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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Piya1702


mam u r twisting ur own words now...u said there is no diffrenece between gauhar n tanisha regarding both of them being doormat...n thats what i showed u what is the difference between them which prove gauhar isnt doormat n tanisha is...



and Kushal's behaviour in yesterday's episode was not bullying, in your opinion...
You sure gonna watch that again!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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gauhar is not doormat... we have all seen who is doormat... 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: khamosshhh

The only similarity between Gauhar-Kushal and Armaan-Tanisha r dat dey have disagreement and fight. But Gauhar does not take all the crap dished out by Kushal and neither does Kushal. She does not go and say it was her fault or try to justify his anger by saying she spoke out of turn. In Gauhar-Kushal's relationship dey give space to one another and respect each other and though Kushal nowadays is getting more worked up and not surprising coz of all the crap he gets during the weekends, but dey sort out their differences by mutaul consent and not by one of them meekly accepting dat dey r at fault.


ARE WE EVEN WATCHING THE SAME SHOW? Gauhar has constantly tried to shut up Kushu Bwoy. She doesn't let him speak his mind because it questions her behavior and motives and makes them a laughing stock if they fight now on camera. Is that giving SPACE.??? No way! Which respect? When Kushal was upset, Gauhar was keen on dancing away and was pretty insensitive. And then gave him a lecture on how to behave in front of the cameras. Poor guy! She is a control freak!

she is also listening to his nonsense. There have been several instances where Kushal has rudely told her to shut up, "don't talk to me"... "Get lost, I don't want to talk to you" and she has listened to this.

Anything goes for the cameras and to keep the pretense up. If you read Kushal's body language, he is getting tired of her 'image rants'. That is why he was exasperated and kept questioning het - what is wrong with you? And Gauhar kept shutting him up, in a low, menacing voice. 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tashu.



You are missing exactly the same point here... Tanisha once said that she understands Armaan's anger... that he is not a bad man behind the anger... so sometimes she lets him say what he wants to... This was called as being a doormat...
whereas, Gauhar, in your opinion, understood that Kushal said hurtful things becoz he was angry... and this attitude is not "doormat"...
Tanisha has from time to time said that she wouldnt take this crap from Armaan.. she walks out... and she even says that they will not talk again... but later they both realise that they are there for each other...
How is Gauhar's realisation different from Tanisha's?



OK if dat's how u want to see it. IMO Gauahr would never take the crap and tone of voice dat Armaan uses , which BTW Kushal never does nd as Slaman so eloquently showed would give it right back. Whereas Tanis doesn't. But if u r so adamant to show tht Gauhar is like Tani to justify Tani or make Gauhar look like Tani den dat's ur prerogative.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I just don't get this forum sometimes, we constantly talk about respecting women and how so and so stood up for the right of women and how so and so disrespected women but on the other hand women are being called "DOORMATS" for being a little passive.
I don't think anyone should be called a doormat, everyone can see that Tanisha has been quite submissive towards Armaan but the reason behind that is Armaans personality and that is how she calms him down, same thing with Gauhar who is not as submissive but slates him like a mother due to his personality. Both are means to an ends, both actions work towards the same goal.
However Kushal has been more counterattacking with Gauhar recently therefore resulting in her becoming more defensive, but still it is no reason for calling anyone a Doormat.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i have also made the same topic thread in morning 😆😆
Edited by ravibans - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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oh yes... like minded people :)
mods can merge these threads

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