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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: awkardpyscho


I get your point. Rightly said! The family stops them for taking any step. But again whats the actual point, they are not really living it for themselves


But, isn't that the point of life? We have to tirelessly look for the purpose of our lives. Some people find their passion and purpose much easier than others. but, Nobody can live our lives for us, if someone is unhappy with their lives, careers, relationships, etc, then take a step and change it. and I know it isn't easy as it sounds, it takes alot of guts, efforts, and constant failures to change something, or even to find true happiness and joy, but one should never stop looking! Join different activities, meet new people, create new hobbies, take active steps toward happiness or even finding that one thing you feel passionate about so you can once again feel the purpose of life and start truly living!

Again, this is all the stuff I'm trying to apply to myself right now, trying very desperately to find my purpose, my passion, and I don't think I will ever truly rest till I find it. so I guess it's not impossible if you can find the will to live in yourself and you are not deeply depressed (in which case, you need proper medical attention and a doctor).
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Were we given a choice while coming into this world? No. Then what gives us the right to end it?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Legally suicide is a crime because it could well be murder and then passed off as suicide. In laws could kill a daughter in law saying she depressed and committed suicide, boyfriends in a fit of rage can kill girlfriends and say she was depressed and committed suicide, children can kill their parents if they dont want to look after them and say it was suicide ... and so on.
For a person committing suicide also many factors come into play. They may choose to die because someone is genuinely harassing them mentally or physically - which in itself is a crime and they may not have committed suicide if the harassment was not there. Even depressed people if treated properly can overcome feelings for suicide as it is a sickness.

These are the legal aspects for suicide to be a crime... but spiritually its a deeper topic.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: anuv123

Were we given a choice while coming into this world? No. Then what gives us the right to end it?



Absolutely nailed it.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Even if you don't believe in God, creating a new life, even an animal is still a sacred, mysterious thing even with so much scientific advancement. There are very few things still taboo in this world, taking a life is one of them even if it your own.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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It's not as simple as you put it. This reminded me of the days when such thoughts came to my mind and they even do, when I am going through mild depression but then I never had the courage to commit something like this and put my family and friends in God knows what state. Even if you don't feel like you have anything in your life, don't feel motivated, don't want to live or whatever, the thing is there are so many other people whose lives are actually attached to yours and killing yourself will mean killing them, hence a sin/crime. Committing suicide wouldn't solve anything even if you have problems or no problem for one. And if you say that someone is happy and still doesn't want to live, I think it's hypothetical and I haven't come across someone who wants to end their life just for the sake of it, haven't heard anything of the sorts either. One won't commit suicide for the sake of adventure only.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Cause you owe your life to your parents, your SO, your kids, your friends and also the poors(if you believe in giving annual charity).
Suicide is very selfish really, You might think your life does not matter but it may be the source of comfort/happiness/inspiration to people around you.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Suicide is neither a choice nor a sign of weakness. It is the result of extreme emotional trauma that overrides the self sustaining, self preservation functions of the brain.
People are discouraged from suicide because no matter how defeated and alone they feel, there are many people who love and care for them, whose happiness depends on them. Committing suicide leaves a large gaping emotional void for friends and family. It is a traumatic experience that haunts them for life.

Rather than forbid suicide, suicidal people need support and assurance from their loved ones to make it through the trauma in their life.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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What a sucidial person needs is care and nurturing,they need to be told that they are not alone,that they matter a lot to some people, they should be made to feel loved,cared for and needed.And also they should be given assurance that whatever happens we are therefor you,you wo'nt have your world crashin down ever. We will always accept you back.Many commit suicde as they feel they can't face family,that should'nt be a case.One must have the assurance that he can always go back home,sleep beside mom and play with dad have fun with siblings,That makes everything in life less painful less scary.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Suicide is neither a choice nor a sign of weakness. It is the result of extreme emotional trauma that overrides the self sustaining, self preservation functions of the brain.

People are discouraged from suicide because no matter how defeated and alone they feel, there are many people who love and care for them, whose happiness depends on them. Committing suicide leaves a large gaping emotional void for friends and family. It is a traumatic experience that haunts them for life.

Rather than forbid suicide, suicidal people need support and assurance from their loved ones to make it through the trauma in their life.


Agree! And also proper medical attention if they are too deeply depressed. There is nothing wrong in going to the doctor for depression, lots of people go and end up coming out of it. The stigma attached to it needs to go, especially among Indians. Mental health is just as important as physical health.

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