Are lines of morality blurred nowadays in relationships? - Page 5

Originally posted by: rolopolo

Fidelity and infidelity are overrated af.

Let's say we have a fight and we don't want to speak to each other forget seeing each other faces. So rather than suffocating each other, it would be better if we can go spend some quality time with someone else for few months and then come back again and start afresh. This is how a healthy relationship is built with love, trust and respect

Agree with this, it is similar to how we keep changing or experimenting with shampoos to tackle the problems our hair goes through at different points of time. Now please do not think I'm joking because of the shampoo reference, the ones who love their hair would know how crucial it is to hunt for the perfect shampoo that suits them, would give them joy and fill them with love, twice or thrice a week.

Originally posted by: colossial2015

The biggest customers of Oyo rooms are middle class people for their affairs.

Yep. Oyo is super duper dodgy though!!! They often have hidden cameras etc. best to get a deal in a 4-5 star hotel.


Ahh ok that way. Well sad, but most people cheat. That’s just reality.

Oh yeah!!!

Besides the International Bestsellers like "The Girl with Dragon Tattoo" and the subsequent series have normalized it as anything..

As much as I like Lisbeth, Erica and Mikael as characteristics, it was quite disturbing to read the relation dynamics between the latter two.

It was gross and pukeworthy, at least for me..

This is what people call being "modern" I guess🤔

In sociology during high school, our teacher told us that after 2030 people wouldn't even get married but prefer live in relationships instead. I can already see that coming true.

Originally posted by: Mallika-E-Bhais

I understand it’s not our cup of tea etc but I wanted to point this out even then- Being in an open marriage isn’t “cheating” AT ALL. Open marriage = A marriage where there are rules & communication & a desire to step outside the bounds of a bounds of a traditional marriage. Cheating is deceit. An open marriage isn’t at all.

Cheating is totally different to an open marriage.

If one wants to f*ck around than what's the point of getting married. The child will always question his identity.

Open marriage is definitely not cheating but its not a marriage actually. Why marry n why remain being married. If one has guts to sleep around than one should have guts to remain single or break a marriage.

Infidelity and f*****g around random people (open marriage is the glorified name) is not the answer.

The answer is turning inwards, an honest soul searching process, understanding yourself and your partner, commitment and reasonable compromises.

Marriage is a pious institution and should not be corrupted with such filth wrapped in glorified names.

Are lines of morality blurred nowadays in relationships 👍🏼

If this person was Hrithik, then what would your choice have been?

Originally posted by: naaznin

If one wants to f*ck around than what's the point of getting married. The child will always question his identity.

Open marriage is definitely not cheating but its not a marriage actually. Why marry n why remain being married. If one has guts to sleep around than one should have guts to remain single or break a marriage.

A marriage is a legal contract and/or a social contract. The legal contract gives people certain rights and benefits like inheritance, medical power of attorney, etc. The social contract fulfills society's cultural and religious beliefs like God blessing the union, having social approval to cohabit and have sex, etc. If a contract sounds beneficial or lucrative people will sign it. It has never been nor ever will be about love. If it was about love there wouldn't be a distinction between love marriage vs arranged marriage. Love is a cherry on top that makes being in a contract bearable and even joyful and fulfilling.

Secondly, love and sex are not the same things. While sex can be an expression of love, sex can just be something that one enjoys. Even if there is emotional intimacy the range of emotional intimacy can vary from casual friendship to being head over heels in love. People get into open marriages because they do care about each other and want to spend their lives together but they still wish to enjoy the rush of dating, picking people up, flirting, and sexual connection with other people.

There are BFFs who get into regular or platonic open marriages because they share a lot of emotional intimacy but aren't that sexually into each other. There are people who get into open marriages because they are on the same page about kids and family, are in financially stable places to start families, and believe they have compatible parenting skills to raise successful kids - but they aren't necessarily in love.

And if the whole world switches to matrilineal inheritance and families - children will never have to question their identity. Children are made to doubt their roots because the whole world is concerned about "who's your father?" "whose name do you take?" "whose heir are you?" but the child comes out of the womb and motherhood is never in doubt (except in surrogacy) - if the whole world roots their identity in the mother, that solves the problem of trying to figure out who the father is.

Originally posted by: kingkhan22

Infidelity and f*****g around random people (open marriage is the glorified name) is not the answer.

The answer is turning inwards, an honest soul searching process, understanding yourself and your partner, commitment and reasonable compromises.

Marriage is a pious institution and should not be corrupted with such filth wrapped in glorified names.

Seriously - a pious institution? As if it is not corrupted and wrapped in filth already. The day no one forces anyone into marriage. The day people of any faith or caste can get married without resistance or judgment. The day everyone attributes marriage to love and compatibility and does not even think of wealth, stature, upward mobility, mutual benefits etc. The day not a single spouse abuses or rapes the other claiming spousal rights through marriage. The day only people genuinely committed to be in a long-term loving relationship get married. Maybe the day all this happens you can claim marriage to be a pious institution and cast your judgment on others who violate its covenants. But until then marriage maybe pious to those in healthy marriages but it still is very much a filthy cruel tool wielded by society to oppress, subjugate, and shame people.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Seriously - a pious institution? As if it is not corrupted and wrapped in filth already. The day no one forces anyone into marriage. The day people of any faith or caste can get married without resistance or judgment. The day everyone attributes marriage to love and compatibility and does not even think of wealth, stature, upward mobility, mutual benefits etc. The day not a single spouse abuses or rapes the other claiming spousal rights through marriage. The day only people genuinely committed to be in a long-term loving relationship get married. Maybe the day all this happens you can claim marriage to be a pious institution and cast your judgment on others who violate its covenants. But until then marriage maybe pious to those in healthy marriages but it still is very much a filthy cruel tool wielded by society to oppress, subjugate, and shame people.

I meant suppose to be pious.

The way it should be , was designed.

So basically we narrated the similar narration.