Your Heart is a Size of FIST bcz u need |Vikas gupta AT17 DT Nt Pg. 36 - Page 15

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Posted: 7 years ago
I so badly want Vikas to sue that woman! 😈
Why not be the goonda she is saying he is? By all means!

Sue her and destroy her future career, if she has any like he has done already apparently!
Should be easier the second time! 😆😳
Edited by -HoneyDukes- - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
Ye ek positive post hai kyunki ismein word positive hai.

Ye utna hi positive hai jitni ki aajkal mereko duniya lagti hai.

Itna samandar mein gehraai tak jakar what I got was Vikas getting so far despite everything and Vikas having it in him to excel outside and inside.

Also this AT and some of the people who could see through blatant partiality is some hope.

Ye meri Vikas ke liye winning speech hai, mera pessimistic dimaag isse jyada positive baatein nahin kar sakta. Filhaal.

So #VikasFTW.

#VikasKiMomFTW

#BecharaBadnaamVikasFTW
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Posted: 7 years ago
Smriti Irani: Complain Regarding Mocking and Insult of LGBT Community in Bigg Boss 11 - Sign the Peti... http://chn.ge/2C914gj via @Change
Girls pls sign this petition
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: deepalee

Hi all.

Was busy. Couldn't catch the episode but the updates r breaking my heart. Why drag family? Why such pressure? And wth is Ban all about? She's few steps ahead of bhediya.

And xyz is pulling a Rohit Sharma...breaking the all time records of well. ... nastiness.

Many say BB has always been rigged. For once someone confirm it's really rigged n whatever happened to Vikas initially n now is UNREAL...just rigged. It's inhuman.


Deepalee, rigged or not, the larger India will never get to know. What will seep into the Indian psyche is the complete legitimization of verbal abuse- homophobic and otherwise. Some of the attempted torture techniques- to induce sleep deprivation, to constant flipping of attitude, to psychological verbal manipulation, these are amongst the kinds used in the worst of POW scenarios across the world. To legitimise them, to minimise them as nokjhok, to lend the perpetrator the assurance that she was going right- what are we teaching India? Whether it is man to woman or woman to man, are we trying to tell India that bullying and harassment is okay and legally acceptable?

Against common belief, the rate of male child sexual abuse in India is above that of female child abuse.

Subramaniyan, V. K. S., Reddy, P., Chandra, G., Rao, C., & Rao, T. S. S. (2017). Silence of male child sexual abuse in India: Qualitative analysis of barriers for seeking psychiatric help in a multidisciplinary unit in a general hospital. Indian Journal of Psychiatry, 59(2), 202207. http://doi.org/10.4103/psychiatry.IndianJPsychiatry_195_17

But male abuse in any form - sexual or emotional never garners any support or attention, because in a country still haunted by menstruation taboos and virginity and purity fetishes, what does a male child who presumably has nothing to lose, lose through emotional or physical abuse? We have people by the dozen in India who believe a male cannot be raped. If a physically abused female is ostracized and pronounced unfit for marriage, a physically abused male is ostracized as fit to be a woman and hence best shunned altogether by society as he failed the entire patriarchal collective ego. More often than not, it goes unreported.

Unfortunately, the same applies to an emotionally abused male and is not even acknowledged since it questions the virility of the entire gender. And that at the hands of a woman? So, silence is the lone reaction to male abuse and that is what we've been rampantly seeing here as well. Or we have female gender representatives deriving second-hand vengeance and a false sense of collective joy of the abuse, much of the kind of reactions to anti-jewish pogroms.

Add to this, the fact that Vikas is bi-sexual, and it's like he has self-ostracized himself and subjected himself to the homophobic gaze. Even if Vikas' sexuality was unknown, people in the house would still have bullied him for his physique, his looks, his mannerisms, his intelligence- since yes, he is different from the stereotype male and wears his heart on his sleeve, another assumedly female attribute.

Whether rigged or not, this shouldn't have happened and shouldn't be happening on any reality show in the world. It is dastardly and a shame to Indian television. Period.

Edit: Let me add that if Vikas doesn't go legal with all that he has endured within the house against her, I'll be pressed to think rather poorly of him.
Edited by Uma2010 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Kri_Sh_Naa

Hi Lost Souls, i'm Krishnaa. Can i join here? I'm a Vikas Shipper 😛

Vikas Gupta FTW

hey welcome.like the members list on 1st page to be added.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: mix_of_emotions

didn't want to mention but this has happened with my sister a lot in past
The cornering and bullying we as a family got isolated for a while
Now a days she is facing again same things in her office

N I live alone with her here
Kinda having worst day today
N when I came online this stuff didn't make me feel any better

I do hope god does good to us who deserve it

Karma sirf bura nahi acha Bhi count hota hai


Hugs gd 🤗

hey mix don't worry everything will be okay with ur sister

n for Vikas what can I say that guy is gem ... he will overcome from all of this



p.s we are again fans of the same person
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Posted: 7 years ago
Signed the petition. How does it work though? Will they look into it if it crosses the 200 mark?
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Uma2010


Deepalee, rigged or not, the larger India will never get to know. What will seep into the Indian psyche is the complete legitimization of verbal abuse- homophobic and otherwise. Some of the attempted torture techniques- to induce sleep deprivation, to constant flipping of attitude, to psychological verbal manipulation, these are amongst the kinds used in the worst of POW scenarios across the world. To legitimise them, to minimise them as nokjhok, to lend the perpetrator the assurance that she was going right- what are we teaching India? Whether it is man to woman or woman to man, are we trying to tell India that bullying and harassment is okay and legally acceptable?

Against common belief, the rate of male child sexual abuse in India is above that of female child abuse.

Subramaniyan, V. K. S., Reddy, P., Chandra, G., Rao, C., & Rao, T. S. S. (2017). Silence of male child sexual abuse in India: Qualitative analysis of barriers for seeking psychiatric help in a multidisciplinary unit in a general hospital. Indian Journal of Psychiatry, 59(2), 202207. http://doi.org/10.4103/psychiatry.IndianJPsychiatry_195_17

But male abuse in any form - sexual or emotional never garners any support or attention, because in a country still haunted by menstruation taboos and virginity and purity fetishes, what does a male child who presumably has nothing to lose, lose through emotional or physical abuse? We have people by the dozen in India who believe a male cannot be raped. If a physically abused female is ostracized and pronounced unfit for marriage, a physically abused male is ostracized as fit to be a woman and hence best shunned altogether by society as he failed the entire patriarchal collective ego. More often than not, it goes unreported.

Unfortunately, the same applies to an emotionally abused male and is not even acknowledged since it questions the virility of the entire gender. And that at the hands of a woman? So, silence is the lone reaction to male abuse and that is what we've been rampantly seeing here as well. Or we have female gender representatives deriving second-hand vengeance and a false sense of collective joy of the abuse, much of the kind of reactions to anti-jewish pogroms.

Add to this, the fact that Vikas is bi-sexual, and it's like he has self-ostracized himself and subjected himself to the homophobic gaze. Even if Vikas' sexuality was unknown, people in the house would still have bullied him for his physique, his looks, his mannerisms, his intelligence- since yes, he is different from the stereotype male and wears his heart on his sleeve, another assumedly female attribute.

Whether rigged or not, this shouldn't have happened and shouldn't be happening on any reality show in the world. It is dastardly and a shame to Indian television. Period.

Edit: Let me add that if Vikas doesn't go legal with all that he has endured within the house against her, I'll be pressed to think rather poorly of him.


Uma I second each word u mentioned. How well u write. Take a bow.

It should not happen to anyone anywhere anytime.

Worst is that the culprit got this overnight fandom after that so called entertainment n is still basking in that glory. Is this for real?
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Lhethal.Me

Signed the petition. How does it work though? Will they look into it if it crosses the 200 mark?


No idea. I signed too. But have written in as well and tweeted, though the latter may not make a difference.
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Posted: 7 years ago
Anyone in two minds about today's show?
I am trying to avoid family tasks. But I am torn due to Vik's well styled look. 😆


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