Shocking : But these days Reality - Page 3

Originally posted by: tootyfrooty-

thats true,sons n their wifes use them like maid,i have seen many above 60 ladies who go friday market to take veggies, poor old ladies they go in those market ,suffer so many dhakke there n hardly can wallk with that much weight ...more than 5 kg,but their sons never told own kids to go with gradmother so atlest they can pic some stuff but no ,they r so selfish.

parents should not give any help n money to kids after 20 ,kids should purchase their house themselves ,sons takes money even for buying their own house , they think parents should do this ,if parents say no ,son;s wife family start badmouthing them.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

There is absolutely nothing wrong with old age homes.

For many older people, it is a safer, healthier alternative than spending hours at home alone by themselves. Being alone at home all day while people are at work/school can be extremely depressive. It actually hastens aging and age-related health issues. Sitting around at home with not much to do can also cause muscle degeneration and cause immobility much faster.

Old age homes give older people the ability to live and interact with their peers. They have rec rooms and gaming facilities so people can hang out with others instead of sit alone at home. It helps them build new friendships and keep their mind sharp. They have activities like yoga and other exercises so older people can stay fit. They also organize day trips to see movies, go shopping, visit a park, attend festivals so older people can enjoy and do things when they are unable to drive or commute.

Old age homes conduct regular health checkups. They have staff to ensure that medication is taken on time. People no longer have to worry about their parents falling and laying there for hours till they get help. They no longer have to worry about their parents accidentally leaving the gas on or cutting themselves while trying to work around the house.

A child is not an investment plan for the future. A child is something you choose to have to fulfill yourself. So keep the expectations real and pragmatic. Save for your old age. Plan to move into a retirement community or assisted living community of your choice. If you care for your health you may be able to delay the health you need.

Of course, children owe it to their parents to take care of them and shower them with love and affection. Sometimes an old age home is the best choice. They can always call and visit regularly and show they care in many ways. They can check in to make sure you are safe, happy, and well treated.

If the kids just forget about you and ignore you - then tough luck for them. You are an adult. You cut them out of your life, your love, and your inheritance.

Never expect love as an obligation. Never beg for love. Never become a slave to love. Love unconditionally. And if it is not reciprocated the way you want - move on. This holds true for every single relationship you will ever have - parents, children, sibling, friends, significant others - whoever.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

There is absolutely nothing wrong with old age homes.

For many older people, it is a safer, healthier alternative than spending hours at home alone by themselves. Being alone at home all day while people are at work/school can be extremely depressive. It actually hastens aging and age-related health issues. Sitting around at home with not much to do can also cause muscle degeneration and cause immobility much faster.

Old age homes give older people the ability to live and interact with their peers. They have rec rooms and gaming facilities so people can hang out with others instead of sit alone at home. It helps them build new friendships and keep their mind sharp. They have activities like yoga and other exercises so older people can stay fit. They also organize day trips to see movies, go shopping, visit a park, attend festivals so older people can enjoy and do things when they are unable to drive or commute.

Old age homes conduct regular health checkups. They have staff to ensure that medication is taken on time. People no longer have to worry about their parents falling and laying there for hours till they get help. They no longer have to worry about their parents accidentally leaving the gas on or cutting themselves while trying to work around the house.

A child is not an investment plan for the future. A child is something you choose to have to fulfill yourself. So keep the expectations real and pragmatic. Save for your old age. Plan to move into a retirement community or assisted living community of your choice. If you care for your health you may be able to delay the health you need.

Of course, children owe it to their parents to take care of them and shower them with love and affection. Sometimes an old age home is the best choice. They can always call and visit regularly and show they care in many ways. They can check in to make sure you are safe, happy, and well treated.

If the kids just forget about you and ignore you - then tough luck for them. You are an adult. You cut them out of your life, your love, and your inheritance.

Never expect love as an obligation. Never beg for love. Never become a slave to love. Love unconditionally. And if it is not reciprocated the way you want - move on. This holds true for every single relationship you will ever have - parents, children, sibling, friends, significant others - whoever.

neighbour naam ki bhi koi cheez hoti hai iss duniya main jinke sath old people apna time spend karte hai when they living with their children...

these days even in colonies, older people have their group which organized kirtan and many other kinds of activities...in my society, there is senior citizen group and every month senior citizen group organised children competition and many other activities ...sending parents old homes is just an excuse to run away from your responsibilities...

If you have mediclaim policy every two year its give you free full body medical checkup and even these days body check camp also organized by many labs to promote their business.

A child is not an investment that's why parents un-conditional give everything if the parents also start behaving like their irresponsible children then they will never stand on their feet. Yes parents should save money for their old age.

Same people can love their pets but for parents, their love is gone 😛

Originally posted by: blue-ice.

This thread makes me sad...very sad...

Originally posted by: ZanduBaaM

Boriya bister baandh lo ji aane wale time main Pet ko ghar main jagah aur parents ko old age home 😭

Originally posted by: ZanduBaaM

neighbour naam ki bhi koi cheez hoti hai iss duniya main jinke sath old people apna time spend karte hai when they living with their children...

these days even in colonies, older people have their group which organized kirtan and many other kinds of activities...in my society, there is senior citizen group and every month senior citizen group organised children competition and many other activities ...sending parents old homes is just an excuse to run away from your responsibilities...

If you have mediclaim policy every two year its give you free full body medical checkup and even these days body check camp also organized by many labs to promote their business.

A child is not an investment that's why parents un-conditional give everything if the parents also start behaving like their irresponsible children then they will never stand on their feet. Yes parents should save money for their old age.

Same people can love their pets but for parents, their love is gone 😛