Doormat!!!

There have been numerous topics and posts about Tanisha by "Tanisha haters" and quite a few "Gauhar fans" about how Tanisha is a doormat to Armaan...
Now the question arises, isnt Gauhar a doormat too?
From the past few days, Kushal and Gauhar fight everyday... and Kushal is pretty rude to her... and still she goes to him and locks herself up in the washroom with him... tries to make him understand "all the time"... Does that not count upto being a doormat

The only similarity between Gauhar-Kushal and Armaan-Tanisha r dat dey have disagreement and fight. But Gauhar does not take all the crap dished out by Kushal and neither does Kushal. She does not go and say it was her fault or try to justify his anger by saying she spoke out of turn. In Gauhar-Kushal's relationship dey give space to one another and respect each other and though Kushal nowadays is getting more worked up and not surprising coz of all the crap he gets during the weekends, but dey sort out their differences by mutaul consent and not by one of them meekly accepting dat dey r at fault.

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

The only similarity between Gauhar-Kushal and Armaan-Tanisha r dat dey have disagreement and fight. But Gauhar does not take all the crap dished out by Kushal and neither does Kushal. She does not go and say it was her fault or try to justify his anger by saying she spoke out of turn. In Gauhar-Kushal's relationship dey give space to one another and respect each other and though Kushal nowadays is getting more worked up and not surprising coz of all the crap he gets during the weekends, but dey sort out their differences by mutaul consent and not by one of them meekly accepting dat dey r at fault.

well said 😃

Gauhar kushal Fightss...
whereas Armaan bullies Tanishaa...
there lies the difference...

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

The only similarity between Gauhar-Kushal and Armaan-Tanisha r dat dey have disagreement and fight. But Gauhar does not take all the crap dished out by Kushal and neither does Kushal. She does not go and say it was her fault or try to justify his anger by saying she spoke out of turn. In Gauhar-Kushal's relationship dey give space to one another and respect each other and though Kushal nowadays is getting more worked up and not surprising coz of all the crap he gets during the weekends, but dey sort out their differences by mutaul consent and not by one of them meekly accepting dat dey r at fault.

well that is definitely a reply from an ardent Gauhar fan... becoz in yesterday's episode, all I saw was Gauhar taking crap from Kushal... even today I hear that Kushal is insulting her in livefeed...
Yes Tanisha loves Armaan alot... and sometimes she agrees with him... but she does give him back and say that she wouldnt take that crap!

Originally posted by: Piya1702

Gauhar kushal Fightss...
whereas Armaan bullies Tanishaa...
there lies the difference...

I am not asking for any difference... I am saying there is NO DIFFERENCE

Before that tsunami...hawas ki agan 😆

Originally posted by: Tashu.

well that is definitely a reply from an ardent Gauhar fan... becoz in yesterday's episode, all I saw was Gauhar taking crap from Kushal... even today I hear that Kushal is insulting her in livefeed...
Yes Tanisha loves Armaan alot... and sometimes she agrees with him... but she does give him back and say that she wouldnt take that crap!

U r missing the point. When in anger u may say or in fact u do say a lot of hurtful thiongs, especially to the person u r closest too.Gauhar realized that and she was making Kushal understand that what he was saying wasn't right and dat she too could say things, but she wasn't. At that point Kushal wasn't in d mood to listen. Later dey sorted out the difference in the bathroom. we don't know exactly what tarnspired, so I wouldn't speculate. But when Tani and Armaan fight armaan intimidates Tani and literally forces her to admit she was wtong else emotionally blackmails her by saying things liek ok if that's what she wants he'll go and pick up fights wid all the housemates and poor tani has to end up saying she was wrong.

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

U r missing the point. When in anger u may say or in fact u do say a lot of hurtful thiongs, especially to the person u r closest too.Gauhar realized that and she was making Kushal understand that what he was saying wasn't right and dat she too could say things, but she wasn't. At that point Kushal wasn't in d mood to listen. Later dey sorted out the difference in the bathroom. we don't know exactly what tarnspired, so I wouldn't speculate. But when Tani and Armaan fight armaan intimidates Tani and literally forces her to admit she was wtong else emotionally blackmails her by saying things liek ok if that's what she wants he'll go and pick up fights wid all the housemates and poor tani has to end up saying she was wrong.

You are missing exactly the same point here... Tanisha once said that she understands Armaan's anger... that he is not a bad man behind the anger... so sometimes she lets him say what he wants to... This was called as being a doormat...
whereas, Gauhar, in your opinion, understood that Kushal said hurtful things becoz he was angry... and this attitude is not "doormat"...
Tanisha has from time to time said that she wouldnt take this crap from Armaan.. she walks out... and she even says that they will not talk again... but later they both realise that they are there for each other...
How is Gauhar's realisation different from Tanisha's?

Originally posted by: Tashu.

I am not asking for any difference... I am saying there is NO DIFFERENCE

mam u r twisting ur own words now...u said there is no diffrenece between gauhar n tanisha regarding both of them being doormat...n thats what i showed u what is the difference between them which prove gauhar isnt doormat n tanisha is...