Who broke our relations - Page 2

And coming to Adarsh taking Swa and leaving her alone in that room. It is what happens to a woman post marriage. Her relations always secondary. His relations priority. The show is about a woman who crosses the threshold for her relations.

A woman's side cannot be correct, only a boy's side can. Show has so many messages

When I was young, and acted silly, my mum always told me that people around me are always judging me based on my actions, irrespective of whether they tell me that they are doing it or not. So, it was important that I always behaved well. The moment I saw Asad die, and realized that there are so many things that will go against him, I called my mum and thanked her for teaching me to behave well and say the right things in public. His immaturity, the friends he kept, his equation with Yash, everything will go against this kid now.

When you have no concrete evidence, you start thinking of everything that could be evidence to support your theory. It is natural.

I know a lot of people have a problem with him. I also know that I have become infamous for defending him all the time. But I will do it again (living up to my reputation).

I haven't seen a more consistent character. Even when he is emotional, he does not act only based on his emotions. Unless he has evidence that supports his emotions, he does not act. He is a man of principles. If there is anything against his principles, he will not do it. And he is also inclined to follow his principles, no matter what the situation. He always looked up to his father and sought his appreciation. But even to please him, he would no do something incorrect. He stood against his father. He loves Swadheenta to bits. He knew his relationship with her was at stake. But when he thought appa was wrong in using physical violence, he stood against her. Today, he lost his dear brother under unnatural circumstances. And he is being told that Asad killed Abhay. He did not immediately go and fight. Even in his most distressed state, even if it was in his mind, he looked for evidence. Was this even possible? Then, he thought of instances that could lead to this conclusion. Only after that did he react.

Tomorrow, if he is shown evidence that his dad was wrong, he will fight against him. If he is shown evidence that maamu and Asad are innocent, he will support them. Because he is that kind of a man.

The one line from Harry Potter that still sticks with me. How true is that. Until you understand what has gone wrong, you cannot accept it. And unless you accept it, there is no recovery.

It may seem like 3 days to us, but in reality, it probably is 3 hours since when Abhay died. The pain is still too raw to process. Give everyone some time to analyze, understand, accept and recovery. And make no mistake, they will. It won't be too long before everyone will stand by the Jilani's.

I want to end this by stating something that Pom said yesterday. If the cop who died was anyone other than Abhay, Adarsh would have fought tooth and nail to have Asad and maamu released. But the cop happens to be Abhay. That changes all the odds.

And in the room how much ever I wanted Adarsh to be with Swa I had to give him for one thing. He didn't drag her out from the room. He cannot grieve over Asad at this point. But he allowed Swa to grieve.

And Adarsh characterization is inline with principles. Principles will act based on evidence. So evidence has to come for him to come out of trauma.

And once again you have done a beautiful analysis from the epi perspective, while I was lost in drawing larger message.

But let me tell you the truth, if I couldn't connect to parallels, it was really becoming difficult for me to watch it. Because emotions were that raw

I am not so sure that I completely agree with you here Shru. In the general context yes. A man's relations become more important. But the way it was shown yesterday, I am not so sure.

I think Swa went to Adarsh and his family because Abhay had died. Maamu and been arrested, and she did not know about Asad. So, aerested v/s death, Abhay's loss gains more importance. She wanted to support his family because theirs was a bigger loss in the situation.

When they found out about Asad, he was already branded a terrorist. Then, Adarsh did not want to stay in the presence of someone who killed his brother. But even in his sense of rage, he understood the need for Swa to grieve. That is why he did not pull her away from Asad's body. But subsequently, he could not leave her alone in the midst of people that he truly believed hurt Abhay. That he why he took her home.

I don't think they necessarily meant to show that Adarsh valued his relations more than hers. At-least that is not the impression I got. Tomorrow, if he finds evidence of Asad's innocence, he will support Swa through and through. I believe that...