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Posted: 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@sweetshruti during marriage episodes itself I had told Saanjh had not let go of Arjun. The feelings exist. And when he told ILU in that drunken state it got awakened. She felt a desire. Because Arjun was bad mouthing Maya and praising her. Somewhere that little desire ticked in. Her duffer.

@Misty leashes cannot keep Saanjh. She will come back again and again as long as she is a single woman.To be frank I hope Maya pregnancy is fake. Because if it is real then I wont be able to forgive Saanjh for what is going to happen to Maya. Saanjh has to remember she is friend and Maya is Arjun's wife and that is very very clear.


Shruti, I hope Maya's pregnancy is real. I can never forgive Saanjh for involving with her friend who is already married. If she loses her friendship with Arjun, she deserves it. Even Arjun deserves to get isolated. It is better for Arjun to be alone rather than having friends who provoke him & make him drink. Saanjh & Arjun are sick.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I posted the same on some other thread also so what i think is...
Firstly the two glasses sanjh and arjun drank previously was only plain thandai not the bhang ...
Secondly when Arjun asked sanjh to have another glass of "plain thandai" not bhang at that time Maya brought the bhang mixed glasses of thandai ...
So the point of having a choice comes when you know what choices you have ...
They both never knew the glasses maya brought had bhang mixed ...
And how will they know because maya was the one who asked arjun not to drink so its not expeced that she will bring bhang hersef and it qas never mentioned anywhere its bhang ... So lastly they drank the glasses without knowing it waa bhang ...

Now the dance that was really very uncomfortable for all any married man is nit supposed to behave like that ... Arjun was the one initiating it ... Its really confusing what does he want... And sanjh should now let his duffer be the most idiotic duffer and move on ... she is at fault for still allowing him to take control on her emotions ...

Final point : the efect and reaction depends on person to person ... Its not like that you and your friend had same amount of alcohol and behaved similarly ... It all depend how you can handle .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@poornima she manipulated. Tell me why wouldnt she. The night before in dousing dusky's fire Maya burnt her hands. Arjun didnt even check with Maya how was she. Then Saanjh sent a message to Arjun asking him to meet her. Maya observed them where Arjun gets drunk and dusky almost kisses him. No wife will tolerate that and Maya is a bit abnormal and insecure. She did it. Maybe she was not completely right, but she was not completely wrong either. Also alchohol doesnt make you lose yourself like mad. Other people also had bhang, but they didnt behave like dusky and duffer.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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only one wrd..
DISGUSTING.. d way arjun & saanjh wer behavin.. 😡🤢🤢 it looked like "frdnshp" in no way. Frnz dont rub each odr's body like dis! its an insult to frndshp!! 😡😡

& IF saanjh fans stl justify her actions, then Ive no wrds fr dem!! 🤬

Poor maya. I felt vry bad fr her. 😭😭 she stl luvs arjun! dont do it baby! he doesnt deserve it! 😭😭
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Just wanted to add that us audience who have watched Indian TV serials are used to watch somewhat conevtional love stories where the girl and the guy once in love are committed, dedicated, completely invested in only each other no matter how many twists and turns they show.. this guy Arjun just doesn't fit the quintessential Indian TV ''hero'' for the simple reason that he doesn't seem to be in love with anyone but himself.. he doesn't seem to be in love ( the kind of love we know from Indian TV ) with Maya.. Like you said no man in love, forget married can treat his partner the way Arjun treated Maya today.. nothing can justify his actions today- his immaturity, naivety, intoxicated state- NOTHING... This man is not in love with Maya.. I don't know if he's capable of loving anyone more than himself.. loving someone wholeheartedly, selflessly is an alien concept for this guy.. Having a trophy wife in his arms, living off her money and at the same time enjoying bachelorhood with his female buddy.. he wants to have the best of both worlds while not being 100% committed to either.. all this without a shred of guilt.. he is not the ''hero'' we like to love in our Indian TV dramas.. he is not the hero at all..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: poornima_15

I posted the same on some other thread also so what i think is...

Firstly the two glasses sanjh and arjun drank previously was only plain thandai not the bhang ...
Secondly when Arjun asked sanjh to have another glass of "plain thandai" not bhang at that time Maya brought the bhang mixed glasses of thandai ...
So the point of having a choice comes when you know what choices you have ...
They both never knew the glasses maya brought had bhang mixed ...
And how will they know because maya was the one who asked arjun not to drink so its not expeced that she will bring bhang hersef and it qas never mentioned anywhere its bhang ... So lastly they drank the glasses without knowing it waa bhang ...

Now the dance that was really very uncomfortable for all any married man is nit supposed to behave like that ... Arjun was the one initiating it ... Its really confusing what does he want... And sanjh should now let his duffer be the most idiotic duffer and move on ... she is at fault for still allowing him to take control on her emotions ...

Final point : the efect and reaction depends on person to person ... Its not like that you and your friend had same amount of alcohol and behaved similarly ... It all depend how you can handle .


That is what I said. even if a person drinks, he/she has to keep control & not lose their senses. If the person cannot control, they should keep themselves away from such things. Bhang is a part & parcel of holy in some places. Arjun has blurted out nonsense whenever he drinks. But I never expected this from Saanjh.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@poornima she manipulated. Tell me why wouldnt she. The night before in dousing dusky's fire Maya burnt her hands. Arjun didnt even check with Maya how was she. Then Saanjh sent a message to Arjun asking him to meet her. Maya observed them where Arjun gets drunk and dusky almost kisses him. No wife will tolerate that and Maya is a bit abnormal and insecure. She did it. Maybe she was not completely right, but she was not completely wrong either. Also alchohol doesnt make you lose yourself like mad. Other people also had bhang, but they didnt behave like dusky and duffer.

yes you are right that they went beyond the limits with each other ... But don't you think all this woukd have been avoided if they were not given the bhang... Then the whole this dancing part could have been avoided ... I dont justify their actions today but i say that their was no need to take it beyond the limits if the water spill from the bucket there is someone who is adding extra water or its the carelessness of keeping the tap open ...
Here its both .. the maya supplying bhang in form of extra water and anjh letting the tap open in the for of her never subsiding love ... Both the actions lead to the unexplainable incident that took place today ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kavsy


That is what I said. even if a person drinks, he/she has to keep control & not lose their senses. If the person cannot control, they should keep themselves away from such things. Bhang is a part & parcel of holy in some places. Arjun has blurted out nonsense whenever he drinks. But I never expected this from Saanjh.

i said that before also ... That they never knew it was bhang and bhang from maya herself to arjun could not be expected ... .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I totally understand that people shouldn't behave in a particular way and not all people behave that way. But some people easily lose it when they drink little while some people have practice and they don't lose it. Some people end up doing things they regret for life. But at the end of the way they were not in senses and dint do it deliberately and certainly not to be blamed. Maya isn't wrong because of they misbehaved. Maya isn't responsible for their behaviour. Maya is responsible for the drama she staged. How she twists and turns situations to her benefit and ends up looking like a victim which she isn't. Sometimes i wonder whether did she really triggered ashwin to behave like an animal so that jhanvi and ashwin separate. She never wanted to share her mother s love with ashwin.

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