MT. Why do people hibernate or Deactivate? - Page 2

Originally posted by: NathuPaapi

I usually don't deactivate to stay away from IF. I just stay away when I want or need without deactivating.

However when I deactivated my Nathupyare account permanently I did want to see afterwards if anyone cared or missed me. Few did. But eventually everyone moves on and stops giving a sh*t.

Nathupyare is jyada Panditpyari miss hui🥺

Originally posted by: Strangers02

Nathupyare is jyada Panditpyari miss hui🥺

Itna Miss hui ki correct naam bhi bhool gayi

Originally posted by: NathuPaapi

Itna Miss hui ki correct naam bhi bhool gayi

Wo mein idea de rahi thi

Originally posted by: Strangers02

Wo mein idea de rahi thi

Mann to bahut karta hai ki koi Naya character banaoon par ab Bina kuchh kiye hi har nayi Id me logon ko np dikhne lagta hai. 🤷

I regret revealing it that it was me back then. 😮‍💨🤦

Originally posted by: NathuPaapi

Mann to bahut karta hai ki koi Naya character banaoon par ab Bina kuchh kiye hi har nayi Id me logon ko np dikhne lagta hai. 🤷

I regret revealing it that it was me back then. 😮‍💨🤦

Aap ek matr Satya'harsh'chandra ho is forum ke

Originally posted by: Basskarrr

What about the option for ‘sometimes I start a fire then I run away from the heat’ deactivation

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

I’d rather start the fire and see what happens 🔥

Like this

I hibernate when I go out of town so I don't have to worry about notifications

Originally posted by: Beautyful_Mess

Weird posts.

Now people can’t do what they want with their own accounts without being judged?? It doesn’t matter why they do it everyone is entitled to their decisions when it’s about them and writing essay why it’s not okay for them to do it is in very poor taste. The first few reasons on your list is appalling to say the least.

It is not about judging it is to understand the different reasons why people need to pull away and identifying. In a way it's about awareness, self reflection and to build yourself up to be stronger.

That is the difference of thought pattern between us. You see the negative and I see the scope for self improvement. This is what this activity is for something like a simple decision as such of hibernation can have underlying confidence issues... for some. It is not a judgement but definately something for food for thought.

Thank you for picking up that couple of points are ridiculous. They are but they are real. There are individuals who have said this is their need. I'm glad you gave not encountered that side of people or they have not taken you into confidence and told you this.

Your naive rant is a clear indication of my point that this is something people are not fully aware off. The need of social validation is indeed very harmful and especially for the youth. It affects them in a very bad way and very toxic. The constant feed for attention from social platforms is not healthy or putting on a fake persona.

Not everyone can be themselves online, some have no social interactions off line and they have an alter-ego, which is fine for sometime to develop better social skills but sometimes that drive had adverse affects and results on their mind and well being. If one can overcome those things they can feel happier within themselves and have a better grip on their minds in handling toxity.

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

Never saw the need. That actually is sometimes why I just read thread titles

Same here. A lot of the time if I don't like a post for it's views, I make my own to share my own. That way I'm not destroying anyone else's post or undermining their view on the matter.