intimate with someone you love so much!

exactly..they are not doing one night stands ..they love each-other a LOT!!and even I dont feel anything is wrong in showing them getting a bit close..as Arjun said it is to show that Mayur got a step ahead in their relationship..personally I may not agree that one should have that much closeness in a relationship before marriage even if they are very serious but I dont represent the youth on my own..Youth means whats happening in majority of youth and I know its nothing uncommon which they are showing..

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falak

@falak01

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: Bul3
and ya I also agree that its not the first time something like this is being shown on indian television..infact to tell you frankly a lot of people on other show's forums wait for these moments..infact I myself waited for Prem-Heer this thing along with almost all kis desh forum members like anything..and we all enjoyed it a lot and talked about our feelings very openly...as for MJHT being a youth show,,..I too agree that this is not something which doesnt happen in real life now a days...just read newspapers or ask your friends in college if you want a reality check about this..apart from this there are many shows like you mentioned"rodies,spitsvilla etc."which are called youth shows and in a way shows youth of metro cities..MJHT is million times better..infact I dont think we should even compare it with something like this..

again in full agreement with u...😃

i mean if u want see something "youth oriented" then u can watch roadies n all..which have so called "youth elemnt" in it...

and most of the members here r above 14 yrs of age and they know the difference between cheap/vulgar and romantic..

and puhleezzzz dun say dat u want 2 persons to do romance standing 20 feet away..🤣

i mean if they love each other then its natural....

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430105

Hibernated

Posted: 15 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: Bul3

exactly..they are not doing one night stands ..they love each-other a LOT!!and even I dont feel anything is wrong in showing them getting a bit close..as Arjun said it is to show that Mayur got a step ahead in their relationship..personally I may not agree that one should have that much closeness in a relationship before marriage even if they are very serious but I dont represent the youth on my own..Youth means whats happening in majority of youth and I know its nothing uncommon which they are showing..

Yeah, But it isnt like they're sleeping with each other, are they! They know their limits. They know they wouldn't be seeing each other after that particular day, so they wanted to cherish that simple moment. And so what if it did get a little intimate? I mean, every relationship has that intimacy.

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falak

@falak01

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: utfracks

Exactly...they teach us how to plot against one another, how to use abusive words. See, how much today's "YOUTH" can learn from such "realistic" shows! MJHT is cheap. it doesn't use such fowl language. people can't learn anything wonderful like dey do in Roadies and Big Boss. Hai na? 😆

lol yeah...i dun watch roadies n all and i watch only MJHT...and i have become bad,bad n very bad...😆😆

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Sonia

@Bollywood_chic

Rocker

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Posted: 15 years ago

#29

Rach!

You're so right, it is hypocrisy.. We see it all the times on the movies, both on Bollywood and Hollywood, We're mad over English TV shows, where a kiss on the lips or anything as such is normal... It's part of life is it not?

Then we come to the bit about intimacy, you said every relationship needs one? and they DO! If one does not have full faith in their partner, what can you say about the relationship? Each relationship goes through that stage of firts and this is MN's first, many people here can agree they may have gone through this stage with their partner, boyfriend etc... no one named it cheap or vulgar did they? It's all part of life!

We're at a time, where a kiss on the lips in front of your family is NOTHING. Maybe if we were to go back 20 years ago, Yes, it may be called cheap or vulgar, but if MJHT is a youth show, if it is going along with the modern times, it's normal.. go anywhere in the world, you can ask the same question about whether this sequence being called Vulgar or Cheap, I assure you that it will be classified as "Normal"

It's all about being Open Minded, as times progress Open Mindness is all we can give back... People have different ways of showing their intimacy and everyone does go through with such intimacy like being shown in MJHT, though no 2 people will go through it at the same time...

All we can tell people to do is be open-minded, and realise this is the characters LIVES, not OURS... we may choose to live life differently, yet we can't impact our own values on others.

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Bulbul

@Bul3

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

#30

@falak..- I actually didnt want to comment but I was so irritated with people again creating a big issue out of nothing that I couldnt resist posting..thnx for agreeing and I too agree with you and uffrack completely!!

Edited by Bul3 - 15 years ago

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